ARE FILIPINA WIVES REALLY MORE SUBMISSIVE? Let's Ask The Locals!

@thephilippines @whatarefilipinaslike @TheFilipinaPea
Are Filipina wives really more submissive? I think we should get the real scoop from the locals to see if that's true - or just a popular opinion! Many people overseas have the impression that Filipinas are naturally submissive women, who make submissive wives, so let's see what the Filipinas themselves have to say!

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[charlesyoung]

When most people hear the word “submit, ” they think of giving up control or power. This is not what submission in a marriage is about. When you submit to your husband, you are giving him authority and respect. You are saying that you trust him and believe in him. You are also communicating that you value his opinion and want to work together as a team. Submission does not mean weakness; it means strength!

[MusicallyInclinedful]

After 36 years of being together, the subject of submissiveness has never come up. Is my wife submissive? Yes. Is she agreeable? Yes. Did I demand that she be that way? No.
My wife was introduced to me a meek and quiet person. She was unsure of herself and lacked confidence even though she's very intelligent and can speak 5+ languages. Once she understood her value she quickly overcame the mental obstacles she brought into our relationship.
Did I mention she's not American?

[prepperjonpnw]

Western men prefer Asian women for many reasons.
A few reasons are:
The traditional family values
The loyalty and commitment
Their intelligence
They work with you as a team
They have ambition and contentment simultaneously
They appreciate a real man
Their sense of humour
Their absolute beauty
And so much more ♥️♥️

[vernondavis]

As President of the Kansas City chapter of the Filipina Pea Fan Club, I thank you for another great episode.👏👏👏

[phantasmnine]

This is such a well-done video! Excellent, as usual.

[annarbor]

Great job on this topic Pea. I'm glad this is being touched on by a truly feminine woman because when Western women address this, it gets totally misconstrued and taken out of context.

[stuartloggins]

My girlfriend Marie is so hard headed. Shes very smart but she doesn't know about some things. And I have a hard time convincing her to do it my way sometimes. And so I watch her make mistakes. Really that's the best way for her to learn haha

[ryanbelcher]

Love = respect = peace and harmony within a relationship. My Filipino wife trusts my judgment and I respect her input and desires.. even inspections 😉 hahaha

[AphrooneRichardson]

Shout Out from Chicagoland, IL, USA! Thank Pea for the highly informative episode! Thanks you and ALL yor subscribers after I complete my 3 years technical training course, I AM ZOOMING TO THE PHILIPPINES TO FIND ME A FILIPINA PEA! Thank You! AMEN-RA!

[randyguidry]

Good topic Pea. The term "Submissive" can have so many different meanings. Not all of them are bad. I think the term gets a bad rap because people automatically assume it means sexually submissive. When usually it actually refers to letting someone else lead in the relationship. That is not a bad thing as it is often destructive to have more than one try to lead.

[jayroc]

Western mentality is creeping up on the Philippines.

[patrickmchargue]

In my understanding, submission looks like respecting your husband's point of view. It means humbly sharing your opinion with him. It means not invalidating him, especially in front of others. It means trusting his decision as a leader, while feeling empowered to give your own point of view. Submission is trust, not servitude.

[Dragon_rls]

Going “Gonzo” in the Philippines 🇵🇭. This is hands down the coolest country I have ever immersed myself in. I’m down to my last 10 days, but in my heart, I will always be here❤.

[Absolutely_Positive]

Hi Pea! I am a long time viewer and happily married to an amazing Filipina from Cebu. I think the concept or idea of Filipinas being "Submissive" is fairly complex yet simple at the same time. To be clear, in general I do not find Filipinas to be submissive in the general sense. They are in fact very proud strong willed and at times stubborn. However, if you have their love and their trust they will always try to find a way to make you happy, and will do it at their own expense. My wife and I feel we are both submissive to one another. I submit to her and she submits to me. If she wants me to do or not do something, I do as she asks and she does the same for me. It is give and take, with the common goal of wanting to make each other happy. It never is a competition or something that requires you to "Keep Score" so while we do "Submit" to one another, we do it willingly because we know our partner does as well. I hope that all makes sense 🙂 Anyway, thank you again for all you do!

[quincycamo]

I've said this before, anyone who says that Asian women are submissive has never been with an Asian woman.
Whenever you get more than one person, SOMEONE has to lead. That doesn't mean deferring in everything, but the man HAS to value the opinion of his wife and listen to her wisdom. But if a decision has to be made, the deferene is to the husband.
Now guys, having said that, IF your decision ends up being the wrong one, be prepared to pay for it for a very, very, long time.
A good woman will only submit to a good man. A good man will understand her value and EARN that trust.

[colenichols]

Your outlook on this subject is the same as mine as in many discussions, you have had❤
As far as the Filipinas go being submissive, I think that Filipinas can be stubborn sometimes argumentative if they think that they’re right about some thing, but also so loving and caring and thoughtful and wonderful

[haroldwalls]

Pea, first off, let me complement you on your choice of dress for this segment. Your dress is very attractive, brilliant and classy. It says, "caution, you might fall in love with me, and though I may not return your feelings, I will be kind while you are here." That said, I love your intelligent, articulate content. Of all the You-tubers out there with "Life in the Philippines" content, yours is the gold standard. I have been in an LDR relationship with a Filipina in Davao for 4 years and due to circumstances (finances, Covid, finances...in that order) we have never met in person. Your content is so 'real', I feel very comfortable with the idea of embracing the Filipino culture and eventually embracing my GF. Thanks for bringing it home. Great job!

[geecheelionmusic]

When I think of being submissive, submissive to what? A belief? A concept? An attitude? Not interested in a slave. Being a Servant to Each Other in the relationship is more important to me.

[jeffs.]

Hello Pea, enjoyed your video very much. Good content and very interesting 👍 God bless and thanks again