Why Is He Using Me: 4 Ways To Change This!

Are you wondering, “Why is he using me?” Do you want to know what you can do about it?

This is such a common question. People often come to me asking why guy can't just be honest about what he wants, and why do they give you hope when they don't want anything more than just casual sex.

If this is happening to you, then there is a problem.

Before I was a relationship expert I thought that everything was peachy and wonderful in love. But after having coached over 30,000 people, I have come to understand that there are a lot of problems in our society.

A lot of guys just want to use you for their ego, so they don't give you what do you want and deserve.

Unfortunately there is no good answer to why men use women, aside from the fact that it boosts their ego and self-esteem, and makes them feel like a man. If a guy is doing this to you, he is being disrespectful and you need to ask yourself how you can change this situation in your personal life. If you are in this situation, it means that you gave this guy all you had to give and you didn't get the same in return.

He doesn't feel like he has to give you anything, so he's just enjoying the situation and holding on to the control.

So the “why” is not what's important; it's how you can change the situation.

- You can stop talking to him
- You can block him
- You can make sure you never make the same mistakes again

If you don’t, and this will become the pattern and you will keep attracting men that use you.

People always tell me that the guy wasn't like this at the beginning of the relationship, but we're not focusing on the beginning of the relationship - we are focusing on the present moment.

If you feel that this man is using you, then you should stop right this moment. He is not good for you and he is not going to make you happy - he just wants to have control over you.

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[timelesswords]

If he doesn't give you time, attention. And it's very ok to loose him. He's not worth fighting for. That's it

[hushpuppies]

The worst feeling is being used. Even worse is you know it and can't do anything. You can't change him or yourself.

[daydreamer]

After we met we had a strong chemistry. Yet he didn’t want to commit and the other day he told me that he would wanna see me as a sister, and bestfriend. I said I can’t believe you and cut him out. My heart basically is just shattered to pieces

[F]

Oh my God, you are so right! I have had enough of this kind of men, and honestly after I rubbed on his face his falsity, he tried to show up as an angel and me the bad one...these kind of men are manipulators but they also taste of their own poison, cause we, women can love them but we get to one point where we love ourselves more....thank you for your videos; they are really helpful cause they prove, at least to me, that I am a great woman and he lost the best one ever....thank you!

[Lookiseeyou]

i was used ... i am a very beautiful woman inside and out this happened to me for 7 months of weekly dating and contact he displayed me he used my kindness everything ... its so very hard to recover from this ... 💔

[agnesdereulle-recitsdevie]

Why Is He Using Me, yes, it's a so difficult situation, thank you for your tips and the 4 ways To Change This

[shawnrenaud]

Why can't we use them for the same thing back? 🤷🏼‍♀️

[amandasmith]

Men who use tell a woman what she wants to hear..

[sibymichele]

Thank you so much for your advices. I feel so good, since I have started watching your video. Thanks since Tennessee

[elainerobinson]

This sucks like hell but the truth is the truth Thx Alex❤️💯

[saniayousaf]

Absolutely he was such a bad man you r right Alex I was in a shocked after that shit relationship but now I m focusing on my self growth

[andravilea]

I told him he just use me and he just read my message and said nothing.

[juvailaj]

Hello Alex thanks really for all your video I love them thank you

[annebos]

I like the way you say "asshole" 😂

[annalieperez]

I will never give too much love now, now. I will change thank you for this sir. 😘

[zetajoanne]

Thanks for your video, I’m beginning to see that my bf is making use of me.. he is in full control of the situation. We don’t seem like a couple too. No contact during weekdays, weekends will depend if he wants to see me.. how can this be consider a relationship??

[saniayousaf]

Soo true Alex he used me n now I m suffering the terrible shocked I can't even explain my pain.

[foodieme]

I know he was using me & i was not happy with his bad habits but I don't know why I'm so depressed
I'm hating him with all my heart
But my heart is full of anger guilt and hate
😭😭😭😭😭

[samreen]

Alex he is same as you described, but he was not like that in past. After taking many benefits in terms money and physical relation, he went to his wife. This married man changed totally. He is making lame excuses for contact, for meeting. And said that my wife is spying on me. She fights all the time due to my contact. So wait for my good time. When things will be right. I will meet you and contact myself. Don't contact me unless i don't. 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
I love him. But he did all this 😔.

[qh]

It's too late for me, because i'm on pregnant now