Black Woman Says Black Men Are Looking for Other Women Because Black Women Are NOT Submissive

Black Woman Says Black Men Are Looking for Other Women Because Black Women Are NOT Submissive #modernwomen #relationshipadvice #datingadvice

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[davidaustin]

She’s correct. Submission is not bondage or a death sentence. Most modern women will “submit” to their feelings or employer but not a relationship.

[MrK.A]

I remember speaking to a black woman who said she wanted a masculine guy but described herself as a strong, dominant woman that needed to be tamed. I asked her if she would ever date a feminine guy that wanted her to turn him into a strong man and she said no. Of course i then said: why would I or another other masculine guy want the near-impossible task of turning a rebellious, masculine woman into a feminine woman when i can find a woman who meets the criteria of being feminine and submissive from the start? She had no answer to that question.

[elanbentley]

I grew up in a home where my mom would constantly say, “we have to ask your daddy” before doing anything. If it were only spending $20, she would consult with him. In turn, my father has always protected and provided very well, even now that they are elderly (73 and 81). I know that this structure works. It wasn’t until I was around 13 than I realized that everyone didn’t have a family like mine. I don’t think it’s too late for women that did not have that example to learn better.

[gorillabang]

My grandmother used to tell me to ask girls I am dating these two questions:
When you were a child what did your mother make you for breakfast before she sent you off to school?
What did your mother make you for dinner when she got home from work?

Now you might say these questions are stupid but here is the thing, a woman who did not grow up in a household where she saw her mother doing these things will never do these things for you or the family you have together.
Forget being submissive, she ain't even care about the nourishment and health of her family so what does it matter if she is submissive?

[PeachyKeen.]

I grew up in a traditional two parent household. I saw my mother being submissive to my father daily and realized the importance of submission when it comes to maintaining a healthy, balanced relationship. Submission really equals respect. Men feel respected when a woman listens to him, honors his opinion and shows him that he is the head of the household by fixing his plate, keeping his home clean and peaceful and being his helpmeet.

I can understand how this would feel foreign and uncomfortable for someone who didn’t grow up seeing it. Most women in our community have never seen their mother with a good man. They’ve only seen the men who have dogged her out or they haven’t seen any men around at all. For women who have had no example of submission - you need to seek counsel with older women who are happily married and are feminine in nature.

[maverickrahming]

This gets me everytime when they say they can be submissive to the right man 🤨
YOU WERE NEVER SUBMISSIVE IF THATS THE CASE.

[faybury]

What I've realized about submission is that it actually starts before marriage and in the heart.

If a woman can't submit to or respect the men in her family or men in general, then she'll never submit to her husband. True submission isn't conditional. And just verbally agreeing with someone isn't really submitting if you're complaining and disagreeing in your heart.

[jermainesmith]

The word: Submissive is like kryptonite to some Black

[Patriarchyforever]

100% facts I’ve been saying the same thing for the past 25 years. A submissive black woman is extremely rare.

[msascuinonducorduco]

She's got a point. Modernized women just don't seem to have equal dynamics in relationships until men pay x amount of money then they'll give the equal amounts of love for a day, then gotta spend it again. To them love is just a contract just like marriage. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[mulattomalcolm]

At this point I’m over it. Black women don’t want to be submissive, and I don’t see the point in trying to argue with them about it. It is what it is. Black men, seek your fulfillment with a feminine submissive woman, wherever that may take you. #SYSBM

[adoniscartel]

She does have a point its starts at home & unfortunately we are a direct product of the environment that we grow up in!

[wpsnick]

She’s a beautiful woman who knows exactly what she’s talking about. In our community, these single mothers are raising their daughters to be she-males. Aggressive, combative, contentious. No man wants to come home to that. I love this channel.

[davidaustin]

Most men wants peace and cooperation not to come back home and deal with more unnecessary headaches or drama

[XSilvenX]

I remember driving two women 4 hours to a wedding (my aunt's god daughter + friend). They were both young in their mid 20's. I'm 33 and in the market for a wifey, so my eyes are peeled of course. First woman was soft-spoken, and the second was relatively loud; a bit more vocal with her opinions, and constantly on the phone.

Initially I was far more attracted to the second woman because she had darker skin and was "thick", but my attraction flipped shortly into the drive after talking to them, mostly due to the feminine nature of the first woman. She was very easy going, non-combative, and **NATURALLY** submissive.

As the second woman picked up on me paying closer attention to her friend, she started to behave more "submissively" and "feminine". She stopped being combative, and made her voice very soft whenever she spoke to me. Tried super hard to act pleasant and feminine, but I saw right through it. I pulled back my attention and she gradually changed up. At the wedding reception, the second woman made a pass at me, which I declined, because I genuinely lost all sexual interest in her, plus I was adjusting my mentality away from casual sex.

On the drive back, we got into an abortion debate and her nature came roaring back. She kept trying to talk over me and didn't give me a chance to speak until I eventually stood my ground and told her to shut the fuck up or this conversation is over. She kept talking, so I just ended it. The car was quiet for the next half hour, until the first woman (the feminine one) started asking me questions again, easing away the tension in the car.

My point here is, conditional femininity does not exist. The second things don't go their way, they will go right back to being who they are. A woman is either naturally submissive or she's pretending. Additionally, you can't fool a guy who knows exactly what to look for, as you can immediately spot women with this trait naturally by observing the way they move, speak, and defer to the men in their lives.

[PharaohIshmail]

I loved how you explained being submissive is really easy @ 4:30

It truly is. They really need to stop capping on how hard it is.

[nizzotheartist]

As a black man that loves black women, I see black women being outsmarted by nonblack women that desire their men. If I was you I would put down the checkerboard and learn how to play chess. Black women are so blinded that they can't see that they still have the upper hand. The black woman is still the black man's first choice. So if I was you I would start changing right now. Because if you keep on playing checkers for the next 5 to 10 years. It is not going to be looking good. Black women are some of the smartest women in the world. How are you allowing your selves to get tripped up by something so simple? All you have to do is cook clean and smile. And the world is yours. Come own sistas, s time to get off of the playground. Grave the ball and come back to class

[insideconvo]

To keep it simple men want a women who actually listens to them. If I’m not wrong don’t women ask for men to be leaders ?

[slwilliamsjr]

From observing the Dating market in the US and absorbing content such as this…I have to say that as a Single, Childless, Professional BM, …….I am going to enjoy my travel overseas! 🤷🏾

[carllangley]

FBA man here, and honestly I don't like using the word "submissive" to describe how I would want my spouse to behave. The Webster dictionary for submissive is: "characterized by tendencies to yield to the will or authority of others bullying; usually involves a stronger, more dominant personality coercing a weaker, more submissive personality". I don't want a "submissive" woman because that inclines that my girl is "inferior". I will never look at my black women as "inferior" in no regards, and I myself will never fully RESPECT a person that I feel is inferior to myself no matter how much I love that person. I want a woman to RESPECT me, and my leadership as I RESPECT her role in the relationship at equal levels. I let it be known that my tolerance for DISRESPECT is notoriously low at the beginning, so even an inkling of a lack of respect will turn me away from a person entirely. Our people were slaves (submissive) to slave owners during a point in time, and many of our (submissive) ancestors cut "massa's" neck in his sleep as well, because an oppressed person can only take so much. But love the content Pink Book, and thank you for keeping the black standard high.