how to become the MAIN CHARACTER in your life 🌟

Sending some main character energy your way ✨ Have fun romanticizing your life, bc we ALL deserve to feel like a star.

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I’m Aileen, a lifestyle creator sharing knowledge and inspiration on creating your dream life.

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[SamElle]

Ngl I used to be jealous of the people who were main characters in their lives and always thought I would be a side character!!

[AhmetKaan]

*If you are reading this, never ever give up. We will succeed. I'm cheering for you!*

Have a great day! 🖤

[Freverblessed]

Making yourself a priority is key. No one can make you a priority in your own life but you.

From a self love content creator to another; beautiful video Aileen!! ❤️

[livelaughhowdy]

I can't even explain how much my life changed when i realized: my life is supposed to be fun, not meh and boring. And to achieve that i need to do what i like, not care about others. I had a major confidence boost hit me about two years ago and i can just say my life completely changed. I stopped caring about what anyone was thinking, i just had fun. (There is a limit to that too though, sometimes people can disturb others while having fun. So it is all about balance.) I started being more open to things, more open to new adventures. I started doing stuff, not waiting for stuff to just come to me. I realized i can dress however i like, be who i am, unapologetically. I make my own decisions. I do whatever i think is right for me, i don't adjust my entire life according to the wants of others. I swear once i had that mental glow up my entire life changed. It is all in your head. Your life is whatever you make it, it's your decision.

[tiffanymatias]

"Life is an art, make it your masterpiece."

[khadhija]

I realized yesterday that I haven't been playing my favourite songs lately so I listened to BTS while washing the dishes and put on classical music and the theme from The Shire while making bread this morning😅 felt like I was in a 19th century movie in the countryside of England or something and it felt amazing! Love this video soo much Aileen🤗🤗

[brandi]

I needed this. I was literally just thinking I am only a background actor in my life. Just kinda dwindling about and doing everything for everyone else’s movie. It’s a sad feeling.

[lavendaire]

A fun question for you: What genre would your life movie be? 😍

[canpy]

Self discovery is the best way to become the main character of your life. You need to take out time for the most imp person of your life aka YOU. I always take time for myself no matter what my mood is. Whether im upset, im worried, tired, happy, excited or whatever, i never stop doing what makes me feel good. It can be anything. For me it's talking to myself while doing makeup. Makeup is something i love doing. As long as you do something JUST for yourself and not caring about others, trust me that's shoots up your confidence 1000x times. Like, if you're afraid of wearing that dress, just do it. Who knows you will turn out the most attractive person in room then?! I love how Aileen sista always focuses on these small points which we tend to miss out. Thank you so much!!😚💜

[kellynnava]

OK... But, Am I the only person that her videos make me happy? 🌞🌞

[AhmetKaan]

*If you don't sacrifice for what you want, what you want will become the ultimate sacrifice.*

The chances of you seeing this comment is really low, but if you did, *I hope you have a great day...* 🖤

[fireflythinking]

I was just thinking this when the video came out : "I wish I could feel more often the way I feel when i'm coming out of a movie theater, when life seems a little bit different and magical for a few minutes"

[edeleballet]

I feel that Togi has Main Character Vibes!! Confidence, authenticity, soulfulness! Animals that are well taken care of become reactive and expressive :-)

[intentionalliving]

Avoiding conflict definitely puts us in the side character energy!! Sometimes we just need to face what is 🤷🏻‍♀️🤗

[nalarose]

This desicion of becoming the main character poped out of my head from no where when I felt that I can't take others pressure and selfishness anymore and trying to takecare of their feelings too, and how funny that immediatly I found this vedio and after all this I realized that if you don't make yourself the main character of your life someone will use u and make himself the main of urlife

[Jasmine-ghsm]

This is so timely. I suddenly got tired of what's happening in my life. I work so hard but not getting what I want. I realize that maybe I'm being too hard on myself. I know I deserve more of life. I just let people use me. Today is the day I decide to love myself the most.

[clau_sing_]

"most of the time I feel like a side character" you got me there
Edit: okay after watching this video, which is beautiful, I want to say that I've tried acting out the ordinary things in my life as if I was in a movie and it only made me more self conscious and ultimately feel a bit dumb. Just my experience thought maybe someone may relate :)

[reginebee]

My state of mind has been meh, unmotivated and tired (a bit bitter) for a month now to the point I shut myself from social media and friends to recharge. This video is the answer to my current state. I forgot how to be the main character because I dwell too much on my insecurities but this opened my eyes again. I'll start from scratch and feel good once more. Thank you so much Aileen 🥰🥰🥰

[ForzaGrowth]

It's more about who you impress than how much you impress. If people you look up to are impressed by you, you're on a great journey.

[Nature_soul]

I wish I learned this lesson before... This should be a part of school education ☺️ love you 🙂