AITA for not visiting my bf anymore after he denied me a favor? #askreddit #redditstories #shorts

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[ContentReddit]

Throwaway and a little bit of information:

I am 23, my boyfriend is 24. Ive been working from 8 to 5, coming home at 7pm as I have a long way to work. My boyfriend started studying, but recently stopped as he felt this wasnt his way.

Hes been home since at his moms house, living rent free. Hes still trying out stuff and searching the internet for jobs, but hasnt found anything. Ever since I startes working, going to a doctor has been difficult as usually opening lay in the time im working. Im also on birth control which means I have to go to the doctors to get a receipt for my birth control on a regular basis. Two weeks ago, I called my doctor and they told me they were only open till friday that week and then closed for vacation. This was a problem as I needed my receipt for the next week (where they would he closed) to get a new blister. On top I couldnt get off work early so I called my boyfriend. I asked him if ge could pick up the receipt and get my blister for me as hes home anyway. He instantly started complaining that he would have to take the bus and so on as he doesnt have a license yet. I told him that it wasnt that big of a deal and he could spare a lil bit of time for me.

He didnt do it and I endef up rushing in last second to pick up my receipt. (They close at 7pm and I rushed in at like 6:58) I since then started to decline whenever he asked me to come over as I have a car and can easily frive to him. I told him I didnt feel like wasting my time driving over to gim when he wasnt even feeling like getting on a bus ride for 15 mins to get smth important for me.

Hes been calling me an asshole ever since.

AITA?

[chronicallytiredmedstudent]

It seems like only one half of the relationship is actually an adult. The boyfriend needs to realize that his life is heading nowhere fast and that he's holding another person hostage with him. I've seen many relationships like this one and it almost always ends in toxicity or abuse. Help him but dont sacrifice your life for his.

[Abandonedaccount]

He's a baby. The fact he cant even spare this little time for you tells me everything. He either grows up or you leave him, because right now he is just holding you back

[rafaxpg]

Well, he didn't care about her birrh control. Seems like he didn't want to have s3x for me 🤷🏾‍♀️

[JennifuhhGilardi]

As someone that dated a “man” like that, please excuse yourself and spare yourself years of drama and aggravation. And definitely keep using that birth control because having a child with a child is a lifetime of regret, source: my own dumb ass

[delusionalmilkshake]

basically an adult is dating a man baby
Also, definitely not an ah

[lorenee]

I would’ve just lied and said that I didn’t get my birth control in time and then I have the whole month of sex let them know the consequences of his actions he didn’t get the birth control so no birth control no sex May be a little petty but I think he would get the message

[jupiterx]

The fact he doesn't have a license at 24 should be a red flag enough...

[amy]

I couldn't sleep with somebody like that. I'd feel like a Peter file. That boy needs to grow up in you would be better off without him.

[Can_think_of_a_name]

NTA dump that baby and get off the birth control, it's bad for you

[RaccoonRecluse]

Men, you need to take just as much responsibility for preventing pregnancy as the woman if you are in a cis straight relationship. It's not that hard to help out.

[eomin]

Sounds like the OP doesn't have a boyfriend, but a manchild.

[JennyJeong]

If your boyfriend thinks that doing you a simple favor is an inconvenience, he's going to get a rude awakening if he ever has a child.

[wotizlove]

Idk how you find a girl at this age when Ina is similar situation like. And then have the guts to not move your ass 😭😭

[rubyyp]

OP's boyfriend is a baby in an adult sized skin suit. Bro needs to grow tf up and realise that the world doesn't revolve around him.

[mariannaolgabonet]

No, sweetheart, you're NOT the a**hole, but you were just dating one!

[AlexanderMarchesaine]

Unreliable and whiny. Not what should be sought from a partner.

[LxvxndxrBxnny]

If anyone here has a partner like that boyfriend then leave them immediately

[dangernoodles]

He doesn’t even have a drivers license 🤦

[adamsteiff]

Totally not the AH. And maybe you should rethink your relationship with a lazy man child.
Also, and this isn’t meant to condone his behavior or condemn you or the doctors office. But why can’t the doctors office just call your receipt into the pharmacy, so you don’t have to pick it up first before going for the BC?