Dear Empaths, DON'T SAVE HIM!

Dear Empaths, DON'T SAVE HIM!
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[jennifersherrill-lsbq]

I'm not saving anyone again, I'm focusing on my life

[Keysofdavid]

Fixer's are the FIRST TO BE BROKEN! THANKYOU!! THANKYOU!!

[sharonb]

I’ve been killing myself trying to save baby birds with broken wings my whole life only for them to get better and fly away from me. 🥺

[carmillemajors]

I.
I refuse to do it again..not only for my ex and I have informed him of that but I have also started doing it with my relatives and so called friends. I am an empath and I'm proud to be one..I have given loyalty and love to ppl that took it for granted and used me . Now I'm by myself. I'm reflecting and working on being my best self..I pray and ask God to protect me and remove Anyone from my life that intentions are not good. I'm Saving ME now.💖💖💖

[julieelliott]

Derrick you are right on time with this message, thank you ❤️🙏🏼

[IraSol]

I just wish I would have had this information when I was 25 (I would have taken better decisions and would have saved me a lot of unfortunate and traumatic situations)
Thank you, Mr. Jaxn

[MsLadyBlack]

I am in this position right now.

I'm going to be honest, , he is also narcissistic, insecure, cannot communicate at all there is none there, has no conscience so he's not in touch with his feelings, and he doesn't even understand the word EVOLVED!


SO AS I SIT HERE AND TEXT THIS I'M THINKING SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO. BUT THE CONTENT IS TELLING ME I NEED TO PUT MY FEELINGS IN MY POCKET AND SAY THIS IS NOT WORKING WE CANNOT😢😊


SO ANXIOUSLY WANTING TO BUT HE DOESN'T SEE THAT I AM HERE FOR LOVE I DON'T WANT TO BABYSIT I WANT TO BE HAPPY.❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢

[mortischahicks]

Yes! I tried to help my ex bf when he was going through it. Mental health is real. In the end, he hurt my heart so bad 😢

[chrysteenakin]

I can definitely relate to this as an empath. I needed to hear this. Thank you Derrick 🙏

[annndugu]

Am amazed by your level of analysis of empaths! This is life saving. Thank you

[belindapadron]

It's also called codependency...this was me & I'm now on my healing journey from sacrificing myself for others, I'm growing & learning how to love myself and know my worth.

[sarahstarr]

I!!! Not just stabbed in the back, stabbed in the heart too, and shot in the soul... he was a devil, and he tried to force me to be just as broken as him. Never again satan! Never again.

[violalong]

I can relate to this word. I have poured out to so many (family and friends). It will drain you, but thank God he taught me to see it for what it truly is. I let it go, and Oh, what a relief it was. A big weight was lifted, and I learned to put in effect self-care for my well being. I Am Free!!! Thank God Almighty, I'm Free at Last!!! To God be the Glory. Amen & Amen! ❤❤❤

[annaa]

👏 we must consciously stop being empaths for people that don’t deserve it

[kayeshan]

As an empath I can say that our lives can be really hard. We constantly go on an emotional roller coaster and it can be exhausting!😫

[susanparker]

'He may be meeting his Karma from some decisions he made along his way, and you're out there blocking the consequences....' Oh Derrick, isn't that the truth.

[ms.alexis]

Was used abused, taken advantage of😢 ... Never Again 😔

[neesaljohnson]

This has been my deepest learning from this last relationship . ..empath role in a relationship. I ve learned better boundaries and became broken-hearted. I am grateful for the gift of insight into my own growth. You are speaking the truth. Empaths I've done this. There is an anxious attachment that grows is in reducing the anxiety for other there is an Imbalance that grows. The only surefire way is beautiful energetic boundaries and Security within that meets a securely attached partner.

[beyondthecocun]

This resonates so much. My empathy doesn't always extend to myself. I consider it toxic empathy when we have only learned to love others rather than protect ourselves. I can't express how grateful I am for your real talk. 😢

[vansluna]

😮 this came at the right time - thank you. I absolutely can relate. Tried to be there for him and help him.