'SIR, UR SHORT, FAT & BROKE' - Kevin Samuels | A lot of yall want help but cant handle the truth.

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[AbaNPreach]

"Were reacting to us reacting to kevin reacting to kevin reacting to the dude calling in" - FJuly (Reactinception)

[rajakghosh]

A cold hearted truth is much better than a sugar coated lie by sycophant.

[abby]

Every guy needs someone to be this honest to them at least once.

[AmarD]

When I was a teen and was being a brat, after a punishment, my dad said:

"I'm tough on you because the world is hard on us men. I am pointing out your mistakes so you can learn from them, so you can grow. Because as a man you don't have as much time as you think. The world doesn't point out your mistakes and gives you a chance to learn and grow. Out there, there are no second chances. Everything the world values in a man takes time, discipline, and commitment to achieve. When you leave my house to take on the world I don't expect you to be a fully grown man but I expect you to be able to admit your mistakes and learn from them".

With hindsight, I really appreciate that I had two parents. Both my parents were amazing but for a boy having a father guide you is priceless. I didn't appreciate it then, like most teens, but my father's lessons were all true. Kevin is much like a father figure. He delivers hard lessons, and hard truths and he expects you to take action. Complaining is easy. Everyone knows how to complain. But to do something, to take responsibility for your own failure, that is what separates the men from the boys.

[cregnrnrg]

RIP Mr. Samuels. You left us too soon but you helped change many and your legacy will live on. You had something to say and many listened so CONGRATS on making a difference in this world.

[Uncle_Apoc]

"I'm working out"
"You're not working out, you're fat"
"That's true"

This took my soul straight out my body.

[CamelJockey]

that man is 34 years old still worrying about not going to his high school prom

[JamesJohnson]

Kevin Samuels isnt the hero we want, but the hero we need, a Dark Knight.

[HaleyStark.]

Half the time I cant even bring myself to tell the Starbucks barista she made my drink wrong. I cant imagine having a living where I tell people they are short and fat and not worthy of passing on their genes 😂

[autumnmarie]

He literally just telling people not to have expectations and standards that you can’t hold yourself up to and there’s nothing wrong with that

[MartialMind]

Man... you can't help being short, but there's no damn reason to be walking around out here as a fat man. At 5'5 the least you can do is turn that 5'5 frame into a machine. Become a dangerous man. As a man, confidence instantly comes from becoming competent. I'm so happy Kevin is encouraging these men to get into Martial Arts too. Foreal man.

[rasheedthepoet_]

Moral of the story: don’t ask for advice when you know what the problem is. Cause you ain’t gettin sympathy, specially from that dude lol

[scarletlady]

As a woman, I learned a lot from Kevin…RIP

[Reofenja]

More men need to hear this type of stuff. Too many of them complaining about women offering nothing of value when they themselves have no money, no personality, and aren't in any semblance of shape.

[Cyber-Rain]

Kevin was originally doing this critique on men. Then women poked their heads in and wanted to be a part of it and now are triggered because they are getting what they asked for.

[sheamc]

I'm SERIOUSLY glad that you guys posted this! I'm a therapist and a couple of my male friends have bombarded me with Kevin's videos to substantiate their experiences. A few I've had to explain that they don't fit into the category of men Kevin is referring to and that some of their own traits (mentioned in this video!) are what's keeping them out of the real running. I don't usually disagree with what Kevin says, but I have felt that some people (women in the past) wouldn't hear any of the takeaways because it would get lost in the delivery. It's great to know that he's an equal opportunity offender! LOL j/k, but this definitely provides a bigger picture to his approach. I WILL be sending this link to the gents that need to hear some of this, too.
Also, he is 1, 000% RIGHT about taking up martial arts or boxing! Activities where you can make MEASURABLE PROGRESS will prove your COMPETENCE to learn and grow and increase CONFIDENCE! I grew up as a competitive and then professional dancer with a high GPA throughout so that was established for me, but there are still times when I have to find a challenge to exercise, expand, and continue to develop my competence now. If you didn't get affirmations from the people in your life as a child, then SURROUND YOURSELF with positive, reinforcing role now! YOU and the man/woman you want in your life will thank you for it!

[marcshabott]

I'm a 5'5" man and everything Kevin said is true. My height was a huge personnal issue for a long time. I took the time to build my character, find some hobbies and build a confidence. Never been happier. So if you are offended by what the man said, take a step back and look at yourself in the mirror cause you're the only one who will help you. This won't be done overnight, it takes time and it worth it.

[okaybud]

He says the truth, women think he only roasts them. He’s even worse on the men 😂

[theylive]

Derrick Jaxn: “I’m a simp and I’m a cheater.”
*TWO STRIKES*

[shoazdon]

What’s so funny is he was waaaay harsher on the men, like if a 20 year woman comes on and respectfully disagrees with him, he’ll school her but be nice. But when it’s a 20 year old guy, even if he’s respectfully disagreeing, it’s ‘your opinion don’t matter’ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂