SL: 'Help, He's Perfect But He's Broke!' #BrokeBae

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[mimico-conoelie]

Broke and lazy guys are the sweetest guys you will ever come across, especially when they see you have a good future. Run sis! He's an opportunist.

[edwardsmall]

When i was young there was this code amongst men. Stay away from relationships when broke. Sort yourself out first. It was just plain stupid to run after a woman when you were broke.

[azucarmorena]

i disagree. a man will only change if HE wants to. No amount of a woman's love will ever make a man change.

[GodiZreal]

I just broke up with a guy like this 5 days ago. We've been dating for two months and he got real comfortable asking me for money even though he knows I am a single mom. He was over my house practically every day eating up all my food and not contributing a thing. I gave him some advice and told him he needs to work on himself and find ways to make money he told me to f*** off. So I did and now he's pestering to get back into my life.

[AyeeeYoBee]

Take it from someone who’s experienced this for almost three years! My advice is to walk away while it’s early on & you’re too attached. It won’t work, a man whom doesn’t have enough urgency to do better for himself you my baby won’t stand a chance! Knowing what you bring to the table you’d be eating alone pursuing a man like himself. Maybe in the future he’ll get it together . In the mean time continue to focus on yourself & save yourself the financial burden.

[t.p.anderson]

Honey, don't compromise. You'll resent him if u commit to him. Don't trade ur life, happiness, future dreams for temporary bliss. Don't feel guilty b/c u want something different. YOU DON'T OWE HIM ANYTHING! U know what to do. Pray for an action plan.

[dawnyry]

I use struggle with that same thing. Understanding that just because a man is a good and kind man, doesn't mean that hes the good and kind man for me.

[manij]

He’s so sweet because he can see you liking him enough to take care of him . So don’t fall for it and bounce . He’s gonna he so sweet and so nice and get you emotionally hooked because he can’t offer much else

[jefferdenerochester]

I can't do Mamma's boys... I can't compete where I don't compare lol

[MugiwaraPiratesLover]

My ex was exactly like how she described him. They don't change. After 2 and a half years all the compatibility issues really came to light.

[lyfeiswhatyoumakeit]

Broke and perfect don’t belong in the same sentence. lol She’ll be a lawyer while he’s a mama’s boy working minimum wage. Lordt, ask that girl how she defines perfect.

[datgurlky]

Nah. He needs someone on his level. Maybe a chic working at McDonald's. They can have struggle love together. Ms. Law Degree doesn't need that. Chill before you end up pregnant. 😑

[HealingEraWithTricia]

He has to be perfect if he’s broke 😂😭. Now let me watch this sl lol

[cartrice]

Love doesn’t pay the bills honey. She needs to really consider everything that BG is saying. If she’s unhappy now, it’s only gonna get worse.

[SA-ntkl]

A man who has no ambition is far from perfect! Girl get a grip! I’m saying this with love

[lilhard]

My thing is this, if a woman can't ride with me during this struggle, no need for her to be with me enjoying the fruits of my labor. Fuck with me when I'm down is a test of loyalty & love.

[TheQueenIsHer]

Please take heed to this advise hun, I've dated broke for yearsss and it made me so bitter toward that person. Loved him, but I always felt like we were behind or I had to pick up their slack.

[LittleMissDeeDee]

This young lady sounds like she may have self-esteem issues. Maybe in her previous relationships or household she wasn't complimented or catered to very much, so meeting a man who is loving but bummy becomes very hard to let go of regardless of the cons.

[Luolabutterfly]

I feel like a lot of heavy truths were laid on this table. It really seems like the writer and her boo are aiming to live in different worlds. It's not fair of either of them to force the other to fit into whatever world they imagine for their future selves.

[GladysGrace]

Great advice sis. She gotta let him show and prove. The compatibility has a huge gap. 5 months in...all the red flags are there. Too much complacency on his part. She's gotta leggo!