Body Language Mistakes That Make People Like You Less

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Today, we're delving into 5 pitfalls that can diminish your charisma, and what you should do instead, to steer clear of these mistakes.


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0:00 - #1: Scanning the room
0:27 - #2: Don't let someone interrupt while someone else is talking to you
1:13 - #3: Trapping
1:37 - #4: Communicating shame
2:12 - #5: The eyebrow flash

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[smileyp]

0:34 the most charasmatic thing you can do if you're talking to someone and another person tries to get your attention is to acknowledge that you know they are there and tell them to wait a second so you aren't just straight up ignoring them for God knows how long, if you're gonna make someone wait let them know you know they're there

[forevermorbid]

Should do a video on how to stop from doing awkward goodbyes. For some reason I can never find the line of where the talking ends.

[KingLou]

I like how these are straight to the point

[ImKevPev]

This new format is cool, I love it! Please include some of the old though because it definitely has its own usefulness in real life examples

[janvaljan]

Hello! I've been following this channel for quite some time, and it's refreshing to see you guys try out new video formats. The animation feels very expressive, and really conveys the idea of the tips. I also enjoy how the content is short, and straight to the point.

With that being said, as a content meant to be used on social situations, in which people automatically mimic the behavior they've seen in other people, I believe it would be great for the channel to use footage of real people acting out the tips being presented, even if they're just acting. Watching people in action makes the video much more didactic, and from my perspective, a lot more aligned with the goals of the channel.

As someone who has received a lot of help not only from your videos, but from Charisma University as well, I hope you guys continue to grow and find new ways to share your ideas!

[Dabaiko]

Love the new format, thank you. Short, concise, to the point, you can include examples to make it more relatable, it doesn't feel like clickbait. You will be earning more viewtime and engagement this way, at least from me. I used to just read the comments for a 10 line summary of your 10 minute video; now I stay because it feels valuable. Glad you are taking it from this new perspective!

[burger-enjoyer]

I love this video. Short, informative, has funny people.

[kingthormak]

Animation is a very good way to clearly demonstrate some of the charisma rules. It's easy to understand and it is clear. However, It is also very good to have a human demonstration like with clips, demos, etc.

I think the best way is to merge both styles. Present a charisma tip or rule and demonstrate it with animation like this video's one. Then, when the people clearly understand the rule, give some clips of real-life examples. That's because every interaction is multi-layered and it can therefore (sometimes) be hard to pinpoint the rule.

Also, have been following this channel for years and have practiced many number of thought lessons. So my recommendation is from my experience learning from your videos, and I genuinely believe you have a great opportunity here.

[HankJostar]

Big fan of the new style Charlie. Love how well the new animations paint the story, really good visualization

[javierfva]

I love this video format. Keep it going!

[ShyamkrishnanNair]

Totally on point! The scanning-the-room tip is such a subtle yet powerful reminder. I used to think it made me look attentive, but really, it just gives off “I'm waiting for someone better” vibes. And letting someone interrupt? Gotta admit, that’s one I still slip up on—standing by the person speaking feels way more respectful. These reminders feel like steps to a Sense of Humor Improvement Program for charisma; it's all about mindful social habits.

[Set]

Love this went straight to it. The title and thumbnail were all the intro the video needed. It's why I clicked in the first place

[ΆγγελοςΒερβέρης]

Genius format with the animations, very helpful!

[TheRealHerbaSchmurba]

As always Charlie, great advice. Been with yall since 2016.

[capuchinosofia]

Love the new format! Simple and to the point

[Godslragon]

I love the new format, and the animations made me laugh.

[ivetmehmedova]

wow love the style. I think having videos of real people/reactions in your longer videos is super important, but I love this new style for the shorter ones!
Also best tip of the whole video: When you do something embarassing, do a funky little dance!

[abottleofRUMtv]

Nice, more of these animations please. Better than using celebs as examples.

[sel]

The videos being short and straight to the point is so dope

[sbgbreakfastclub]

Wow. The short video format is incredible! Best video from you I’ve seen so far!