This Is Why You Never Cry In Front Of Women

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[HamzaUniverse_]

There is a war on masculinity
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[eugeemz]

Bro trusting reddit users to not be schizophrenic phsycopaths and have actual girlfriends and not make things up 💀

[xanox]

if you can’t cry infront of her, she isn’t the one.

[frankday]

My girlfriend cried a lot when we where together especially when she lost her dog I lost my dog aswell but didn’t cry infront of her But when I found out she was cheating on me and broke up with me my eyes watered infront of her and I jsyt left she tried hugging me but I didn’t let her as soon as I got home I cried so hard and the next 1-2 weeks where horrible but I got over her and I’m fine now

[saipruthvi]

i cried in front of my girlfriend last week and she has been acting off lately. yesterday she called me a crybaby and today when I asked her not to call me a cry baby because Im not one, she said "my dad never cried, thats how men should be. I don't want to be with a man who cries like a little girl and who is weak. I want a strong man. I want a manly man. Never cry in front of me ever again." she stopped meeting me, we are just speaking on the phone. I ask her everyday to come meet me but she finds a lot of reasons not to see me. I'm with the wrong girl and maybe ill breakup with her, it doesn't look like its gonna work

[noproblem]

If you have someone you can call brother you can cry on their shoulder they will help you get out of that situation

[danavalenzuela]

My partner can cry anytime he needs to. I hold him and I hold him up. He’s a kind, strong, level headed person and when he opens up when he’s having a tough time, I give him the room he needs and when it’s all said and done, I give him water to replenish the tears he cried.

[crazyralph]

From what I have seen, the old stereotype that says "Big boys don't cry" is gradually being laid to rest. I am happy to see that society has somewhat lifted its burdensome gender role expectations that have been placed on men; especially in the realm of emotional expression. Thank God for this because we have known for many years that emotional suppression is unhealthy for men, both emotionally and physically; and those who compel men and boys to suppress their emotions are killing them. In my observance, there are four situations when it is socially acceptable for a boy or a man to cry:

(1) When he loses his woman.
(2) When someone, that he loves, dies.
(3) When he is listening to sad country songs.
(4) When he is overwhelmed with joy.

I can personally vouch for the fourth reason because most of the time when I cry (at least 90% of the time), it is because I am overwhelmed with happiness and I shed tears of joy.
But even more seriously, in the Bible, we read that many men have cried, grieved, or mourned. Even Jesus Christ wept. Therefore, if God's only begotten Son cried, then there is no reason that any other man should feel that crying, showing emotion, or being vulnerable, is weak or unmanly. Anyone who says "Grown men and big boys don't cry", obviously doesn't read the Bible, doesn't listen to country music, has never experienced extreme joy, and has never experienced heartbreak or sorrow
Also, don't confuse crying (and shedding tears) with bitching, whining, and complaining. There is a difference. Unlike women, when men cry, it is merely an expression of emotion. On the other hand, when women cry, it is often accompanied with bitching, whining, and complaining. And females often use crying as a way to manipulate and control men whenever they don't get their way; whereas men don't do that to females.
Please consider all that I say.

[Soothing.Zoundz]

If she can’t understand that men cry too she’s just toxic. Sorry.

[crazyralph]

For what it's worth, I don't think that the expression "Grown men don't cry" was ever meant to be taken literally. It was meant to be taken figuratively to mean that grown men don't manifest weakness. But emotions are not weakness, and being sensitive, or emotionally vulnerable, is not unmasculine. To those who don't think that it is "manly" to show emotion; who is to say that men can't express their feelings or show emotions in a masculine way? None of my relatives or family members ever had any trouble doing so!

But more importantly, how come only the issue of crying out of grief is addressed? What about tears of joy? I would say that over 90% of the time when I cry, it is because I am overwhelmed with happiness. That is something else to consider.

One of the great ironies that I have found in life is that a person of true strength always feels secure enough within himself to show vulnerability or express emotions; regardless of what anyone else thinks. On the other hand, a person of inner weakness feels a constant need to suppress emotions, hold back from crying, and avoid showing vulnerability; in order to appear outwardly "strong". I have also found that those who are freely able to express negative emotions, such as anger, rage, sadness, and tears; are also more freely able to express positive emotions, such as love, joy, passion, intimacy, tenderness, affection, and even sexual feelings.

[-ForSuch-A-TimeAsThis]

Save your tears for your wife. Girlfriends aren’t safe until you make them solid.

[speedyboi]

Exact thing happened to me with my high school sweetheart. Together for almost two years. Cried in front of her like a b!tch. Then she slowly drifted from me and left me. She was amazing and lives rent free in my thoughts now.

[moroccaninchina]

If people can’t accept your weaknesses, they don’t deserve your strengths

[Arianna-eg]

As a girl i wish u men all well and my heart goes to all of u that are not ok and need help my peacs be with u all and i love tlaking to people i hope all of u will be loved and have amazing lifes and days love all of u

[spectrepar]

I remember after years of my dad keep it together as a faithful husband, caring and providing for my mom until kidney failure and type one diabetes finally killed her watching him finally cry as they played her favorite song "it is well with my soul" at her funeral then several times after that. He is in every way the man i aspire to be in being faithful to his spouse, providing for a family and being strong but compassionate. Anyone that would dismiss him for crying is someone that doesn't deserve a good man.

[crazyralph]

To encourage men to be more open emotionally, and to encourage women to be more compassionate, I encourage couples to try CFNM, which means s "clothed female, nude male". The philosophy behind CFNM is the concept of the "rebalancing of power" in male-female relations. Women, being clothed, means that they are able to feel empowered, confident, and revered. This will make her feel more self-assured, so that she can be more compassionate toward men. And men, being nude, are able to experience being open, vulnerable, and accepted. Hence, men are able to open up and express their feelings more. This helps both men and women because women crave power and men crave acceptance. So both are happy.
But there are more benefits. Men. being nude, will make a greater effort to keep their bodies in good shape. This will make women happy. With men being nude sex symbols, they will feel more at ease to be open emotionally. And women will appreciate their nude hunks more, accept his vulnerable side, and be more compassionate when he cries.

[tevitavibose]

This is real shit i did that and they went from attracted to being dried up ..please dont cry anyhow..learn to regulate emotions and postively use the strong feelings to benefit you...Stay strong men u got this..

[JesusLovesYou-cb]

I will never judge a man or anyone for crying especially if it’s my significant other, it’s ok to be vulnerable and that will never change how I feel about them

[mo.G_]

Just hug her bro, no matter what a hug always relives pain I am songle and whenever I am sad and alone I just hug myself and it feels good all I need is a hug a warm, affectioning hug

[irockwithyahweh]

Jesus Christ loves you and he did die on the cross for all of our sins