The Dangers of 'The Romantic Weekend'

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[buda]

If he confuses you he doesn’t like you enough, , , and usually we sense that but refuse to admit it so we get confused 🤷🏻‍♀️

[inessasergeevna]

When guy is disappeared or ghosted me, I’m no longer interested why he is gone, I respect the dead and moving on 😅, but thanks Mathew for an amazing and helpful advices in love life

[Nah-ah]

I wouldn’t travel too far to stay too long with someone unless I’ve met their friends or people close to them to give me an idea of who they really are. Safety would be my biggest priority! You don’t really know someone until you’ve met other people who know them well

[MIMIDSH]

I'm not ready for weekends away for a long time because I need to feel safe and loved to be in a vulnerable position. That's why I'm the one always doing the inviting to come here. I make a huge effort to make my space as comfortable as possible-- probably putting in a lot more effort than it takes to drive the 70 miles to see me. That's how I influence the experience and make it meaningful. Thank you for another good vid.

[debbiejones]

It would be good for women to hold way off on physical intimacy. I get it, women feel like its expected these days, and believe that it is needed to form a deeper relationship. That is false. We need to stop giving ourselves away. Wait. Theres something to say about holding out until marriage. Just a thought.

[boomerangsruckflug]

Once a guy asked me to visit him, when I suggested to meet in the middle, he didn't want. Lol. I said, we better end that here. Bye bye.
Be careful women! There are some men who'd better order a woman at Amazon so that they get her delivered via mail directly on their sofa!

[AP-ggep]

You should make a video on shutting down bad behavior in men. How much energy we women should give in letting them know boundaries were crossed and how disrespectful they are.

[joannadziokan]

Some people lie about their intentions. Weekend away means being far away from home (possibly husband/wife) and getting some action. Many people travel for work and then claim it on company's expenses. I know some men like that personally. They don't even spend their OWN money on a woman lol.

[NathalieLazo]

Incredible person who is reading this. Want to let you know that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. Blessings upon blessings come to you daily. Everything you need it’s on its way to you! Be ready to receive! You are healthy. You are strong. You are capable. True wealth is coming for you. You are blessed beyond measure. You are loved so much by many. Receive this TRUTH! Bless you always with everything great you deserve. You are greatness! ~❤️Nat

[FLRProject]

I`m a guy, I`ve dated this amazing girl for more than 2 weeks, had like 5 dates, got intimate, things were intense, chemistry was intense, I was completely infatuated and thought she`s "the one".

Booked a city break trip, together with her, picked a very nice stay for a weekend (only 3hrs drive), and few days before, she said we moved too fast and doesn`t believe I am the right guy for her.

Broke my heart to pieces and I`m still not recovered yet.

Have I moved too fast? Was I showing too much emotion? I am a guy who wants a deep connections and feels deeply.

Whatever it was, she bailed.

[sun_rose]

Never ever go visiting him first. In my experience he's just not into you. He doesn't want to put in the effort

[ljiljana]

Seems like no matter what you do it's like walking on eggshells...

[estelaguidote]

Totally agree Matthew with your points of view. I don’t condone fortification! Distance can make things difficult in a relationship. If one is truly serious about another person, then he would go out of his way or make an effort to get closer to her by communicating and travelling to where she is. Otherwise, there’s no point in starting something that will go nowhere and end up with nothing really of essence.

[newyorke]

I’m single, and it’s very common for men to ask you to fly to meet them after a few phone calls or even without even speaking to you first. Women actually do this!

[tiffepatenaude]

Thank you for what you’re doing!! It’s been 3years that I’m in the club and you can’t imagine how much you help me xx

[karenmacdonald]

I met a wonderful man online. We talked, text, FaceTime everyday for 10 months.He lived an hour away. We finally met in person. We went to a park, walked and talked all day. At the end he asked me if he could kiss me and give me a hug. He was so sweet. We couldn’t wait to see each other again. We finally made plans for a romantic weekend. I took a train to the location. I got to the hotel first and waited for him to get out of work. We were so excited. I waited and waited he called and said he couldn’t make it that night. I was disappointed. But he was coming first thing in the morning. He never showed up. I was alone at the hotel for 3 days. It costed me almost $1000.00. It’s been a week and I still haven’t heard from him. I’m horrified. I tried contacting him from the hotel and for 2 days after I got home. Nothing. I’m not sure what the moral of the story is yet . I’m so confused 😔

[Pauline-zkrn]

The guy for sure has to make the first trip

[tanohaya]

Just travelled from Canada to NYC to see this guy I’ve known for 10+ years… I’ve rejected him in the past but thought I’d give him a second chance so I accepted his invitation to go and see him. He kicked me out of his house after 4 days when I was supposed to stay for a week. He left me stranded in NYC at night and put my stuff on the streets because I left a party we were at without telling him. I had left the party because he told me I could never forget the fact I didn’t want him in the past… I ended up having to go the the airport and buy another flight (which was 800$ because it was last minute) to get back home… what did I do wrong? I really thought I could trust this person, we’ve been “friends” for many years and I could’ve never imagined he would’ve treated me this way. I have nightmares and I feel so depressed because I can’t understand how someone could do that

[ivagreen]

Something from experience:
TELL THEM WHAT YOU WANT, JUST LIKE THESE PLL SUGGEST, GO THERE, WASTE YOUR MONEY AND YOUR TIME, COME BACK WITH A BROKEN HEART, THE DUDE WAS JUST LYING. My suggestion, NEVER BE THE FIST ONE DOING THE *EFFORT*

[Bamgeutcutiepie]

i think women should be extra careful to travel to some other place.... to see a man. she doesn't know that much. at least know him well. otherwise, it could be dangerous.