how to be an it girl this autumn

THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO IT GIRL ENERGY - not only appearance, but mindset and lifestyle too.

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📄 ABOUT ME:
My mission is to help young women everywhere become their BEST SELVES and create their dream life. Self-improvement and self-love transformed my life. It took me from being the shy, insecure, unmotivated girl who was always hurt by men... to being the woman who prioritises herself everyday, achieves the goals on her vision board, takes herself on dates, feels fulfilled when alone, has a newfound confidence AND has power over her dating life. I found my purpose in life after working on myself and I want to help and inspire YOU to do the same.

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FAQ:
How old are you? - 23 years old!
Where are you based? London, UK
What's your star sign? Libra sun, Aquarius moon and Cancer rising

Camera: Sony ZV E10
Editing software - Final Cut Pro X

My Lip Combo: MAC Lipliner 'Soar', KIKO Smart Lipstick '404', Dior Lip Oil '012'

[AmritaMishraPerformances]

To summarize:
3:09 Step 1 - Lay the foundations. Reflect on the first three quarters of this year, and think about where you want to be this time next year.
5:30 Step 2 - Embody the energy of the woman you want to become. It's prep time! How does the woman you want to become spend her weekends in? Where does she spend their money?
7:25 Step 3 - Revamp your wardrobe as per your personal style
9:36 Step 4 - Start mood boarding
11:01 Step 5 - Declutter and organize your space
12:16 Step 6 - Prioritize movement
14:11 Step 7 - Become a hobby-ist
15:43 Step 8 - Challenge yourself
17:19 Step 9 - Treat others how you want to be treated
18:51 Step 10 - Become aware of your thoughts and emotions

[Akksiabiadjjsjs]

"one minute ago" I jumped, freaked, screamed...Love you for helping me be the best version of myself ❤

[PPriiyanka]

Holy moly! She's turning more and more pretty with each breath 🧚‍♂️.

[melodygardner]

In terms of astrology, the upcoming Jupiter retrograde cycle aligns perfectly with this autumn level-up. From 10/9/24 through 2/5/25, we get cosmic assistance to review our thoughts on our purpose and how we profile ourselves. Positive aspects to Mercury allow for balanced and graceful communication and Chiron shows us where healing is needed where we are compromising ourselves to "fit in" instead of being our genuine selves.

2024 was pretty impressive because I finally tuned everyone else out, decided what I wanted, locked in my goals and proceeded to kick maximum ass. I'm fully expecting to use this season to put the icing on the cake and for 2025 to be even better. 💖

[youngforever-]

girl i'm about to overcome my fear of stage fright and I'm not nervous I'm excited. I can see a big difference in me like in the starting of this year, I had no guts to even do a speech in front of one person but now it is in front of a large audience and I'm not nervous. I just want to say thank you, you're literally mother Tam girl. thank a lot❤

[squeen]

not gonna lie i do feel proud of myself this year in 2024. I've learned and grow a lot, joined more activities and changed my old habits. I cant wait what 2025 presents to me

[WMNofGod]

Tam Kaur, you are amazing. I am a teenage girl already working in the field I want to dominate when I'm older. I've become more confident, but as someone who is naturally shy, doesn't have super high self esteem and is an ambivert, you have helped me so much already. I also got an A and full marks on a school assignment about vision boards which you were the inspiration behind! Thank you so much, you are an inspiration for young girls and women everywhere, I wish you all the success in your lifetime ❤

[Biancaisskibidi]

Is it Just Me or Tam Sounds Happier than usual and I'm Here For It!!!

[Harrystylesswifey]

Tam if you read this I hope you'll be so happy and proud , I'm now living a disciplined and happy life with a lot of self love . Trying to be better 1% every day ❤❤ Thanks to you for always being an inspiration ❤️

[xoxoraylove]

Gosh, The power that your words exude❤ I can feel the immense amount of positive energy just a minute through the video. Also, GIRLS, IT'S THE QUEEN'S BIRTHDAY IN ONE DAY

[MrSarahsweetness]

This video made me cry a little bit. I’m stepping into this version of myself now that I was able to slow down from a injury. I was able to gain a little confidence back and now I have some direction. It’s just so hard making decisions, but I know, regardless of the title “it girl” which has a completely different meaning than on the surface, how hard it is to step out of your comfort zone, thank you for making this video. My favorite step was looking back as I journal every day. It’s all I have sometimes I’ve been doing it since I was in the sixth grade. I hope that next October I will be where my future self would be.❤

[BlueBurb]

This summer I really didn't do much as I was too consumed by helping my family with things. I really didn't work out, eat well, or do things for myself. I'm so happy for getting back into the things I love ❤️

[la_petite_carotte]

This video was so inspirig, Tam! I love this approach of the IT where she focuses on her interior rather than the superficial. ❤

[Lilybasumatari]

🧡🍂 !!
VIDEO REQUEST for girls turning 18 this new year to prepare for a golden future and to be ahead of this time covering things like advice, financial planning, wellness anything so we can blossom in our 20s 😍😍

[nguyenbriona]

I love everything Tam talks in this video, like a sister who always here to remind me to get my life together, one thing I need to say, I'm living in a very cold place right now, I prefer a warm and cozy atmosphere like many previous videos of Tam, the background of this video makes me feel so cold :))

[dorixyz]

its magical the way Tam got my energy up just through this video ngl i have been feeling really low since a few days but definitely i feel sm lifted up and better rn tysm Tam, I appreciate you

[muskanraj]

I just bought your book and I'm already in love with it. My favorite influencer just became one of my favorite writer. Thank you for always guiding us. You are truly amazing.❤

[rutvishah]

"What is inside of you, is a trend that will never go out of style" ~ Tam Kaur 💛

[taliw]

Yep September is the new reset ❤ thanks Tam

Very clear steps.
Some of my goals


Fitness twice a week

Trying 75 soft

Monthly posts for my podcast

Reading a few pages of a book daily

Journaling more

Seasonal bingo activity pages/ playlists

[shahinakhter]

I love how my mindset shifts every time I hear u talk. I love you ❤️