The Trouble With Being Beautiful-Bri

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Bri, a young woman in Miami, Florida.

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[brittanyadeline]

Hello! It’s bri. I just wanted to add a couple comments. First, thank you mark for interviewing me. I have read every single comment and to those positive ones, thank you! To those negative ones: I do not believe I am the prettiest person ever, and I did not ask Mark to title the video this. I just wanted to come on and talk about my past as an Onlyfans model, how it got to that point, and how my looks have impacted the way people think of me.

I do not have fake extensions or surgery, I was naturally born this way. The way I dress is because my brain is wired to believe I have to dress this way because that’s what I was taught my whole life.

I pray that you watch the whole video before leaving that nasty comment, as it does affect the real person on the screen. I am not just some super elevated girl who believes she is the best, I have real feelings and those things hurt.

So before judging me for how I look before watch this whole video (which is ironic considering that’s what the video is about) maybe watch it and then make your opinion.

[flashtz]

Bri, you probably won't see this, but there is something you need to know. I am an old woman now (just turned 60!), but it seems like just last month I was 30. Let me tell you: You are very young, you have a LOT of life ahead of you still. Let the past be the past. You have so many more years to make bigger mistakes. Don't dismiss finding love. You don't even need to think about that at this point. You will find love when you are ready for it, you won't be looking. Never forget your past mistakes, or you will risk making them again. Rather, remember them, but do not let them define you. You are so much more than your past.

[jone]

I support anybody who has made it to adulthood without any family or support and are still alive. Thats a different pain. 💯

[sleazytig]

This is one of the most heartfelt interviews I have ever watched. The willingness to expose your deepest insecurities to warn others, and to talk about your own life experiences and your learning process is beyond admirable. I wish you nothing but growth and self-love for your future, and when you are brimming with those qualities, you will find someone just as strong as your partner. Deus abençoe a sua linda alma

[ignasty]

The troubles of being ugly, next on Soft White Underbelly.
Hit me up.

[LadyC]

I am a 65 year old grandmother and you have nothing to be ashamed of. You did what you had to do. I was a beautiful woman too and every one hated me. Men were awful. I am proud of you for taking the incentive to take care of yourself. Love yourself. Look yourself in the mirror and tell that little girl inside, it’s ok. You are ok. You are guilty of nothing. You are doing good things and are on track to do more. You are young and smart and a beautiful woman, and that can be so powerful. Use that energy and power to keep going forward. Don’t look back. The past is done. Own the comments and say Damn right, I did that. So what?
Keep looking forward. ❤

[KelleyWhite-psdm]

Having a narcisistic parent is no joke. They f*** you up in the head. It doesn't matter what you look like those wounds are freaking deep and profound. Profound.

[christinehodges]

I’m a recovering addict with bipolar disorder and work as a therapist. I got involved with a narcissist for 4 years in my 30’s and developed ptsd. It’s been 3 years and I am still processing the trauma. I can’t imagine having a narcissistic parent. I’m amazed by this girl’s resilience. It’s incredible that she didn’t resort to drugs, and being sexualized her whole life explains why she depends on that to survive. I hope we see an interview in the future where she’s telling us all about the law firm she’s built. ❤

[Soshesaysjessica]

Thanks for sharing Bri! I was in the entertainment industry once and now I’ve graduated law school and tackling cases. You can totally do it!

[angeronal]

What an amazing, self-aware young woman. I am an American living in Mexico (53 years old). I would wrap this woman up in a hug so tight! She deserves love, kindness, respect, support, and dignity. I too was a beautiful woman; it is not an easy path. Thank you for allowing her to share her story. I would be honored to have her for a friend. She's smart, kind, and keen and willing to try her best and make her life better. My heart goes out to her.

[Mia-lihe]

I don’t know why people are hating on her. She is sharing her story and taking accountability for what she did to put herself through college. She’s not saying Poor me for being beautiful. She’s is just sharing her experience through life and wants to be seen for her intelligence

[sheepnomore]

The difference in Bri's spirit from this to the video released today... wow! God is amazing!

[Krstinedprtz]

I think the title of this video is misleading and seems to be leading to a lot of judgemental comments. This young lady has been through a lot and has had many struggles. The takeaway I get from her story is that beauty doesn't equate to happiness.

Wishing her success and happiness!! ❤❤

[Supahmusic_]

“FORGIVE YOURSELF COMPELTELY” I love that Mark!!!

[thecognitivedissonant]

I appreciate that you give a girl like this some good "Dad" advice re how to deal with past mistakes and things out of her control and how to move forward. Also glad to hear you're taking care of your own mental health, Mark. Being a tender-hearted person in the work that you do can cause burn out when you see so much suffering, so taking care of yourself and maintaining healthy boundaries is really necessary so you can sustain the good that you do in the world. Bless you always, best wishes to Bri. You're not your past, you are a living Spirit in a crazy physical world. Someone once said to me, "Each day, each moment, each breath is a new beginning". Almost 40 years later, I'm still here and have grown a lot through my experiences ❤️

[Spiritualwarrior]

What a brave young woman. I have so much respect for you and your story. I will keep you in my prayers and I pray that your story can help millions of others. Thank you for being you.

[kimpierce]

Bri, I am old enough to be your grandmother. Sending you big hugs, shine your bright light on the world. Listen to Mark, he had great advice for you, he knows what he is doing and it shows.

[BethG]

Bri, I enjoyed your interview so much. You are so smart, articulate, well spoken, and just a beautiful soul. I think you are going to do big things in this world. Thank you for sharing your story.

[alihall]

Bri, I am proud of all the courage you have displayed with sharing your story. You are making an impact. Many people will hear this story and will learn from your experience. I wish you nothing but the best. For everyone who is judging her please consider what she dealt with at a very young age. She had to survive!

[julieredmond]

I hope we will have the pleasure of watching an update of you Bri. You are delightful and beautiful inside and out. You are very grounded in spite of your troubled past. Blessings to you dear Bri!