3 Strange Reasons Why Men Pull Away (He Would Never Tell You...)

“3 Reasons Why Men Pull Away (He Would Never Tell You...)”

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Wondering Why Men Pull Away?

1. He felt pressured and inadequate [00:14]

Were you constantly chasing him? Did you want more love, affection, or lovemaking than what he was doling out? Did you feel like you were frequently trying to "fix" things in the relationship?
If you can identify with any of these, there was definitely an imbalance in your relationship, and more than likely he felt pressured and inadequate in your presence. And it's important that you know ... that's not at all your fault.

Most men run from emotional pressure like they're running for their lives (because, in their minds, they are running for their lives). Emotional pressure challenges the underdeveloped part of a man's masculinity and makes him feel ill-equipped to deal. In his mind, he feels like anything he does isn't (and never will be) good enough for you. This causes men to naturally shut down and lock their hearts up like Fort Knox, rather than deal with any more feelings of pressure or inadequacy.

2. Your relationship felt competitive [01:21]

If a man has to compete with a woman for control of the relationship, he not only feels inadequate, but also like there's no place for his masculinity in his woman's life.

Keep this in mind: it's very important.

This isn't to say that a man should control the entire relationship, that's unfair to both parties. Rather, a successful relationship has complementary forces where each person relinquishes control in certain areas. If this doesn't happen, both parties end up in competition — both compete to win and, in the end, the relationship loses. This dynamic shows up in scenarios like these:
In a social context with friends! Did the two of you get in arguments about who was "right" in front of friends?

Financially, who is the breadwinner? Did you make more money than him? And more importantly, was it ever brought up in a way that emasculated him?

Relationally, did you constantly make the decisions in the relationship? Where to eat, what fun things to do, or what movies to attend?

If he felt like you were against him instead of for him, he never felt fully capable of opening his heart because he was afraid of losing the "game" and getting hurt.

3. He didn't feel respected [02:44]

A man can't build a life with a woman who doesn't respect him. He has to feel that his partner has his back above and beyond anyone else — he must know that in his weakest moment, she will shower him with acceptance. Because, you see, here is the hidden truth about your value: you are the key to his greatness.

In order for him to unlock all that he has within him, including his tenderness and willingness to commit, he needs a deep and underlying foundation of respect.

With a high caliber woman by his side he can take greater risks in life and actually experience more freedom than ever possible by himself.

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In your corner,

Clayton


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[kkkkkkknncnn]

Well I'm a guy and I see a lot of BS advice to girls about guys' behaviour. BUT damm I HAVE to say you are the best. To all the ladies out there, there is the real deal a guy ever pulled away from you, i bet it's because of one (or all) of these three reasons.Kudos +Clayton Olson Coaching

[ekaterinasaturn]

Thank God that I've been learning English and now I am able to understand your videos. I listened to a lot of Russian coachers, but only you make me cry, because now I finally see the light. I'm very grateful.

[spoonman]

Damn dude, you know your stuff. I felt like you were speaking right to me.

[victory]

Thanks Clayton you've really helped me. You have answered alot of unanswered questions that I had...

[kimsikorski]

Why can't a man just come out and let you know if they love you. why be scared. but honestly that is one of the main reasons women do start to do things that might make a man feel like she is loosing respect because she don't know where she stands with him. even when you been together for over a year I think if the woman asks what she is to you or if you love her etc, them man always clams up and goes in his man cave. so men if you want to keep a good woman, let her know what she is to you, show her what she is to you. don't make her keep wondering. yes you might get up and leave because of these three things but most of the time they could be avoided if you were just honest from the start.
I do like your videos and have learned a lot from them. I believe your one of the best on you tube because you actually tells us what the things are and you don't talk in circles and at the end of the video let us know that for $49.97 we can purchase your e-book on how to do this or that. so thank you for that. what ever woman gets lucky and gets to be a part of your life I know you will let her know where she stands with you and you will never have to worry about the three things why men pull away. Thank you.😊 and god bless.

[GilliMarieMoody]

I’ve listened to this over and over and over. Coming from a sales background, not taking no for an answer hasn’t helped me with A Boy.

Today, A Boy said no to a question I asked twice before I said, “I respect your decision” so, I’m improving.

And listening to this episode repeatedly.

[wetsaw]

Crazy, those are exactly the reasons why I have pulled away from girls. Always felt it but never had it spoken in words. Awesome

[exitcheese]

Dear Clayton. I want to say thanks! There are so many poor teacher's out there when it comes to love. Your explanations actually were very helpful in helping me to understand the situation I was in. Guess what, it worked out. So thanks again for being the only true helpful teacher.

[wandasb]

My respect for your coaching themes!!!  I'm a You Tube fan about relationship topics and your job is awesome !!!!congratulations for your presentation I'm still in shock

[heidi]

I had a relationship where I didn't respect the person I was with. Both of us noticed and the relationship fell apart quickly. Respect is important! You also can tell your in the wrong relationship when you can't seem to respect your partner because of their choices.

[Blulious]

I just want to say: Thanks. When my ex and I broke up, he still would not tell me why but with this video I understand it a bit more.

[ezzatisaid]

I clicked on this expecting the typical nonsense but what I got was legit sincere information. Thanks for sharing :)

[Shasha]

Awesome help! You are an expert! Great advise always! Thanks!

[catskittensandmore]

I knew that hes was pushing me away because he had nothing to offer me he was actually homeless. And i was trying to help him he lived house to house really but he said i was to good to be true and he knows im beautiful and i can get a man any man but i wanted him but teach its own

[Yahshuaismyeverything]

My man said he loved me first and was clingy asf lol and after couple weeks he just slowed down talking then I had to initiate every conversation. Like wtf is going on with him I miss him a lot. I wish things can go back to normal.

[edka]

You are so right Clayton! Also with the book. :) I would like to recommend "The Bingo Theory" from Mimi Ikonn.

About technical things: I think 40 cm camera back, would give you great visual effect "between" you and us.

Lots of smile,

Edyta.

[moxfulder]

I fell sick and messed up guilty of all 3. This guy was the most amazing person I've met and I really can't stop thinking about him. what can I do to try and change it? he's currently ignoring me and totally understandable. I need to recover health first though

[lisaottomann]

Listening to all this stuff honestly wants me want to remain single- to much damn work!🤣

[MissACBrucey]

this was amazing I wish I watched this before 😓

[pamtufnell]

and I've blown it coz i m not subtle at all coz of my aspergers but I do respect him