4 Weird Eye movements of a Narcissist

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[alwayslearningthankyou]

You forgot the emotionless stare as they try to learn your all your weaknesses. It is also used to intimidate you.

[kerrib]

One of the creepiest ones is the blank stare (with a touch of poorly hidden contempt) as you’re telling an engaging story. Normal people sort of smile and nod along, laugh at the funny moments, gasp at a shocking part…you know: emote. Not these people. Flat. Like a crocodile. Calculating. If you watch them watching their target you can see them sorting out information…looking for the dirt in the story or something they can twist or intentionally misinterpret to weaponize against them.

I feel like this one is often missed because our attention (rightly so) is on the person telling the story.

[justwondering]

Oh yeah, it's all coming back. The disgusted looks. The dismissive looks. The glaring eyes. The eye rolls. Almost eight years narcissist free and thankfully with healing comes the fading of memories.

[skywalker]

The look of pure hatred in their eyes when you call them out on their shit they give u a chilling glare it's frightning

[grandmaatthefarm]

Near the end of the relationship---when HE knew that I had disconnected from him emotionally---he refused to make eye contact with me AT ALL. It was as if he felt naked and ashamed because he knew that I knew the truth about him.

[suebotchie]

Worst thing about narcs is: even when those filthy maggots are out of your life, it's very hard to ever trust anyone again.

[Accuface]

They also have this constant state of surprise, looking at you with a surprised face as if you are disgusting or stupid. They will stare at you whenever they see you, trying to shame you.

[nomudnolotusnodragonnogold]

Watched my narc mum's eyes turn black.
She was enjoying watching me suffer at that moment...
Pure evil.

[greeksandacamera]

Narcissists like to go to church and get noticed for doing things that make them appear to be saintly. But they are anything but, as revealed by how they talk down to others and to openly gossip. The Bible says it well that we are known by our fruits. Kindless, patience, these are good fruits.
The prideful narcissist puts out bitter fruits and pretends love. It is all an act. The sad thing is that they think they are better than anyone else, and in no way can a narcissist humble themselves to God, until they should ever get it how they are owned by the devil. The answer is to humble oneself and let God be in charge. So many never get it on this. They are hooked on power and controlling others. This channel is one of the best. This counselor CARES!
Narcissists like to verbally bully and put others down.
Nothing they like better than insulting this one person who is usually a kind hearted person and doesn’t know how to defend themselves. I’m telling you it’s a very good thing to call the bully out in front of everyone in the social setting and smiling while doing it, to tell them they are not being kind, that they are not doing what Jesus says. They try to rebut you so to put their shame onto you, at which point just tell them to “get back in your cage.”

[LUVtoU]

Narcs shame you even while petting your dog. I’ve got it on video of my narc wife petting our dog while saying over and over “I thought your daddy (me) said he brushed you.” What she was really saying is that either I’m a lying liar and/or I’m incompetent. They never miss a chance to demean, demote, degrade, and devalue you—even when petting a dog! Think about that! Love to you all my fellow survivors!!! Great job Danish!!!

[dianacano]

Yes, “narcissistic abuse breaks your soul” ❤

[annelikriek]

I really do feel for the people stuck in relationships with narcissists. It is pure abuse, nothing less and maybe even worse than physical abuse.

[timothydraper]

The 'sideways and downwards' eye movement with a smirk is spot on, their way of displaying contempt.

[jlh]

When they look straight through you.
Looking straight at you but not seeing you. Blank, hollow eyes with pupils like pin heads. Souless eye stare.

[RoseStone-hc]

Yes, I lost almost all of my personality. Didn't know myself anymore.
Became 😭 co-dependent !
Trying always to please him, which is impossible....
Narcs are ingrates.😢

[lindamoore]

Their eyes are often 'empty' as well, like there's no soul there. Good video! Thank you.

[kathleenborsch]

I have had ADHD for all my life, 67 years. People didn't understand it back when I was young, and my narcissistic mother was always annoyed and disapproving of my very existence. She always had her eyebrows raised up, either to catch the attention of someone more interesting and adoring of her, or to accentuate the dramatic eye roll at anything I said, accompanied by a huge "pshhh" sound out of her mouth like I was "just making her life a miserable he'll", as you said. It was truly "daggers to my soul" and "killed my voice" for many years.
Now Mom has Alzheimer's. I am the only person that she cannot understand, even though others do. When I would speak, she'd just frown at me, do the eye roll, and then ask someone else "What did she say?" I've gone No Contact now, and I am very happy and recovering well.

I'm glad I found your channel. Thanks!

[dianadiehl]

The up-down with the smirk was standard behavior for a psychopathic/malignant narcissist ex.

[marinzlife]

Almost 10yrs relating/studying a narcissist and I’m still amazed at how the devil is hidden in plain sight.

[gregmacklin]

Yup, I dealt with all of that crap for 26 years.
I will never do it again.
I'm quite happy living alone in solitude. And if I die alone, I'm OK with it.