#pov She claims to have had an “obvious” crush on her friend…

[ConfusedLemons]

I'm glad everyone is recognizing this as toxic and not "cute" or "quirky", bullying someone is cruel and will make them fear, dislike, and even hate you. And doing it because you 'like' them or want their attention is really gross.
Treat everyone, whether friend, stranger, crush, etc, with respect and kindness.

[DragonMoonFNAF]

Seriously, I don’t understand the logic of bullying your crush, they’re just gonna hate you

[Ikimasho_official]

The one on the left: "The F you mean obvious?!"

[Koirabi]

Y'all, if you ignore or be rude to your crush, they WILL hate you. Just saying the truth, fix your impulses.

[piperthomas]

The amount of people in this comment section, who don’t realize that this shit messes up people is horrifying. I swear their brains are rotted by social media and entertainment.

[themothman]

my best friend revealed that when we met she had the biggest crush on me,
and I had no idea I was like “how would i have known i just thought you were shy 😭”
and she was like “I SENT YOU TWO SMILEY FACES IN OUR FIRST DMS! IT WAS OBVIOUS‼️”

[Animegirly]

So true😂 like u don’t even know if they’re mean because they’re mean or they like you or smt😑

[ObbsessedwithODETARI]

My friend actually would do this to her crush and when he started to ignore her and stop hanging with her she came up to me once and started crying and shit talking about him and saying that she thought he loved her. LIKE?? GIRL WTF- the boy eventually moved schools cus my friend would literally try and go up to him and hug or kiss him without his permission and the boy uncomfortable so he left then my friend kept showing up to his house cus she knew where he lived and he moved houses and didn’t tell anyone where he was moving except for ME?? Cus I was honestly the only one who would defend him when my friend was going to far and his friends wouldn’t do anything thinking he liked it…

FUN FACTS:

•I’m not friends with the girl anymore she was huge bitch about everything and would brag and flex anything she knew I wanted without wanting it herself…

•Her crush literally told me when they first met each other that he liked her and then later on told me that he lost his love for her after she said a lot of s3xu4l and Inc3st things she would do to him and his family (cus apparently and I mean APPARENTLY my friend and her crush we related….)

(I’m so sorry that this story was THIS long but hey! Here is a… cookie! 🍪 and yea I’m just saying this so that people know that theirs boundaries and limits to wanting a relationship with someone and if ur rude to ur crush I’m sure they will not be crushing on u any sooner!😊)

[averageweeb]

That’s how my ex best friend acted. She constantly complains that her crush doesn’t like her back and my whole friend group is like “gurl bye-“

[Xoeyourgachakid]

Yeah, i'm tired of people thinking that's how you should act with your crush, and please stop saying that "if they bully you is because they like you!" Bullyng sholdn't be normalizing.

[egyptbrownnn]

I'm exactly like this, unfortunately 😭




Edit: Since a lot of backlash and arguing has been ensuing on in the replies; allow me to clarify. No, this is not as if I'm bullying or making other people dislike me. This is as in teasing or just denying infatuation as a way of showing affection. Check my replies for a more thorough explanation, and please stop spreading hate. If you don't like this comment and try to give me advice and unwanted criticism, then this video isn't for you.

[Rando_person]

I just dont understand people who bully their crush?? Like theyre are fr NOT gonna like you if you act like that 😭

Edit: lmao i just noticed the typo but wont change cuz its funny :P

[carmenslittlecorner]

And their "obvious" signs made me see them as a bully and hate them.

[elvinuzun]

Im sorry but you were toxic not crushing
If thats a crush thx but no 🤚

[tenayasichi]

First! can I get a pin I’m your biggest fan!

(Thank you everyone for all these likes! I have never got the opportunity for this many people to like my comment. So I just wanted to thank you guys!)

[NicoleRhoades]

I LOVE YOU!!!! Seriously you’re so talented!!!

[MCRLLCHN]

OKKAY BUT FOR MME ITS THE OPPOSITE, I let hrr hug me more. I hold her hand more than the rest. I spend more time with her. Talk with her, check up on her a bit more than the rest of my friends. ALL MY FRIENDS KNOW EXCEPT HER. My smartest idiot that i love :')

[ahn_erica]

when i have a crush it is OBVIOUS bc im always smiling around them, forgets how to talk for some reason and cant do stuff focused and my friends always give me the 😏 look or tease me ALL THE TIME

[monroesplace]

I'm so glad this terrible behavior is being addressed! People who bully their crush claim that they do it because they're insecure and don't know how to communicate their feelings. Well, let me tell you, you don't get thriving relationships that way. You can't beat someone into loving you. You can't degrade and insult someone so badly and expect them to be like, "Oh! This person is just insecure and is secretly telling me that they like me. This makes everything totally okay, and I really like them now." No! That's not going to happen, nor should it. You must be humble to address your feelings. Be humble to be honest with your crush. If you can't be humble, you really shouldn’t expect to hold a relationship. If you love that person, you'd step out of your comfort zone to let them know that they're loved. If you love them, you wouldn’t keep that pent up just so YOU don't look bad. See how conceited and selfish that is? You don’t know, but you'd really bless somebody so much more with being genuine than being a self-conscious jerk. Being insecure is not an excuse. Bullies are insecure, and they project that by making others insecure because they can't be humble or know how to be kind. How are you any different than that? Please treat the people you love with love! Bullying isn't a "love language, " and you should really stop expecting people to understand that and speak it with you. Being honest can be scary, but it accomplishes a whole lot more than being deceitful and rude.

[Lemon._.Eater]

This is literally when some people/adults say that if a boy bullies or is mean to you that means they like you, like that’s so toxic and I really don’t get how people think that’s okay 😭