Staying Together

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For more information, see:

Murray, S. L., & Holmes, J. G. (1999). The (mental) ties that bind: Cognitive structures that predict relationship resilience. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 77, 1228-1244.

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[johnleonard]

this is literally me. I always use the word "but" to lighten up the situation of the bad things that my partner does. It is also to show that I still appreciate her.

[DivingHawker]

It also prevents you from falling too much into negativity, forcing you to also consider the positive things and not be ungrateful for what you have instead of focusing on what could be.

[arifghauri]

A pearl of wisdom wrapped up in 59 Seconds. 👌

[notruca]

this man helped me out so much, respect to you sir.

[ultimobile]

That’s 59 seconds of my life I’ll never get back BUT I think I learned something useful.

[Reveire_]

"You are gaining weight but i think you always weighed that much"
Instructions unclear. She has called her lawyer and asking me for a divorce

[miempire]

You posted again!! I’m so happy!! I’ve been eagerly waiting!

[kqawiyy]

So in a relationship the most important thing is the butt? Got it, Excellent advice
Wish me luck fellas

[agirlwholovesJesus]

"He does X, BUT he also does Y." This is how I spoke to my friends about him and yet we ended up separating.

[LidlRaccoon]

The world needs this positivity. Thanks for being here.

[WashingtonSenators]

this man could make so many shorts, but he choses not too. What a bloody legend

[zoraa]

This man deserves more subscribers, way to underrated

[themadrabbit]

9 years later and the intro never gets old :)))

[paper]

all of this guy's videos are literally perfect for shorts

[alrreadyy]

Thanks for posting 59 seconds we appreciate it!

[fuki]

a classic, and a very well delivered video

[aps]

I need a cheat sheet for all these psychology tricks. Can't remember them

[antoniodejesusgarzaflores]

También había leído con la palabra "al menos" funciona en la mayoría de la situación para una parte incomoda del día. "Todo el día estuve sentado, al menos me relaje y no pensé tanto en mis problemas" En este caso puedes usar, pero y complementar de la misma forma "Todo el día estuve sentado, pero me relaje y no pensé tanto en mis problemas"

El punto es que se puede usar en todo tipo de situaciones y no lo había visto de manera social.

Gracias como siempre.

[wofii]

i am just realizing how these 59-sec videos would be such powerful yt shorts--

[doitvod]

Your channel is the best thing i've ever saw on yt