breaking the boundaries of traditional weddings

so i went to my brothers wedding in france and it awoke something inside my soul, which i felt compelled to talk about!

this is just my personal preference, but I reckon breaking the traditions of weddings is the new era of weddings!

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 intro
00:30 societal standards of weddings
1:31 breaking the traditional boundaries
3:02 why i loved this wedding
5:00 i was his best man
6:02 the speech
8:25 one of a kind wedding
8:48 socially awks coz people
9:12 the old band reunited
9:54 they made it their own
11:11 that photographer tho
11:56 own it...


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[RSmith-qduk]

A wedding is just a party which is specifically marking a marriage - it's a marriage party. The marriage is the actual important part. So, you get to decide what you do at the party. I haven't ever been to a uber-traditional wedding, because I'm not religious and neither are any of my friends - so all their weddings were something along these lines. Some had jazz-bands, some had a "quiet room" for guests to hide from overwhelm, some had a fire-dancer, some had scottish country dancing, some had a tea-ceremony, some had a nerf-gun fight, some had traditional drinking songs, some had a surprise love song performance, some had tents to camp in in the forest, some had a piper, some had no "first dance" or "giving aways", some had "mother of the bride speeches", some had dogs as ringbearers, some had olive oil as a party favour... - I digress, but IT'S A PARTY. So you do what YOU want for the party, and concentrate on the MUCH MORE IMPORTANT PART which is the marriage itself.
I think a lot of people end up divorced because they confuse the two.

[allenqueen]

The wedding looked beautiful. South of France, quaint little huts, close family and friends, swimming in the morning with jamming in the night- just wow.

Oh btw, wait till you hear that some people take out huge loans for the wedding that they keep paying back years after.

[asadzeethree]

Congratulations to your brother and your sister-in-law 🥳🎉🎂. Really glad you had a great time! You're The Best!!!👍💯🌟💫💞

[chelseawilliams]

The wedding looked absolutely beautiful! Big congratulations to the newly weds.
Me and my Husband had the traditional wedding, which personally I loved! It was a real princess day. My brother did a speech, my Dad or my Husband didn’t. We didn’t pressure people either.
I had a bridesmaid and two men of honours ❤
Our photographer was totally chilled and funny, great with kids! And also let every guest get a picture with their family, just beautiful. Ps - it cost an arm and a leg for my dad LOL xx