11 Psychologically-Proven Flirting Strategies!

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Top flirting strategies that are psychologically proven! Watch this video to learn how to flirt better using science and how to flirt successfully by studying these scientifically proven flirting techniques!

9. Hard to Get -

Another proven strategy when it comes to flirting is playing hard to get. Jumping into things too quickly can be the downfall of any relationship and can push someone away even if you’re not in it for the long-run. It seems to be human nature to want the things we can’t have, which might be the reason dieting is so hard… once you tell yourself you can’t have pizza, it becomes the only thing you think about. Well, the same thing goes for romance; if you think someone is unattainable, then you’ll work harder in your pursuit of their affection. Taking the chase out of the equation makes things boring for guys and girls alike. So, don’t give into the flirtation too quickly because it’s less likely to work. One aspect of this strategy is called the “push-pull” method. The “push” means to keep the other person on edge and keep them guessing whether or not you are romantically interested; this can be achieved with vague comments or body language. The “pull” means to regain their interest verbally or physically: compliments and light-touching work well for this technique. Playing hard to get works for both men and women equally and, if done correctly, could even land you a relationship.

8. Tone of Voice -

Have you ever heard a voice that nearly brought you to your knees? Well, unless it was the voice of God, probably not. However, one’s tone of voice plays a significant part in successful flirtation, especially concerning women. It’s proven that men find a gal more attractive if they fluctuate their pitch when speaking. Doing this portrays interest and confidence, and it usually comes naturally to the ladies out there. If you pay attention to other people’s conversations during a night out on the town, you’ll probably begin noticing that girls involved in flirtatious interactions speak in higher voices. Although other women might find this annoying, the men they’re after more than likely think it’s attractive. Plus, have you ever had a conversation with someone who doesn’t do this? Talking to a person whose voice remains monotone throughout the discussion is similar to talking to a wall; it conveys listlessness and boredom, and it probably means exactly what it projects. However, men aren’t expected to change their tones of voice as much as women do; girls find short and direct interjections alluring. Saying things like “I see,” “all right,” or “yep” lets a lady know that one, he’s paying attention, and, two, he’s a dominant figure.