This video is for daughters who matured very young with huge responsibilities as a child .

[jendeukiee_kim]

“just because your smiling on the outside, doesn’t mean you feel the same way on the inside”
that’s literally what all daughters go through at least once in a lifetime. You can never truly tell who is happy or sad

[emmaleanna]

I think the thing that makes it the hardest is you never received that type of love and care but are expected to give it.

[graceb]

“It’s not an act of love if you make her” this line hits hard has someone who experienced SA both as a child and a young adult.

[bedtimestoriesforkids]

I have a four year old, and I am so glad I saw this video. I will make sure she enjoys her childhood and we don't put unnecessary restrictions on her. thank you for sharing this!!!

[gpfiyfjhjda]

damn. I cried harder than I wanted to. I had a younger brother at 11, and he was left to sleep as a baby in my room (although several others were free) so that I would get up at night and calm him down. I didn't sleep at night, getting up to him, in the afternoon in the fourth grade of school, crying in the middle of the day because I was tired. When there were holidays, they threw all the household chores at me, and blamed me when I didn't do them. I was raised to be the perfect housewife. Now I'm 20, I don't want anything. I still love my younger brothers, but I am full of indifference and anger towards my parents. Do not weigh parental responsibilities on older children. They are still YOUR children, not someone else's free labor.

p.s:
so okay, this comment has attracted a lot of attention! Many people have shared a similar situation, and I sincerely feel sorry for them. And, I would like to explain a couple of points: I love my brothers, they are very funny, and full of childish love, for this I adore them; I understand the position of parents, and the possible method of education "so that it will be easier for you with your children later!", I can understand it. BUT, instead of meetings with friends, I was never left with my brothers, and they did not ask for an opinion whether I could \ want to live like this. This has been happening for 10 years, under the pressure of moments, I came to terms with it, but this video woke me up. I made it clear that I was just convenient for them. They can go to work, go about their business, and I perform the role of a servant. I am very angry with myself that I have allowed myself to live like this too much, and it is difficult to break out of this circle without pain. In general, I love my brothers, respect my parents, but I want my life back. That's it, I don't know how soon I'll break out, but I just shared my pain, like others here

[missyfou]

As the oldest sister, everyone expects more from us than the other siblings. We get pressured to have to do so much responsibilities.

[Arhnes]

As the daughter that matured way too early (at the age of 11) I can relate to this alot. I always had so many responsibilities and was the therapist and the one who took care of everyones problems. I get judged for being moody and I'm scared to say no so I stress 24/7.

[Sassy.sagg]

It's all on us Finally someone who truly understands our keep going girl .... ❤

[Olivia_Han]

This made me cry. I’m the oldest kid and only daughter of a Korean pastor, and in Korean churches, the expectation for the pastor and his wife to be constantly working is high, so I got to take care of my brother starting from age 9 or 10. I was also offered as a babysitter for church members by my parents and was forced to, even when I had plans.

[em-glow]

This made me tear up. I pretty much raised my little brother until I was kicked out of the house (I was 13) I did everything, dishes, laundry, sweep/mop, take care of animals and sibling, pick up after my parents, cooked meals for me and my brother. I worked my ass off in school to get straight a’s so I wouldn’t get screamed at or hurt by my mom. I wasn’t allowed to hangout with friends or have social media.
I’m now living with my dad and I’m 16, I’ve been suffering with anxiety, depression, and PTSD since I was 10. Not to mention all the others forms of abuse I endured. Im stronger and happier now but I still struggle. Im proud of where I am now.

[SoniaBerrie]

My mother did this to me. This brings back so many horrible memories. She seemed to forget I was a human too. I was just a servant for my precious sister.

[Talie_OGRWM]

At 5 years old, my parents had my little brother. It was my job to take care of him. I fed him and bathed him. I was up all night taking care of him. I was raised to be a housewife and at 13 years old right now, my brother is turning 8, it's free labor is what my parents did to me. I never had a chance to experywhat real childhood was like. And even now, I'm still taking care of him. Im in middle school now and I'm normally at my house doing work. People always believe I'm the happy little rich girl with the perfect family. Perfect looks, perfect family, perfect grades. Look through the black and white people.

[allisontucker]

See this is why our age really needs to stop tearing each other down. Look around we all grew up with similar situations. This girl posted my exact life and that is initially why we are the way we are. We all need to recognize it in ourselves and each other. We are all beautiful beings with endless struggles. Let's build each other and not feel alone because of things that happened to us out of our control.

[ViperTrixx]

I was told that I would never be respected until I had kids. I'm pregnant now and I have let my voice be heard and no one can stop me. I was a mother for a long time to a family who only saw me as less than. Now I'm going to raise a family who will see me as worthy of love

[LowkeyLinda]

My mother was a single mother, meaning single provider. She was exhausted, overworked, and had to come home to care for us. Yes, as the oldest, I was made to do all these things but I understood that my mother was shouldering on one a job for two. And I truly understand it more now that I am a mother.

[craftsnest]

I'll be praying for anyone who is going through this 🙏❤

[eqvriiaa]

this hit hard. she explained my entire life.

[gacha._.lover]

I think parents forget we are sentient things with feelings and proper needs that need to be met

[mihiduli]

This is why the oldest sister is always the favourite sibling to everyone

[AliceXmushiXsunny]

Finally someone that understands us girls we go through a lot