4 Ways To Make Him Think About You When You're Not Around

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If you can make a guy think about you when you’re not there, he’s going to be all yours.
These tips work great at the beginning of a relationship, if you’re in the flirting stage, or even if you think he’s not interested. If you can get him to think about you and associate you with the right things, then he’s going to want to see you and be with you.

Loving Locally

Here’s a sneaky tip that will guarantee you’re on his mind even when you’re nowhere in sight. This one assumes you two are already having conversations. What you want to do is ask him about where he lives, his neighbourhood. Don’t probe too deep, you don’t want to be a stalker. What you want is to know a landmark he walks by every day and make him think of you whenever he sees it. Psychologists call this positive association.

For example, a client of mine had this wild story about swimming naked in a fountain that happened to be right by her crush’s house. You better believe that they’re now more than just friends.

If you’re not creative that’s okay. You can just say that the cool cafe down the street from him is your favourite spot. Tell him he has to try their lattes next time he’s around. Drop it into conversation a couple more times and pretty soon when he passes by the coffee shop, you’ll be on his mind. It’s that simple. It seems silly but I promise you, it works. Think of all the places and things that remind you of an ex. These can be powerful triggers to romantic feelings. Anyone who has ever heard “their song” on the radio and found themselves eating a big tub of ice cream, knows this to be true. What we’re doing here is making it happen in reverse. Building that memory to jumpstart the connection.

2. The “innocent” remark

Compliments will only get you so far. What I advise for tip two is a bit controversial but I swear it works. If you’ve ever heard of guys talk about “negging”, it’s a bit like that. You’re going to make a comment about his watch, his shoes, or something he wears every day. It shouldn’t be a compliment. Compliments don’t stick in our minds the way this comment will. Pick an item of clothing or an aspect of his appearance that you have something to say about. Don’t tell him his shoes suck. Here are a couple. “Where did you get those shoes? My dad is looking for something similar.” “You have cute little ears.” “You love to cuff your jeans, eh?” These are all comments that won’t quite hurt his feelings but they will make him think.

3. The disappearing act

This one is hard to argue with: if you want him to think about you when you’re not around, you need to spend some time... not around. Don’t move to China but if you’re always around him every second of the day, you’ll be familiar… and familiar things blend into the background. You don’t want that! Absence really does make the heart go fonder so if you’re always hanging around waiting for him to notice you, maybe take a few days off. Remember, your presence should be a present

4. Mystery over history

If he’s wondering about you, he’s thinking about you. You want him to wonder where you are and what you’re doing. This isn’t achieved by having an exciting, spontaneous lifestyle (although it helps). The real secret is that you can’t tell him every little thing you’re doing. If there are blanks then he’ll try to fill them in. If he likes you, it’ll make his mind run wild.

I find that the more private women are the more guys want to know what their deal is. And if he’s trying to get into your calendar instead of get into your pants, that can only be a good thing.
You don’t have to be standoffish but don’t be an open book, willing to dive deep into your personal life without provocation. You can still be flirty and friendly without giving away the farm.

Think of it like in high school. It’s always the new guy or girl that has everyone’s heart racing. And if you follow this advice, he’ll feel flustered whenever you look his way.

There it is, four ways to make him think about you when you’re not around. Do you have any suggestions of what my next video should be about? Some stubborn guy problem driving you insane? Leave it in the comments below and you just might inspire my next video.

Remember, if you’re in his head, you can get in his heart. Thanks for watching!

[XSLS]

Thankyou Amy North love the point about being private. Don't share every detail about what you are doing. Very true.

[johannabarnard]

You know, these make sence. I do these, but ' just because'.
I'm going to put this more into practice, from family and friends I see all the time, to even getting to know newer people in life. Even in the work environment ! Keeps people on their toes and gravitate to you IF they really find you instresting.
New goal for rest of this year and future : Be more proactive trying to get people to remember me to build stronger bonds.
Thank you.

[vanitarampersaud]

U don't have to do nothing to make a guy miss u if he likes u he will n if he don't just find someone else and jus continue being yourself...simple

[sudeshnaroy]

First cmnt! It's good to mk efforts for the guy who is worth it!Amy you're 💙

[deepikamaan]

Where have u been ?? Missed your vedios n you 🙃

[mariet]

So I've got a question. I can't tell if he likes me or not. Basically, I messaged him once, and the conversation just flowed effortlessly from there. The next day, he messaged me first and began starting up the conversation a ton. Then he began sending "goodmorning" texts and shirtless photos. He told me once that I was cute and had a unique personality. He'd also text me during school asking how my day's been going, and it was great. But then, he'd say things like "you're a great friend" and "I'm glad we're friends". So, that kinda confused me. I told my close friend and she said "I mean, if he's sending "goodmorning" texts and shirtless photos and texts you so frequently, that doesn't sound like something that "just a friend" would do". A little while went by, and I ended up accidentally admitting to liking him. Basically we were texting about romance movies and I said something without thinking it through so, yeah. He didn't make me feel weird or awkward, and he just said "I low-key knew already". I asked if this would ruin things, sense I thought that he was going for a friendship. And he said "yeah I was just going for a friendship but things change so if we ever want to be more than friends in the future we can discuss it, but I think that we should just be friends for now. Though I'm starting to like you too". Then one time I asked if there was anything new in his life and he just said "oh I've been talking to this one girl but idk. She hmu on social media and we've just been talking". That kinda confused me because I thought that he liked me. After a while went by, I began struggling to continue being friends because it's really hard to be just friends with someone who you like as way more than a friend. 2 months went by since we've been talking and occasionally hanging out, so being just friends was getting difficult. I ended up admitting it and he said "I'm sorry if I led you on, but I just don't think that I'm in the right mind set for a relationship right now." He has mentioned before how he's been hurt in previous relationships and how he doesn't feel like he's ready for a relationship yet. I'm not sure what to do now, like I still want this person in my life so badly, even if it's just as a friend. It's complicated though, having him as a friend when I like him as much more. His signals confused me cause for a while I believed that he felt the same way about me.

[victoriavaca]

How to know if a ex still likes you and keeps look at you following you around or miss hear your voice but he tell everyone he hates you but still likes me at the same time

[DN-envu]

I can't speak for all men, but I've seen a few of her videos, and she seems to understand how people like me think.

[indhumathiv]

Lol...i can't do this we broke up....and he blocked me...

[musicobsessedplantmomsup]

lmao i told him that he has a cute laugh. i think i got into a positive bound hahah

[l.obinduka]

How to take things to the next level? How to get him to ask for my number/ask me out . I’m in limbo

[lisasilber]

Thanks for the video, I think that’s my problem I’m just to open with him

[beinggreen]

How to get a guy to ask you out ..at his work place??

[saideepthi]

He left me. N now he’snt talking with me but I never forget him
The only reason his parents blackmailing him.
What I have to do to get him back?

[girlmoon]

Lols.... I told him once "you always wear blue underwears don't you?" Is that considered an innocent remark? 😂 😂 😂😂😂

[carolking]

CAN WE HEAR SOME INFORMATION ON KEEPING A WOMAN?

[robinmangoasmr]

He’s obsessed with me and I just met him. He wants to get married and be together forever. I love him but that’s only because it was forced. He wanted to have sex with me on the first day and he always writes me long love messages. I’m 3 years younger than him and only in high school. I’m terrified of commitment and have no idea what to do I’m only 15 and he says he will kill himself if I leave him idk what to do. I’m trying to recover from depression and focus on myself but I love him so much!

[joprabhu]

this guy is driving me crazy. I know he’s my soul mate and vice versa but he’s testing me every which way to make sure Im not another gold digger. He is v famous and chased by tons women on Social Media. But I’ve bought a few of your ebooks and tried some of your stuff that always works but Im flying into his town in 2 weeks and I need to let him know that. And you said in one of your videos that if you want him long term its worth making him wait. Should I let him know Ill be in his town and pretend that Im not really hoping to ask him to meet me when that’s all I really want to do? How should I slip it into the conversation? Because we are both busy in separate States opportunities like this won’t happen often. What should I do? Please help me. This trip is for my business. Not contrived. But I am also receiving tons of invites of guys interested in me
and I have zero interest in them. How can I use a bit of jealousy to get him to pounce and know Im the real deal?

[weknowleeknow]

Its been 2 months since he left me but i still love him so much, i know i made mistakes but i think i deserve 2nd chance, i hope he will be back in my life 😶

[shellysachdeva]

Hey.. I've recently been in touch with a guy.. and I really like him.. but the distance sucks.!! We haven't even met yet . We only communicate through Instagram !! Pls suggest me some ways to make him interested in me !!
PS- He really is a busy person, passionate about his work and this leads to less or sometimes no conversation too! Pls help me ..!!