90% Of Women Make This Mistake With Men

[ceeceesochi]

Mannn every time I show them love they take advantage. I’m tired of all these rules and games 💯

[jaydakisS]

💯💯💯 they want you to chase but then you’re too needy if you overdue it and a game playing player if you don’t chase enough. It’s madness 🤯🤯🤯

[Mrzcakesn]

So true!!! This just happened to me and this is what he said… don’t let you thinking he’s too busy for you to call him. Believe me he’s going to answer to hear your voice and get back to work…

[mercuryRed]

It's hard to find the line because if you over give, you might look desperate but if you don't give enough, you might look disinterested. And sometimes no matter how much you give, they just keep playing games anyway and you just never know. I am tired :(

[nadairaiyanna]

Every person is different. Just be yourself and if he/she likes you then they’ll gravitate towards you. If they don’t then it’s not a good fit and you should fall back and continue to enjoy yourself along the way either way.

[natashatwine]

Yall, trust your mothers and aunts wisdom. We were raised not call men, I'm sticking with that.

[marcellejane]

When you do reachout and put in the two way effort they start running 🏃‍♀️ and taking advantage of your kindness. let's be real ive experienced this several times from men. I actually don't care anymore because im doing me and I dont see them care about me, so ill care about myself. I'm so much happier without drama and wondering why his acting a certain way and all this game playing nonsense. Ill still be kind and caring to the people who deserve my care and kindness. Life experiences have opened my eyes to alot. A real man will make it happen! ❤

[TheBeautifulShutin]

The trouble is there is a lot of advice saying to lean back and receive, not be clingy etc so it’s easy for a woman to get in her head.

[nateashacarter]

He could also be not reaching out cause he was already messing with someone else to begin with 🤷🏾‍♀️

[augarethomas]

If a relationship has true reciprocity, those problems don't show up. Both partners give 100% and keep it pushing. No games played. Love flows freely. When in doubt, talk, then walk it out. You're not the one.

[TT-ikzq]

But we’re taught men like the chase.. dating is so dang confusing these days !!

[dianalereve]

Well this one REALLY depends on how much effort he has already put in.

[melissastreeter]

You're missing one important thing. Women want to see if the man has that hunter/protective/savior instinct. Not aggressive. Not controlling. Just actively courageous. If he doesn't make that first move first, like never getting a second chance to make a first impression, he shows his true mettle. Once he shows interest in the proper order of ancient convention, women feel free to move about within that escalated understanding. It's a mating ritual that, if tweaked to suit "updated" mentalities, won't start or end well, because the subconscious never lies.

[cielostack]

He’s the one who reaches out via phone calls😊which I love!!! I’m the consistent texter but also have called him, too. It is the consistent communication that we both have provided each other. It works for us!!!

[henryward]

THKU SIRR 4 SAYN THE TRUTH OUT LOUD 2WAY STREET!!! WE BUILDN TOGETHER SHOULDN'T MATTER WHO TALKS FIRST Y MISS REALOVE THINKN SELFISH?

[staceykelly]

Men hate it when women "reach out". They call us clingy.

[nayjavu]

I'm a person that matches energy. If you start out blowing me up and I'm returning that energy and grow to expect it...then you start reducing that communication, I will do the same. Then I will address it and let you know that the pull back makes me feel a way allowing for the possibly that you just didn't realize you're doing it. If you continue to do it...then again, I match that energy and just put in zero effort. Amazingly with most men with poor intentions, that's how you just stop talking. They were looking for a way out, and the minute you cracked the door...they walked right out that MG.

Right wrong or indifferent...my behavior is always in response to someone "changing up". Letting men do all the work...nah...i think we should show some attention as well but if you start out acting like that's your role...and show me a pattern of behavior then let me meet you there, you can't just not show up and then gaslight me into thinking it's just some weird happenstance that caused the change. Nah...you're doing what you want to do and drew me in with a level of attention you couldn't maintain.

[LVLady]

A man should still initiate most of the contact.

[JFL]

Damned if you do damned if you don’t.. when I asked I got ridiculed. Then I pulled back and get called every name under the sun..

[yokimawhittaker]

I've reached out to him so many times. Meanwhile I'm still waiting by the phone 🤣