The Gay Dating Scene is TOUGH 🌈

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The Gay Dating Scene is TOUGH 🌈 #shorts

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The easiest way to traverse this is by first deciding what you want. Many gay men want to play the field without getting tied down in a steady relationship. If this is what they want then they have to accept the consequences of their choices. I myself don't operate on that level. I stated my intent very clearly by writing a letter to my Higher self, Subconscious and got them to work for my highest good. I asked to meet someone who I would be compatible with physically, emotionally, intellectually spiritually and mentally. I asked them to bring this person into my life for the purpose of being a lifetime partner. I waited 6 months for him, and when we met, we both knew. Been together now 13 years, married for 7. And we couldn't be happier. Only when people are incompatible they look elsewhere to find fulfillment.

lenvdb

A little? It's absolutely ridiculous and dehumanized.

vincentjerome

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dubon

I concur with the comments below. It's not little flakey, it's ALOT flakey, with very little in-between.

Not-Ap

Even though he’s right, he’s also probably projecting . He’s a beautiful man. He has options.

benjaminreyes

I think everyone sit and waits for the next best thing, each person you talk to thinks I think I can do better 😂 I’m not on the scene but this was the way I felt when I was . The funniest part is they mostly wait so long that they end up having to use the hand 😂

richardbelben

Gay dating is like being a new model.
You spend all day going to casting calls, being evaluated, critiqued and rejected.

You’ll get into a few shows a photo shoots, but once those are over, it’s back to the cycle of castings, being picked apart, and having your self-esteem stomped on.

Although you’re a
Model, you start to question if you are even good enough.

The gay dating scene is so u realistically shallow and superficial, that damned near everyone questions their attractiveness at some point, because the rejection, ghosting, and flakiness is so rampant.

TASconfidential

“A little” & “A little bit” 😂😂 More like flaky is the rule not the exception.

RTCSB

All of the guys in apps are chasing for mythical perfection that no one can achieve. Then everyone ends up feeling unattractive & insecure. This creates the never ending cycle of swiping, terrible exchanges of communication, awkward picture reveals, followed by ghosting.

TASconfidential

I feel so heard and validated right now! Everytime I perceive something as going well I get ghosted. To the point where I’m looking inward to see if I’m the problem. I think the main issue is that gay men are so quick to move on when they’re not feeling it, without having that hard conversation as to why. I can’t work on issues you don’t tell me are present

rayshoup

I gave up after the last guy I dated. We dated almost half a year, he was 50x better than my ex but in the end he didn’t feel the same way I was feeling. Honestly I didn’t even realize he didn’t feel the same until I was about to say I wanted to take things to the next level. All that time and energy for a guy who didn’t really feel the same hurt. I tried the dating apps for a month and it sucked. All that time and energy I wasted was just enough for me to give up on dating all together. That was when I was 25 I’m now 29 going 30 and couldn’t care less anymore. I’m invested more in close friends, family and hobbies but that dream I wanted for myself died years ago. Now when I see a cute guy I like I think about it for a minute, remind myself of all that wasted time and just tell myself “It’s not worth the effort.”

KIWIMADNEZ

Agreed! Flaky was a very on point word

sqwertt

Let's not drag any relation if someone wanna stay let him stay but with utmost transparency
I find him extremely attractive 👆

syedaliusman

I think we need to start pointing out that this isn't just a problem in the gay community, though, my cousin's wife, who is a straight woman went on a dating app looking for people who are looking for new friends that are also new moms and she said she was a ghosted all the time too, and made no new friendships. The Internet in general has made things harder with building true connections but also it's not all bad I made some amazing friends from groups on Facebook

popmusiclover