Deserve (maybe deserve-maxing isn't the best strategy right now)

A lot of people are trying to game the dating scene with charts. What most of them forget is the parts of the market they DON'T like.

These girls were thinking about their options in terms of how to select the ones they like the most. I gave them an extra dimension on their chart (it is now a cube) to remind them that the market isn't actually bursting at the seams with guys who are ready, willing, and able to provide the experience they want the most, and sometimes, for some women, it's better to pick a guy who's on his way rather than waiting for one who's already there.

A lot of guys would appreciate having someone lock in before the struggle is over. I know I would have!

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[Danbecker]

Dating advice for men: "You need to better yourself."
Dating advice for women: "You deserve better."

[mistersmith]

No one gives women worse advice than other women.

[multieyedmyr]

What do women like to say? Men aren’t owed anything by women. Sister it goes the other way. Men don’t owe you.

[justaguy]

If Buddhism has taught me anything, it is that the word “deserve” is the cause of most of our suffering.

[bc]

"I am not allowed to date within the Trauma quadrant anymore" is gonna be broken faster than a New Years Resolution to go to the gym

[konignickerchen]

"These guys are low IQ" swiftly followed by "he can be a nuclear scientist" is insane to me.

[kylemacdougall]

"What is your wish, Dorothy?" asked Glinda the good witch.

"I want a top-tier man who makes at LEAST $150k and ain't no scrub!" said Dorothy.

"Simple, " said Glinda. "Just close your eyes and click your heels together and repeat after me: I deserve it. I deserve it. I deserve it. I DESERVE IT."

[justinc]

"Women don't want to be in the struggle box. They want us to win first and then share." That's probably the most accurate thing I've ever heard you say.

[RShaun]

So these women solved dating by once again omitting attraction. They really are eye blind to attraction and most of us aren’t people.

[bannedmann]

You know you’ve made it when female content creators are ripping you off.

[pwabd]

You can explain the lack of top tier men to women all day. And they will completely understand how rare that guy is. The breakdown comes from the fact that every one of them think that they're the special girl one of those men will want.

[saureco]

So, none of the men in the "deserve" category will get cheated on, right?

No?

That's what we all thought.

[DaBigArmyDude]

Accidentally admitting nuclear science is easier to understand than her needs.

[Letsplay]

Date a guy who is smart and nice. Don't date a guy that is dumb and mean. Boy, what a profound insight they have.

[RogerNbr]

notice how only women deserve love unconditionally
while men have to work for it and it remains very conditional on providing
if it stops, the love is gone

[christopherpardell]

Reminded of that experiment where they put a rat in simple maze each day with a sweet drink dispenser at one end, and a sweet bit of food dispenser at the other, setup so that picking either one would de-activate the other, so the rat could only get one Or the other, but never both. They figured they would be able to tell when the rat understood the rules when the rat consistently picked just the one that he liked more. Instead, one day, the rat just sat there in the center, and from that day on never made a choice. Turns out he would rather have the option of choice, and get nothing, than pick one if it means losing the option for other. This is where we are today with dating apps.

We like the illusion of options More than ever actually making the choice that would take those illusory options away and as a result we get nothing at all.

[UncensoredScion]

While I repeatedly think that things like TikTok have been a net negative for society, there's always part of me that is at least grateful at them existing so we can at least document the level of damage that's been done over the course of the last 100 years.

[ethanetn]

She basically just wrote down "give me everything i want" and made a video telling everyone she fixed everything and that shes so smart

[kresovk]

Dumb & Nice :
"They are low in IQ and high in EQ"
"He could be nuclear scientist and not know present to give you..."

If a person just speaks words without even understanding what they are saying, when they are just spouting nonsense...

What value can I expect to find in rest of their opionions?
If you ask me, best to just move on.

[cryptojihadi]

In short, this woman "SOLVED" dating by just telling women to pick the 0.01% guy.

BRILLIANT!

Honey, we already knew that's what you were gunning for YEARS ago.

BTW, I know NUMEROUS 7's that GOT the 0.01% guy, and guess what? They STILL weren't happy and blew up the marriage.