Dealing with a “Pick Me” Boy #shorts

[shampuu]

"I’ll just stop bothering you"

Dude… that one hits too deep 😩💀

[isabelle]

everyone talking about how they’ve met boys like this…then there’s just me wondering how she got on top of the door like that 😂😂

[Mira_Belle]

And then the ones that go “wheres my hug”… 💀💀

[xxmysticrosesxx]

The fact that my guy friend texted me the
"I'm so fugly"
&
"This is why not girls like me" today is sending me into orbit 😃🌌👽✌️

[JKERR]

"Showering without me?🥺🥺🥺" 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[Achi_-]

"im so ugly 😔😔😔"
OMG im so glad you noticed! I have been wanting to say ir for sooo longg!!

[Anonymous-]

I remember my “pick me boy” days. Now that I look back on those days, I’m absolutely disgusted with who I was. I was practically begging for female validation and I was constantly saying negative things about myself like I’m so ugly and whatnot. I realised I was being a “nice guy” and not a “kind guy” if y’all know what I mean. That time I was only ‘being nice’ to girls because I wanted to date them. Thankfully I’m nothing like I used to be. I’m no longer a simp. I no longer seek approval from other people. I’m glad I changed for the better. But last year’s memories of me being a simp, I’ll will never forget. It reminds me of the person I was and that gives me a clearer image of who I want to be when I grow up.

[coquettebrr]

not the *"showering without me?"*

[Aint_begivinaff]

“Showering without me?” That seems like something my discord server would say to me;-; also what..?

[natashaprasad]

Me: "How did she-"
My mind: "DON'T"
Me: *tries climbing the door*

[kileyreyes]

Literally everybody: "I just want a bf/gf"
*Pick me enters the chat*
"You know maybe I'm better off single"

[Chaos]

“Showering without me? 🥺🥺🥺”
Yep and let’s keep it that way.

[certified_addi]

Honestly these type of people just want you to disagree with them but that just makes me want to agree with them more when they keep saying how bad they are and I continuously say, no ur not like uhm maybe you are… maybe..🙄

[superenergygaming]

" no one will ever love me " me: ur right 😂

[rawrxglll]

you forgot “Where’s my hug at? 🥺” 😂😂😂😂

[BestMarsh]

Sometimes I say "I will stop bothering you now" cause of my anxiety 💀

[capricarrington]

My friend was kind when i first met him… then became a pick me boy and used that to control my naive emotions-

[CitrineRBX]

bros got the strength to climb up the door 💀

[nahicorua]

This made me realize I had a friend who was a pick me, he was always like, "I'm sorry I'm bothering you" or "I'm so annoying I know" or making comments about how I took too long to respond to him when he literally responded after SECONDS of me talking to him and trying to make feel bad when irl not everyone is 24/7 glued to their phone or really feel the need to respond asap like 🙄

The worst thing is I told him multiple times it wasn't a personal thing, I take too long to respond to messages sometimes because I literally get distracted so easily and forget about things and I'm really bad at making conversation so when I feel like I don't have anything else to add I'll just stop texting until I find something diffent to talk about, and he still tried to guilt trip me saying things like "but I don't have many friends like you" or "I only speak with you" all the while I was thinking "I missed the part where that is my problem??" I know I probably sound like a jackass but it really made uncomfortable how he made feel like I was his only friend and that I had an obligation to talk to him when I really don't??
Not to mention that when we just started talking he was all like "hey ✨hipothetically✨ if in the future I started liking you would you give me a chance🙈🙈?" (I know I know total red flag, but when you just meet someone you don't automatically asume they're a bad person y'know) which made me super uncomfy and made me feel bad beacuse I was taught to be✨nice✨ and I didn't want to make him feel bad by rejecting him too harshly which led to me trying to be✨nice✨ saying something like "oh hahaha idk I just met you" and he KEPT INSISTING LIKE BRO JUST LET IT BE I SAID I DON'T KNOW YOU PLS STOP
And all that got me thinking if I really was his only friend maybe there's a reason?? Like you can't really expect to keep a friendship with that attitude...

I mean we don't talk anymore because he pretty much ghosted me and I have to say I'm kinda thankful for it but I still feel bad sometimes and it makes me mad because I know I was being gaslighted and guiltripped everytime I talked with him but I guess that's an unlearning process that will take me some time to achieve, I'm getting there tho

Wow I went all the way with that rant this is a long comment lol I'm sorry I guess I needed to let it out somewhere since I don't have a therapist to listen to me lmao

So moral of the story, when you encounter all those characteristics in a guy run for your life girl!

[fox_kingofpancakes]

this is LITERALLY my ex-
and this is why i’m now single 😀