When Young people say they are ugly - Mufti Menk

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[bimmerworld]

I’m ugly, but I thank allah what I got. Sometimes you feel you won’t get married or no one likes you. But you know what? if allah likes you ! who else do you want?

[engrfka]

What hurts is when people who care about you, end up calling you ugly. So yeah it hurts

[BBClMRANAHMEDMA]

Everybody bullies me, teases me.. I'm alone all time..I also perform bad academics.. I'm 19 .. everyone scolds me.. I'm not worth.. I'm worthless..I feel very worthless...I don't go outside...I just need you Allah help me

[Mimori_Kiriyu]

You cannot be everyone’s type. So, do not even try.

[FirstLast-utbk]

im a 16 y.o girl & it hurts being ignored by everyone! i did a deviated septum surgery cuz of my breathing + my nose it was huge! i still feel ugly and im so devastated being made fun of by friends, being called cringe by everything i do, no to little friends. What hurts more is that all my family members are attractive and my classmates which hurts more cuz my sister gets compliments and GIFTS while im besides her being ignored. I WISH I ALWAYS make duas to AT LEAST have a small flower gift or a note card. At this point im waiting for my death to come and be attractive in jannah inshalla because y’all don’t know how sick and vomit everyday because of the situation

[Heynay_]

People call me ugly all the time and it hurts. I try to take it with a grain of salt but it always makes me feel like I want to cry. I know that it may not be that big of a deal to you and perhaps no one has ever called you ugly before but it kills me inside and I can’t get over it no matter what. Maybe I am ugly and maybe I should accept it 😔

[soumikroy]

We are living in a society where everyone is ready to judge you negatively. One of my friend is suffering in severe social anxiety and he always wear mask in public places because he thinks he is ugly and has fear of judgement. Low self-esteem is biggest reason of this. I am non-Muslim but I will definitely share this with my friend. Hope this will elevate his self-esteem.

[farukh]

I dont care if I'm ugly or beautiful... We should all be happy for what Allah has given us... Calling one self or someone ugly is like criticizing Allah's creation.. And we can't .. We dont have right to criticise the The creator Himself..

[celestial]

Just had a mental breakdown, but this lecture saved me

[ishratbaig]

I am very skinny and dark skin since my childhood and my family member are criticized me. I don't react to them but it hurt me a lot

[dhangenamblan]

I"m ugly but I'm very thankful to Almighty Allah for everything give it to me

[patrinaashby]

Wow, as a christian he moved my spirit...he is speaking the truth...

[latheefashadab]

Subhanallah.... you preach always exactly what m coming across and make me feel Allah SWT bless you with good health...

[mqtmkwv]

Beauty doesn’t come from the outside it comes from the inside. Tell this to more people. ❤️

[justsendmelocation]

A person's character makes them beautiful or ugly. Allah swt has not created anyone ugly.
On the outside everyone is beautiful we are attracted to what we see.

[AMMA]

I am 44, never married, no children. I have accepted that Allah SWT just doesn't want me to find a husband. My looks do affect how people see me, whether they like me or not. But I am human. I accept Allah's SWT will, but it is still hard. Most of men my age are married. I look what happens to children in the world and my heart breaks. Some people are rewarded with children and yet abuse them, or do worse. And here I am....I know I am destined to die alone. Am an only child. My father passed on 2 years ago. I still have my mother, alhamdulillah. But, if she goes before me, I know I will die alone. There will be no one to remember me, or say a dua for my soul. I hope and wish all other people happiness. And if you have someone who loves you, respects you, know that you are blessed.

[alikryeziu]

I was in the streets with some friends while they were trying to pick up girls for some reason I started crying in the bus stop. Because I called my self ugly. But 3 days later this came Allah knows best 👆

[pinaysurbito]

Thank you, Mufti Ismaeil Menk
You helf me a lot, to improve my Little IMAAN.

[sumiyaakter]

I trust Allah (s.w.t)that someone he created only for me and in his eyes I will be the most beautiful girl in the just about right time SHA ALLAH...

[carnation]

I'm not a Muslim but Christian and when I was younger, the woman who was teaching us about the Bible always said to us 'why are you all complaining all the time, Muslim people kneel for hours to pray, they thanks God for what they have' some of us would get angry after hearing that but after hearing some Muslim talk along the years I can understand now, she wanted us to be serious and treat faith like them.