Men are expected to put in all the effort when dating #shorts

[mcknit]

When they say men don't put in effort, they mean the guys they want only text them at 2am with "u up".

[wagmi_dude]

Men that are visible to these women don't care. Invisible men can put all effort without any outcome

[scottclarke]

They wouldn't know effort if it hit them in the head. They are just entitled.

[Moshuun]

No Effort = the guy I like doesn’t care about me
The guy who delivered a galaxy to their door who they don’t like, is irrelevant.

[mr.cynical]

Reciprocity is a lot like a mirror. What you see in the mirror is what you put in front of it.

[Emolay]

it's simple, he wants you or he doesn't want you

[jacobjoachim]

not to mention how when we do put in effort all we get is "well i dont like guys that like me too much" or "you try to hard"

[Devo]

#2 they will never understand. move on boys its not worth it anymore

[huuuuuumpy]

Who would put in effort for the town bicycles? Gotta be worthy of their effort. Something that goes both ways.

[eduardoflores]

Those 2 girls have no idea what we man suffer for our women

[robertweaver]

I know I've always put in 99% of the effort while the woman typically puts in 1-2% of it. 5% at best

[silentcal]

As a man who has been on 40+ dates. I have only been asked out for one of those dates. So there's that.

[alank]

There is no upside for a man to make an effort.

[martysykes]

It makes no sense to me to put in effort only to get strife, discord, etc., which is my only experience with the opposite sex. I’m less alone, alone.

[shagdog]

When men don't put in any effort it's because you don't bring anything to the table and he realizes that you aren't worth the effort.

[isahenix]

I give effort for a week or two then stop reaching out, if she doesn’t try and keep talking then I’m done

[sykotikathirteen]

It’s usually the fact that the effort had no result and was stopped. You don’t put effort into anyone that is not interested or giving any effort in return

[literallyanangrymoose]

That's cute. Women don't have to put in any effort because men want them by default. Men must put in the effort.

[Furniture]

I'm guessing those two women are chasing after the guy who can have a different woman every night... Of course he doesn't put in effort, he doesn't have to.

[brunoquintana]

All men and women are different. Thus, every relationship is different. But, with that being said too many men give women too much attention that they don't deserve. If a women isn't matching your energy move on men. Don't chase that women.