Is She Into You or Turned Off By You? | Body Language Superpowers!

Samantha was in a quiet hotel bar, drinking alone, when Bill came up and introduced himself. Bill, ever the gentleman, asked Samantha if he could sit down and buy her a drink. Throughout their entire conversation, Bill became increasingly flirtatious, often laying his hand on Samantha’s shoulder whenever he made a point or told a joke. Bill was a natural conversationalist. He loved to tell stories and found it easy to make people laugh.

Sure enough, Samantha soon found herself laughing at just about everything Bill said. Bill had a feeling Samantha liked him, especially as she kept on telling him how funny he was. What Bill failed to notice, however, was the myriad of nonverbal cues Samantha kept sending his way. Despite the fact that Samantha was looking directly at Bill and smiling, her body told an entirely different story. The moment Bill sat down, Samantha grabbed her purse and crossed her arms. At no point during their conversation did she turn her body to face him. She even kept her legs crossed, pointing her feet away from him. As Bill continued to engage her in conversation, Samantha barely touched her drink and kept her wrists face down on the table. And even though Samantha continued to chitchat to Bill in a light-hearted way, not once did she touch her hair or touch her body to signal romantic interest. To the casual observer, Samantha’s body language screamed please leave me alone. Bill, however, had no idea what Samantha was thinking because he was entirely focused on the sweet and encouraging words flowing from her mouth. Only when Bill finally asked Samantha for her phone number did he discover her true level of interest.

Fifteen minutes later, Bill skulked away from the bar, frustrated and humiliated. What a cock-tease, he thought. I bet she loves to lead men on. If only Bill knew how to read body language, he would have saved himself a lot of trouble and preserved his ego in the process.

In the same way that women use body language to signal interest, women also use body language to let men know when they’re not interested in being seduced. It’s important to understand what these nonverbal cues are so you can avoid wasting your time trying to seduce women who aren’t interested. Closed, unreceptive body language is often displayed in one of the following ways:

— She crosses her legs and arms.
— She keeps her wrists turned down.
— She turns her feet and legs away from you.
— She moves personal objects out of your reach.
— She doesn’t touch any objects or preen herself.

When you pay close attention to a woman’s body language, you’ll quickly discover how a woman feels about you. You no longer have to try to figure out what she’s thinking or feeling. The important thing to remember here is that female communication is covert as opposed to overt. A woman will rarely tell you that she likes you and wants to date you. This doesn’t mean a woman won’t signal her interest or availability. When a woman’s attracted to you, she’ll let you know by displaying, what are to her, obvious signs of interest.

Understanding how a woman communicates her interest is a crucial part of the seduction process. What does her body language tell you? Is her body language open or closed? Are her toes pointing towards you or away from you? A woman that’s interested in you will make herself available to you. She’ll communicate her interest through her body language and her actions.

Besides a woman’s body language, there are even more subtle signs of interest that you must be aware of. For instance, has the woman suddenly started wearing lipstick or perfume? Does she come and sit close to you? And does she frequent the same places you frequent? You only need be aware of such “coincidences” to realize that most women go out of their way to make themselves available to men they find attractive.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

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Chris Canwell

[justinc]

Bartenders are not Impressed with Bill at all lol

[pavanam]

My mood goes HIGH after seeing your videos, Chris.

[skeelo]

U are a cartoon master! I can't get enough of these cartoons, and the points put across somehow come out clearer 🤞🏽

[stefanross]

Excellent video Coach! A good review of the essentials.

[Nightraven]

Just bought your audiobook. Looking forward to the listen.

[PeaceEpieces]

Great topic. Today irl, got all the signals but still questioned her attraction due to her subtlety. She thinks I don't like her lmao we were in the breakroom at work .. homies are starting to ask me for girl advice there even tho I stay single.. I'm a psych major n this shits fascinating. I don't wanna be like Freud on the deathbed wondering about women.

Only thing I question here is the line that bill was a natural conversationalist and loved to tell stories. I heard about a study that concluded thay good storytellers are far more attractive to women.. so I wouldn't brush that trait under the rug. However timing is important and the cartoon illustrated that so I get it

[femidaramola]

Technically True...Body Language Signals are Core and Important

[crusadervienna]

When i see your cartoon, i wanna go or have a drink!🍻🍷🍹🍸🥃

[GMacII]

When a woman likes you, she helps you.

[brianwaite]

Excellent content from this video! I am super interested in getting your book now.

[bullywongs]

Luv your content. Thanks .please keep it rolling

[googlebanmetoomuch]

Sure have to do a lot of work just for some scratch!

[okangaallansavage]

How many pages does Atomic attraction have?

[lremipsum]

Bill got mixed signals. Bill forgot to do Fourier analysis.

[ryanandrews]

I bet Bartners see this all the time 🥲

[kristiancasipit]

what app did u use for this cartoon presentation??

[MikiMaki]

he did 2 bad mistakes, regardless of her body language.
1 don't give a woman too much attention, especially in the beginning
2 don't behave like you have to impress her, by telling stories, jokes, ect.
his behavior screamed "I am undesirable and I have to put in a lot of effort, so that you can like me" and there is nothing less attractive to a woman.

[MattGarcyaDC]

I'm curious if there's any bartenders out there that have seen stuff like this

[alexandredowning]

In front of a woman, is it good to behave like a taliban or a nazi?which is the correct behaviour?

[sachinumax]

Those dislikes in this video are from womens.