Storytime: My BF STOLE my MONEY!!! | ZIVA

I am doing this storytime to prevent this happening to other women. This will give you more insight into why I only date beneficially and why it is so important to me. Aside from the fact that dating a financially unstable man creates the worst start to life for your children if you decide to have them, but it also usually creates issues in romantic relationships making them fragile hence being one of the main reasons for divorce! At the time when my boyfriend stole from me, it was a very hurtful time. I'd like to use my past experience to create awareness to women to prevent this from happening to as many ladies as possible💕🌷 Ig: @sarastyleguru

[hi]

I really feel you about the deep down hating him part. Nothing disgusts me more than men who can’t even take care of themselves! You can’t fake respect

[LaBellaDonna]

On top of it, when you give money to a man and help him out, you are literally giving yourself which can be draining. And it takes you longer to heal if the relationship doesn't work out. When you do not give anything to a man, you are able to bounce back much easier if the relationship fizzles out because you didn't lose anything. Scorned, bitter women are women who gave their time, energy and money to a man and received nothing. Protect your heart protect your sanity .Do not give your all to these men because I promise you they are not worth it

[briannaoppong-antwi]

I love this! As women, we tend to worry about everyone else’s feelings and what they need before ourselves. We need to put ourselves and our best interests first, just like everyone else does. Otherwise, others will take advantage of us, if they are given the chance.

[KeepTheFaith]

Yes, always put yourself 1st. At least it didn't take a whole bunch of bums to realize you are the prize. Thanks for sharing n I love your advice. Be blessed!

[femininefeline]

Girl I know the feeling. My ex bf stole my phone and sold it to buy heroin...I'm so thankful to be on this level up journey. No more making excuses for men and allowing them to mistreat me. I deserve the best and so do you. Much love gorgeous! ❤️

[thandotsengiwe]

How dare he feels comfortable to use your card without your permission and groom himself on your budget. He had no shame. But such situations help us grow and make us realize what we Do Not Want.

[melanier]

Love the story time! I have a similar story.
Then after not communicating for 2 years I was bored one day so contacted him and we met at a restaurant. After our drinks he claimed he didn’t bring his wallet!! I got up and walked right out and called an Uber home!

[danaik]

I've never had anyone steal a cent from me. If this had happened to me, I would have called the cops on the spot.

[PrincessJas]

Omg girl I swear I went through a situation SO SIMILAR!!! I’m so glad to have learned my lesson

[ladymarie]

Looking so pretty! I was gonna stay in and not wear makeup, but no Imma put my face on💖😂

[mercedescreates]

Yeah I did a quick 180 to this life after a guy I was seeing robbed me 🙄 that kind of violation really does a number on you! Better outcomes necessitate better mindsets and strategies.

[beylicious]

Hi.. My ex boyfriend also stole my money and paid the hotel room we stayed in... Thank God I was able to get outta that relationship

[ggll]

I love how you and took the time to look through your insecurities and heal yourself 😍 your videos are so helpful thank you

[dwise]

Whew girl thank God you were delivered!

[Jade]

Wow we are actually twins 🥺🥺 I had an identical situation, I was too understanding and too empathic and I literally paid for it in the end. But like you said these situations are definitely a learning curve and that is not happening to me ever again. I didn’t even want my money back, it was not worth having to still communicate with him so I just wrote it off. These situations happen when you focus too much on ‘potential’🙄🙄 but we’re on to bigger and better 💕

[theamethyst]

I don’t know how men can live with themselves asking women for money, it’s honestly so disgusting and a huge turn off. I have zero respect.

[saraha]

Thank you Ziva for sharing your story.

I can totally relate, my experience was psychological and financial drain; he continually siphoned my energy through suicidal manipulations (first break up, limited to stop communication etc) and constant psychological drivel.

Everything changed when he lost his job, knew one of my standards: a man cannot live with me before marriage and/or simply hang out at my home and abused my kindness.

I understand that deep feeling; I began to dislike and disrespect him within, however I never once expressed it.

The psychological recovery was hard during that time (my first relationship & I ended it swiftly); I questioned myself why did I agree to be his girlfriend? How could I allow/tolerate psychological mistreatment for so long? - I've always guarded my emotional investments and time. In hindsight, it's like he wanted to destruct my emotional strength/boundaries - (few occasions his compliment was 'beautiful mystery.')

I agree Ziva, certain events make us regard our standards and gives essential growth. Hopefully, inspire others just like this video!

[jamiechang]

You just say everything that I felt when I was dating down. Im starting to stop dating down and go up.

[justdesi]

Love how open you are about your mistakes.

[garranthonia]

The part where
she said " girll " 😣😄❤