the truth about dating rich guys you don't wanna hear

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[sumiha]

So true. That’s why women should be careful as to not get attached to the lifestyle alone, rather the person and their company. Many of my friends (not from the same background as I am) are now stuck to a man who is extremely demanding yet unfaithful :(

[vamastah]

My experience is that lots of women look for better lifestyle, not a boyfriend or a husband. Many of them do not want to understand that in order to buy a flat or a house, you need to save money, develop your skills, etc. That's why I end up with my wife, who is economically more or less equal to me - she is able to grasp that idea, because she comes from similar environment.
On the other hand, I would be cautious about rich guys if I were a woman. Many of them are narcissists and money is the only thing they offer. Bribing women to have a relationship with them is sooo toxic.

[crazyshay_idc]

I know wealthy girls who dated a poor guy. They ended in divorcing, and their mental health and wallet suffered. It doesn't matter how much wise you think they are, different economic background relationships can be hell. The thing is that culture made women give their money to man so I would definitely give think about this twice.

[kaloyandichev]

There's a middle ground where the man goes beyond his pride and not only provides for the woman but encourages her development in whatever her heart desires. Quite often the reason why rich men have a woman who operates a passion business (e.g. flower shop, hairdresser, modeling, movie star, etc.) -- the man handles the big business/financial decisions, the woman handles the passion required to keep the machine going. Likely not going to surpass the male's empire but it makes her financially independent, which is a plus for the male if he has gone beyond his pride and gets personal fulfilment from seeing his wife succeed.

[aprilflynn]

No matter what your social class is, you yourself should be financially independent. Never get in a situation where a romantic partner has total control of your finances. Have your own income capable of comfortably supporting you. Power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

[Jade-dbjx]

Totally got blindsided about the financial support from the dad thing because I forgot that people can have dads that are living. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️

[matejb]

There is a saying...
When a man earns enough money, he wants to starts a family. When a woman earns enough money, she feels she does not need a man, so she wants to be single and independent.

So maybe there is a reason why rich men don't want to date rich women. Men want to feel desired, respected, appreciated and providing for the family gives them joy

[govegsaveanimals]

My sis married a broke bum. He grabbed over 40℅ of everything, didn't pay a cent for his 2 kids (he abandoned them), and our family paid for everything and is still paying for everything, including the 2 kids.

[Sahalielove]

Don’t forget about the added danger of having a child with them! You don’t want the other side to have more money than you in a custody battle. Grimes is learning that now.

[soph]

Dating someone poorer also makes it hard to leave because I feel so bad taking away resources they rely on. Now I throw most of my money into charity projects, so there's nothing I can give a partner. I need them to also be fully financially independent.

[selohcin]

Women from wealthy families will never be satisfied with a poor husband, no matter how hard he tries. I've seen this myself.

[eve_sayings]

2:26 This last sentence yeaaa that hits really hard and I completely understand your point of view and I 100% agree with it. That's why my main goal is to be financially independent, and those men are not happy that I am not interested in them. Their entitlement and disrespect for women is insane.

[mickygarcia]

I get around this problem by not dating. All the money I would have to spend to impress a girl instead goes into my projects, investments and entertainment. I don't have to budget for expenses, so I pretty much get to eat better, sleep more, and work late without interruption. I have a luxury apartment near my job, so I don't need a car, either. My only regret is that I didn't start this lifestyle earlier. While other men are trying to "keep a woman", I find that they are easier and cheaper to "rent" them. And isn't that ultimately what women want from a man? Feel free to leave whenever you like. In fact, don't bother to come at all.

[erinlee]

That last line though. What happens when your dad is no longer living? You still have to financially support yourself. Don't always think you can depend on your parents. It's good, but at least have your own income as well.

[daysleepnightread]

My rich father was my biggest bully. After my parents divorced my mom ended up homeless and died at 64. Dad’s still alive and kicking in his multimillion dollar mansion. And I still have the dislocated rib from when he threw me against a wall of asking to trick-or-treat on Halloween 1995! Turned me off of richies for life! They can go to Hell.

[DyutishRambhia]

Whow wow, thank you for this eye opening video. Never realised it came from the need to feel hero or actually wanting to give better to ones u cared

[carolinamilanesio]

I’m a low middle class girl going to a private University with a scholarship 😂 what do I do? Well I’ll just focus on making my own bag for now

[misteshious]

Take it from me. Its hard to leave a guy poorer than you too when love is involved. Better to date rich then.

[mikeshafer]

Rich guy here. The reason I avoid poor girls is because it’s 2024 and expensive AF in America and the idea of being with a girl who can’t make six figures is a huge liability and makes me anxious. When I had a job in tech I was around super smart and successful women but once I retired all of a sudden the dating pool dried up fast. It’s rough out there as a rich guy if you’re trying to find a successful girl. She doesn’t need to be rich but a doctor, lawyer or engineer are preferable to a yoga teacher or artist. 💯

[nostromo.]

Why marry anyone in these days? It doesn't improve the relationship. And you will save yourself from an expensive divorce.