Master your Mindset, Overcome Self-Deception, Change your Life | Shadé Zahrai | TEDxDRC

[dlvogxl]

"If you let others perception of you dictate your behavior, you will never grow as a person"

Masterpiece! Great one ❤

[sohammanna]

I need to rewatch this video again. And I'm gonna focus on her words and speech too, the next time.

[lovelyandeo]

5 Archetypes of Inner Deceiver and How to Overcome Them

Classic deceiver - the inability to acknowledge anything positive about yourself
• Call yourself out and practice psychological distancing, which allows you to think more rationally

The victimizer - thinking that the universe is conspiring against you, fills your mind with excuses
• Practice cognitive shifting, focus more on what you can do and what you can change

Misguided protector - protects you from possible risks of failure by keeping you paralyzed from making actions, keeps you safe but stuck
• What's the worst that could happen realistically? Just do it, take action.

The ringmaster - the unhealthy drive to keep going because you feel guilty when you stop; it's a toxic productivity, the unfulfilling treadmill of achievement addiction
• Stop wearing busy as a badge of honor. Change your narrative. Set healthy boundaries.

The neglector - seeking validation by prioritizing the needs of others more than your own; drives you to give more than your capacity
• Realize that your value is not linked to how others view you

[Azad_]

""When you prison yourself, You are limited.When you break them Your thoughts become limitless, You become limitless """Great speech Shade Zahrai...❤️

[isijznw]

This is the most mind-changing ted talk I've ever seen. She answered all my intrusive thinking, habit, and behavior. Years by years all the voices inside me control me but watching this I start to raise my awareness and take action. I hope 5 years from now, the future of healed version of me will see this comment and be proud of how far I've grown and heal. <3

[drimbesatsyed]

The beauty of Shade's speech is to say more in less, less time and less words. Ever word is calculated

[Ravicgsce]

Eye-opening speech. I had to listen to Shaďe keeping my eyes closed and keeping my ears open.

[-AkhilTej-]

🎯💎🏆 Great insightful & fruitful video 🏆💎🎯

लोकः समस्ताः सुखिनो भवन्तु
( May all beings lead prosperous life )

[Sneha-isrz]

I could listen to her all day. Her voice is so soothing! ❤

[LetsTalkSmall]

Don't make perfection, be consistent and be open to growth.

[saisriangajala]

My Inner voice keeps me limiting myself, by saying that you can't do it, it's not for you, you are too late or too early etc. I used to listen to them and missed many of the opportunities thinking that i am not potentially enough, but ended up watching people who are less potential than me grabbing those opportunities. I am not aware of these self-deceivers. I believed that the inner voice tells always me what is right for me. Today I came to know the reality of these deceivers. From today I am going to push myself harder, and not going to listen about what deceivers say. Thanks for bringing me out of this misconception.

[thepluralist]

"When you ruminate on past failures with an unforgiving lens." Awesome quotable quote. A reality many people have to deal with. Thank you.

[pathikdesai]

It’s literally funny how it took me years to learn this via self experimentation and she put everything in this video. This video is a goldmine. 🔥

[chandrashekardharmendran]

I love how she elaborates each voices and helps to get over them. It helped me reconsider how I react to my thoughts and make decisions. 😊😊

[itskrishnancostan]

you're all I need to hear rn.
it's amazing how you gave me clarity. my mind is so chaotic not knowing what should I do despite trying so hard to address my thoughts and questions.

literally an ANGEL.

[harinisridharan]

We as humans are used to such emotional setbacks. It is very difficult to be aware of these feelings within ourselves, in the first place. But you have analysed, researched and found a solution to these bottlenecks. Hats off to you.

[elenatan]

Thank you Shade for this message. Very clearly explained. It would be great to have a program of small daily practices for people to master their mindset or cultivate awareness, as these concepts take time to sink in properly. Really happy to see how your desire to serve others has blossomed so much particularly in the last 2 years. God bless.

[nickrobinson]

Incredibly well spoken and broke down all the points in a very clear and concise manner. Bravo, this was a great video!

[nirmalanagalingam]

Eloquent speaker educating with so much power. Spoken at a limited time with limitless teachings in her content. Thank you so much for the profound input that broadens one's thoughts.

[priyankachoudhary]

this video has changed my life, everything that's wrong with me and why and how do I fix it...eternally grateful for