She's Cold Over Text, but Warm Face to Face (What Gives?)

Women often seem cold over text but warm in person because text lacks the emotional nuances and immediate feedback of face-to-face communication. In person, women can express themselves fully through body language and vocal inflections, creating a richer emotional connection. Don’t overanalyze texts; focus on her actions and behavior when you're together, as this is a more accurate measure of her interest and feelings.

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Chris Canwell

[MOHAMMADHASAN-prej]

I just realized I am not the only one who went through this.

[ehud]

Tbh as long as the sexual chemistry is ok when we meet in person I don't mind her not being into texting

[silvermine]

The moment a woman shows any disinterest, I'm out. Life is short. I don't have time for it!

[moondogsundown]

i have one and now that i have recognized that she is avoident like me, things became awesome. 3 yrs strong. i have space for 2 weeks when i am away, then hot and heavy for 2 weeks when im in town.

[eppsislike]

I have the exact thing with a woman I'm seeing and she's a severe fearful avoidant and likes me a lot. It's quite a bittersweet situation

[macdavy]

If they have an avoidant attachment they will have inconsistent texting habits

[Jdrummer]

Your a lucky man if she doesn’t want to text. That’s rare unless she’s super cold and emotionally distant. I like something in between.

[bestkepthushpsn]

Kinda going through this now after a long relationship…

[siulong]

If that's the case, I have no chance. She lives on the other side of the country.
She really seemed interested in me, to my surprise, when we first met. So much so than even the wife of a friend of mine told me: "Go for it! She is clearly into you! She asked me about you!".

However, when I travelled back to where I live and I texted her a couple of times, she was very cold. Her answer were very brief and she didn't ask me anything about me. Zero. If I just look at this, I would say she has zero interest in me.

If it is like you said, that she's not into long distance relationships, then it is over. We live at hundreds of miles distance. That's really a shame cause she's really hot.

[Dennisbro]

What if she’s cold as ice in person but heavy in texting😂

[sdmfp]

That’s fine, who has time to text all day it’s for kids

[melchiah_]

So if you've gone no-contact and she has come back a few times (but is still distant), is it then ok to contact & invite her over? or should we only wait until each time she reaches out from now on?

Perhaps this is where to apply that 80/20 thing you've mentioned?

Thanks.

[mykegoodson]

Can you please help me out I’ve followed your philosophy for years it always worked but it’s not working this time she thinks I don’t care about her what do i do? What do I tell her
Please help me out !!

[Dennisbro]

Guys is this a good line to use to put her in her place when she’s bitchy and disrespectful?

You have been acting rude and cold, It would be nice if you can change your attitude, let me know when you want to see me, otherwise, take care.