My mom wants me to punish my daughter.

[tammystockton]

Thank you for standing up for your daughter! You need to give her a treat! And tell your mother that you and your family will not come back to her house until she apologizes to you and your daughter !

[KathyOgden-cc]

Just give your Daughter a great big hug. You know she is right your sister should think about having kids she can’t control.

[susettegoudeau]

Are they mad cause she told the truth or because she stated her boundaries and pointed out her aunt's bad behavior? Good parenting Mom!!!❤

[darlamercer]

Good for daughter who stands up for herself!

[alanhawkins]

Not your daughters kid, not your daughters responsibility!!! Unless she's being PAID to watch your nephews/neices, its not her problem!! Not her circus, not her monkeys!!!

[mariefreeman]

Love what your daughter said to her Aunt 😅😅😅😅😅 your Sister is TA

[bethbuzzanco]

Exactly, watch your own kids, mom is wrong!

[emmarborder]

Then it time for a time out from your family, give your daughter big hug
Your mom and sister can watch the children.

[biancafriesen]

I'm so sorry this happened, hoping and praying that things go better! God bless 🥰

[grannysweet]

Go low contact with Mom and no contact with sister. They will suck you dry with their chaos. Find your own tribe. Cause that bs is soul sucking.

[fathimashehlahaafiz]

Op's mom is exactly like my paternal grandmother, defend your favourite daughters kid and expect the daughter in law to punish her kid for not willing to play the nanny for free. Please tell your mom and sister that you are better off without them!

[alefiyacassoobhoy]

What's wrong with OP's mother?! She should be scolding the daughter whose kid did the mess!

[jenniegriffin]

I hope you’re proud of your daughter. I would be 🤣

[Marylsa]

My sister is the same, when she came for a visit, she didnt watch her daughter, she wanted us to.
When my daughter was on a sleepover with my sister, she said that my daughter should watch her kid.
I told my daughter she didnt have to and to my sister if she was crazy, it was her kid not my daughter's😮

[future_crazy_cat_lady]

Yeah no it’s not your responsibility to watch a kid that isn’t yours especially because she didn’t wake her to she just let

[Sillylittlegooberfr]

Im not sure if this was an AITA post, but you and your daughter are NTA. Adults who expect other people to watch their children really annoy me, since this happens to me all the time. I really feel for that daughter, especially since I'm neurodivergent, so being left alone with kids is really overwhelming, especially kids like that.

[katielemmon]

Moral it might be true that your daughter is going to have said did I can't blame her anyway shape and form and the fact that the grown up who can't take care of her child or refuse to take care of her child both of them are equally horrible (the last one is just a bit more sad) there are two assholes here and one that it will on the way to become an AH and neither one of them are you or your daughter

[monikadann]

Basic manners is to ask by saying Can xxxx please watch the child this should be said by the parent of child that is to be watched. If this is not done parent of child that done something that caused problems should fix the problem.

[zierragacha]

Good on your daughter for calling your sister out

[DodgeSnead-bf]

Why do so many people act like this then as soon as it turns on them and they realize that it’s the spoiled brats fault the loose their mind