you used to be nice

[Maxiaki]

Feels like one of those "this is the ending huh" type of scene in a movie i watched 5 years ago.

[miostjarnbrandt]

"You liked me yesterday"
Man, that one hit close, my most serious relationship ended basically like that:/

[creeper]

This sounds exactly like the daily conversation I have with my cat.

[Senyin]

Had this friend, he use to be nice.
We shared many good moments together, I thought we were real close. I loved him like a brother.
Eight years.
Then on a whim, he through me under the bus as a scapegoat. He did something dumb, he needed someone to blame, he made tall tales and fabricated stories about how it must be my fault. All behind my back. Friends started to turn on me, I couldn't understand what was going on, and then he blew up on me with rows of lies and placements of his guilt onto my shoulders. He did this in front of others, insisted I was the liar. I lost so much within days, because he needed someone to blame.
It's been over a year, and yet I still think back on it every now and then.
He use to be nice.
Or was he ever?
Maybe he was always like this, and I was to wrapped up in how much fun I was having to see it.
Stepping back, the red flags are all over the walls. It's so hard to look at them, because I want to remember him as the man I admired and looked up to... but that man was a well crafted lie, wasn't it?
He was never a good man, was he? He threw his blame onto others to keep his image.
It hurts.

[electrolyteblend]

For anyone wandering the audio is from the Banshees of Inisherin. It's my favorite movie

[funtimestudios]

*"you used to be nice.. what happened to that?"*

[teleportsaroundyou]

Nothing like going over old texts to see the first messages filled with shy flirting turn into a cold sequence of letters pointing to the end

[nadamada]

Amazing work. Surprisingly emotionally, especially at the end, how the trumpet's quick hightones feel like a quick rising heartbeat when its mixed with the guy's increasingly emotional words. Thats how i saw it anyway, again, good job!

[hytranslate]

Its so fucked up to feel like this, to know someone grew out of your relationship, it doesn't even have to be anyone's fault, it's just how life is. Fucked up

[zendata]

algorithm blessed me with this at a weird time. its an odd vibe realizing you've been both of the speakers at different times

[rickybobby]

Sometimes when it snows in the middle of the night and everyone in the house and neighbors are asleep, I'll go outside and just stand there feeling the comfort of isolation

[TheNightWatcher]

Closest friendship of 10 years ended like this. Still not over it. Just wish I could go back to the good times.

[GoldenGyroBalls]

Banshees and Beale Street? What a combo.

[bahoonies]

I had a friend like that. We were best mates at school through our love of motorcycles. We did lots together. I often visited his home a few miles from mine. When we finished school aged 18 we took a holiday together to see a big motorcycle show in London. We had brilliant time and now 53 years on I still remember it fondly whenever I look back through old photographs. When the holiday was over, we travelled home chatting excitedly about our experience. When our ship docked, we said goodbye and headed home. I never saw my friend or spoke to him ever again and to this day I don't know what happened. I called to his house but he was never there and he didn't have a phone. I wrote and never got any replies. We were good friends but he cut me completely out of his life just like that. At first I was upset, then angry and then little by little I began to forget about him. He's still around. A mutual motorcycling friend told me he met him recently. I'm actually glad he's doing ok but I have no interest in him now. He cut me for his own reasons but the hurt felt then has long gone together with an interest I ever had in him. People can be very strange.

[kbfton]

"Really knowing someone doesn't mean anything. People change. A person may like pineapple today & something else tomorrow." - Girl in Blonde, Chungking Express (1994).

[mythtime]

The feeling you get when you realize “huh this is what this feels like”

[fakiriayoub]

Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.

[GloobyIsAmazingYes]

I’m sorry to whoever else feels like this. I just want you to know that I do too, and your not alone. Sometimes it’s nice to know your not alone

[coppercross]

I came across this video by complete accident, searching for the wrong thing. Glad I did, this is good.

[yappingbrain]

When you find out that your friendship wasn’t as important to them as it was to you: