Her husband woke up after 16 years in a coma #shorts #movie

[markraymondgratil]

That's the sad part of this scene. Nobody's at fault here. Yet it feels unfair at the same time.

[moonlight]

15 years??? Insurance wouldn't let me stay 3 days after a hysterectomy and and apendix removal complications. What insurance does he have!!!??? I need this

[main.ignisha]

My take on this: kudos to the ex-husband for asking if the new/current husband is good to her.
And after seeing that one comment with the sypnosis, it's definitely a very, very bittersweet situation.

[samfarr]

Terrible situation for all. Heartbreaking in truth. To him, he's been sleeping for a minute. To her, it already seemed forever. Good lordt

[SuhaniG-tgsf]

bro she literally waiting for 15 years before moving. It's a tough situation but I totally understand it since she probably thought he wouldn't wake up. She did what's best for her and her son.

She raised her son all alone for almost 2 decades. 15 years is a decade and a half, it’s a hell lot of time. People don’t realise that you almost become strangers after some point. 15 years in coma is pretty much a death sentence. You can’t expect someone to wait forever unless ur a selfish person. Personally I would want my partner to move on after a while so they don’t end up lonely. My family has been in this kind of situation so I know what it’s like. Also not everybody is a Christian and gonna say the same vows.

It’s fine to stay and also fine to move on. Both are totally fine depending on one’s situation.

[MikkiandAngel]

I remember being in a coma well kind of sorta I was put in a coma because I was vomiting blood after pancreatic cancer surgery I woke up in ICU critical care Stanford after five days in a coma and here I am 15 years later alive and I’m one of the very few that made it from pancreatic cancer and I literally helped Stanford make medical history.
As a retired nurse, they used my dietary program. Literally everything I put in my mouth and now incorporated with other pancreatic cancer fighters so they can live just like me.
I give God thanks every day. I wake up because he has a plan for me.

[angelafahlenkamp]

How freaking heartbreaking for everyone!

[tiffanymartin]

Man if i went into a coma and was out for 16 years i would be happy if everyone moved on. Life is to short to wait around for someone to wake up. I wouldnt want my kids and husband putting their lives on hold.

[Sellrasn]

I wasn’t angry at the mother for not wanting to be with him when he woke up, or for moving on. I was angry when she tried to not let her son see him. I get they all went through a horrible time, but to this guy, a few seconds passed and suddenly he lost everything. Idk why everyone seems to be angry at him when arguably he lost the most

[Khahtt]

Ok, synopsis time
So dude is critically injured, doctors at the time say he will never ever wake up again but hey, at least he isn’t on full on life support so there’s that, spends 16 years in a coma in a nursing home.
Wife is left managing an infant all that time, meets someone willing to walk into this situation, goes through the process to get a divorce, requires that her new husband understand about keeping her now ex-husband going in the nursing home. Despite being divorced and remarried they are still making sure he is taken care of.
Dude in the coma gets dumped out of his bed when the are changing the sheets at the nursing home, insurance insists he go to ER and get checked, ends up waking up after all (because things heal and medical understanding/learning changes quickly let alone 16 years worth of change.), we get this scene, and then it is discover that the dude needs surgery because of that fall. Risks assessed, warnings given, surgery happens but complications occur, this time dude really doesn’t make it but he got a chance to say goodbye/see his son/know for a fact that his wife is being taken care of.


I’ve seen a lot of comments arguing over ‘for better or worse’, ‘till death do is part’, etc. When you are told there really isn’t any hope, that your person is never coming back, that for all intents and purposes it’s over, that yes they can breathe on their own but they need IV nutrients so they don’t starve to death, then there is no reason to not conclude that ‘till death do is part’ has been fulfilled.
Moving on, actually being present for the other people in your life is really hard. Doing so while still managing to uphold ‘for better or worse’ and ensuring continuity of care for someone who will never wake up again is even more difficult.
For those saying that she should have waited I ask why? Why wait? This is no different for the family than having someone go missing, waiting 7 years and having them declared dead. This is no different for the family than having somebody captured by enemy forces and reported as KIA and then turning up in Miami 2 decades later.

[Missa-]

Divorcing a coma patient is super difficult and requires so much evidence of medical incapacity and basically requires that they be declared unable to wake. So for those say she waited 15 years she did not, she would have taken many ywars for divorce and multiple years of dating before marriage.

[susanbalogh-]

My husband passed away over 8 years ago. It still feels like only yesterday. If he was in a coma instead of passing on, it would still seem like only a short time. I don't understand why people say a person has to move on when a loved one dies. I still sense my husband's presence. I know nothing is missing in my life. I think I can also empathize with the characters in this video. There is nothing wrong with their decisions. I am retired from healthcare. I've seen patients in comas. Many were not on vents. If a patient can breathe on their own, it would be murder to euthanize them if they do not die on their own.

[mthebazile]

I remember that when I watched this it made me really angry that the son and the now ex wife were acting like that towards him. It's not his fault that he was in a coma. They basically abandoned him for good when he woke up. I'm not saying they shouldn't have moved on, I'm saying that they could've at least "be there" for a person they once loved. That is what feels unfair to me. I know it's a traumatic experience for everyone but the thought of waking up after 15 years and having no one by your side, almost like you mean nothing to them, is so heartbreaking...

[GmaT]

Super sad situation hopefully his son can get over it and be respectful and kind to him he's been unconscious for 17 years and I'm sure you will understand his wife's moving on 🙏🏼

[sherisoloway]

I worked in a nursing home where a resident was 10 + years into a coma. His wife still came to visit 3 times a week, she had a significant other who understood and supported her visits and the fact she would not marry him as her "husband" was still alive. They were divorced because otherwise his medical debt would have buried her years ago. Yes you can divorce a comatose person and being in a coma doesn't necessarily mean you are on life support.

[caymens]

man, that would SUCK. But if I were him, I think I could understand, especially if the doctors told her hed never wake up

[BraffyLix]

My dad passed away in 1998 after being sick bedridden for years but my mother didn't remarried nor she ever thought of it, instead, all she could ever think about was how to raise us three siblings on her own and she did really gave all she had and fought through thick and thin whatever stood on the way. My mom said she never complain about it even a bit and thank God for giving her the strength she needed and for everything. I'm so honoured and greatful for having a caring mother who love us unconditionally and had to go through life's challenges all on her own and I'm sure there's not many loving person as my mom out there. I love you, mom ❤❤❤.

[Quoted]

it sucks for him bc it feels like he just took a nap, imagine waking up from a nap and your wife and kids aren't your wife and kids anymore... sad

[dgbdgb]

My very first boss on a summer job when I was a teen, wife was in a coma for almost 20 years. He did take a live in girlfriend but he wouldn't marry her and she understood. Sadly she didn't wake up. I moved away before she passed so I don't know if they married after she passed. Just a sad situation period.

[rukihaniff]

This sounds so fucked up but I rather have stayed dead then waken back up to this. Why does my heart hurt so much for him? These stories are crazy.