A Better Us - Dr. Gary Chapman - How to tell your spouse the things that bug you!

New York Times Bestselling author or "The Five Love Languages", Dr. Gary Chapman, shares wisdom with us about how to best communicate to a spouse the things they do that bother you. Here's how to have your best shot at getting the change you want to see!

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[neohermitist]

This applies to normal, emotionally and psychologically healthy adults. That should be the disclaimer at the beginning of each of these videos.

[DrSRanjanMBBSAcupuncturist]

1:11 Choose your time - after meal, Private Place ... never in front of people; Feelings.
Ask for permission: Before discussing an issue, ask if it’s a good time. If not, wait until they’re ready. This reduces the chance of an explosive reaction.
Avoid overwhelming them: Don’t overload your spouse with multiple complaints at once. Stick to one issue at a time to prevent them from feeling attacked.
Give compliments first.
Frame your suggestions in a positive and encouraging way.

[legacylivesej]

This was what I needed to hear n gonna start doing this 🙌

[NatureAndOther]

Wow, really, who loves soneone and want them to change 26 things in one year....1 or 2 should be well enough....if you get annoyed by so many things your spouse do....it's the one who has to change.

[rebeccaschneider]

Please do not walk out of the room while explaining something to you.

[manmad]

Is this talking to a loved one or a psycho?