My Sister Married My School Bully..

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The story: Growing up, I always felt like the "spare" compared to my twin sister Violet, who was beautiful, successful, and adored by everyone. I, on the other hand, was labeled as the "trouble" twin. My self-esteem suffered, especially when a boy named Daniel bullied me for years, leaving scars that took a long time to heal.

Now I’m 31, an educator, and living in another state. Violet and I are still close, but last year she told me she had met the "love of her life," James. I found out that James is actually Daniel, the same person who tormented me. Violet didn’t recognize him at first, and when she did, she was too in love to walk away.

When I confronted her, she dismissed my pain, and now my family is pressuring me to move past it and be her Maid of Honor. I’m torn between supporting my sister and protecting my inner peace. Am I the bad guy for refusing?

[TheUndeadDealer]

No. If a guy bullies you for years, and your family tells you to “get over it” their the problem.

[csmithba]

Ok let your sister be happy but you don’t have to go if you don’t want to you both need to live your life

[sammykittens]

No, if she want's to marry him fine but for your mental & emotional health don't attend & don't let your family bully you on this. They are ignoring your pain expecting you to keep sacrificing & that's not ok

[katiedavies-picknell]

You should let your sister be happy that you said confronting her wasn’t the right thing to do. You don’t have to go to the wedding but don’t let your pain take away from your sister happiness.

[samanthasenior]

Bro ur story sounds just like Bart smipson😂

[darrellwilliams]

At somepoint you gotta let go of the past. I had bullies in shcool. Im 42, I'm not holding onto grudges from my childhood. People grow up and people change. Ive ran into a few of my bullies over the years. Theyve apologized even though i never even held onto it. I just accepted it and moved on. People these days have this victim mentality that they hold onto all their lives. Its pretty sad to let childhood issues affect your whole life like that. 3 words... GET OVER IT

[bigkahuna]

AITA does not stand for am I the bad guy

[changedwarriorplayz]

If hes not treating you the same then ignore it

[mandyfaye]

Get over it bud that's life y'all are grown now you don't have to be around him if you don't want to. I've met plenty of my bullies since I've been grown and we have no issues you gotta forgive them for yourself ppl grow up and change. Be there for your sister.