When People Tell Us Our Marriage Won’t Last #trans #transwoman #lgbt #queer #marriedlife #mtf

[cara.in.the.valley]

My wife and I heard the same thing (from close family no less) after telling them my wife is trans. It was really difficult to hear but we knew they’d see for themselves! Several years later here we are ☺️ We love you gals! 🥹 Thank you SO MUCH for sharing your story and showing how beautiful it is! 🩷 it’s amazing to see others with a similar story to us! Media and society would have us all think that this story can only end one way and yet for us we can’t fathom a life without each other! 🩷

[GreenEyedLady]

This is so very sad to me. I actually feel very sad for his wife (the original wife) not sure how to best word that! I think that if someone is struggling with their gender identity, it is not fair to the person they are in a relationship with to be their untrue self then after marriage and children decide actually I don't want to be a man, I want to be a woman. I'm sure his wife didn't imagine om her wedding day that she would inadvertently become a lesbian years later. I think these things need to be talked through up front. If my husband decided he wants to be a woman, I guarantee you we would probably be best friends for life given that we have children together but we would NOT be married anymore because I am not a lesbian and I would no longer be married to my husband. My husband feels the same way as well. This is all very sad despite what they would like to portray online.

[lexi-the-hildafolk]

I would do the same for my husband. Sometimes we are just meant to be with one person no matter what life throws our way❤❤❤

[DisyaRealLife]

This is what u call real and unconditional love. When the love u have between 2 people transcends, limitations such as skin color, body type, wealth, status, gender. When a person can truly love u for u and accepts all parts of u, is truly a blessing. Most people will never experience true love.

[nicolerice]

This is the perfect example of Loving someone’s Soul.

[AshleySmith-kk]

You are a better woman then me. Hubby could be my new BFF, but I could not “be” with a woman…..even if they “used” to be my husband. I am not attracted to femininity at all. I also don’t feel like I could trust that sometime down the road a new “change” could come….what if in another 10 years they realize they are into men, just like they realized they wanted to be a woman. I would not trust the process here. You are a brave, kind, accepting person. Bless your soul and your kind heart ❤️ I do very much so hope for you that you are happy and that this life brings you the same kindness you show others.

[SavannaBanana]

Unpopular opinion but I have always thought about this in the sense of “they want to be you” more than “they want to be with you”

[gysmokates]

People pretend to know the complexities of a couple's relationship. They don't. This is beautiful the love you have for each other. Allowing the other to be their most authentic self. This is unconditional.❤❤❤❤

[sngray]

I love this Mazzy Star song! 🤘🏽 The two of you are soulmates and love each other on a deeper level than some people will ever be blessed enough to experience in their lifetime.

[HoldGiaCarangiCloseToOurHearts]

When I pick a partner, it's not the package. It's the soul that I'm after.

[lorigravelin]

Love is love and to each their own . For me personally, I married a man, if he decided to change then he’s no longer a man nor the man I married.

[PassionatelyTaylorMarie]

you deserve all the love and light. never let anyone tell you otherwise. love is beautiful. yall are beautiful

[jmas]

Have you guys considered renewing your vows? It would be awesome for ya'll to have wedding pictures that better reflect you guys' identity, both singularly and as a couple.

[Scarymoondust]

Never listen to those negative people you both love and cherish each other very much and I love you both just the way you are no matter what when you tell each other I got you I got you you really do mean it never let other people stress you. Life is already hard enough. I love you ladies ❤️❤️❤️❤️ take care of each other

[imyourdad]

People hate to see others happy, or are jealous that yall had the determination, skill and commitment to navigate a monumental shift within the family and individually. I’m sure it wasn’t easy, but it sure seems worth it via your videos. Love is the most powerful force on earth. It’s wonderful that yall get to experience it together. ❤❤❤

[mypaperdreamz]

Watching your video I busted out crying. We all change, life throws things at us that we never expect. To stay with each other through this type of change speaks so loudly about unconditional love. When you love someone you love the real person, the inner person. I’m married, old and straight. But to see this type of dedication to each other is absolutely beautiful in my opinion.

[Gigilovesu]

Beautiful couple and one amazing family. Love the song choice❤

[sarahyates]

Just 2 people who are truly in love. You love to the soul it doesn't matter what the outside looks like.

[LXCD-tp]

Uh it's a hard no for me on this.. But I would not be cruel to my husband as I ended the marriage..I would wish him the best as I exit stage left

[janebaker]

Nope. Could never.
If i want to date a girl i would have.