Why Are Guys Mean to Girls They Like?! | Jordan's Messyges

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[FrameworxProductions]

If a guy or girl is straight up mean to you they are immature. Leave em alone.

[William-Nettles]

Guys are mean to girls that they like, because they don't want the girl that they like, to know they like them. It's really a matter of self confidence.

[alnewberry]

We guys don't like feeling vulnerable, and actually sharing our FEELINGS (shudder) makes us feel vulnerable.

[Michiganman]

I like the "tough love, say it like it is" advice that actually answers the questions. The WORLD NEEDS MORE!

[sarah]

I lost my faith in humanity multiple times at Target....but that's mostly because I've been working there for 3.5 years. The things people say and do make you want to cry. 

[littlegirl]

I had crush on a really weird guy. He acted really goofy at first, I kind liked him, he always tried to grab my attention and one day I decided to talk to him and he acted kinda mean. He then asked me if I like him and I said "Not anymore". I walked away and for some reason now he hides from me. Whenever I see him ( we live in the same neighbourhood) He runs away and hides or starts being mean for no reason. He is 18 and he doesn't act his age.

[Bonestheninja]

I know there are some nice guys out there, so I want to write to encourage you that NICE GUYS DON'T (I repeat DON'T) FINISH LAST!
It's never right to be mean to women or girls.  And if being nice means you're ignored by someone you like, then PURSUE her, but never treat her as less than a priceless gift.  If she still goes for someone else (possibly some "jerk"), then there is a better woman for you.  Sounds cliche, but it's very, very true.  We can't see the end from the beginning, but I promise you that if you form righteous values and hold to them no matter what, in the end you will not regret it!  :)

[rosieharris]

Hey Jordan!
I'm homeschooled to and love it! I just wanted to say thanks for showing how being homeschooled is really amazing! 

Rosie.

[sparkly]

Wow. Jordan actually answered all the questions with real answers. Nice!

[CatzAndMinecraft]

I don’t get how guys would be ok with themselves from doing this. If anything, it makes the girl hate them more than like them. It’s just so immature and rude and sometimes it goes too far and makes us have more insecurities even if they don’t mean it.

[markerickson]

I'm missing the "Flooffy" ;)

[indyhomagirls]

some guys throw rocks at girls they like.

[iluvsoqr]

I have to admit that I cackled as you attempted to talk while juggling and failed. However, you get extra kudos points for juggling!!! =D

[EggShen]

Holy (blimey) cow.  You gave actual, serious, for reals good advice this time.  On purpose, even.

What's gotten into you guys?

[annab]

AHHHH! Jordan you're wearing a Fresh Modesty shirt! (can't get over this xD haha)

[daughteroftheking]

He was teasing or poking. He called me dude and cursed me and told me if I didn’t like what he said I could go find someone else. Never sees me but wants me to see him. Or gets mad if I don’t. Doesn’t answer me but gets mad and blocks me if I don’t respond right away and he’s 37

[flanfan]

why are the vast majority the questions you answer relationship based? Does no one have any genuine spiritual problems in their walk?

[Julianjazzaaaaa]

"Does it make me look clingy/desperate/needy if I'm always the one texting him first?".... (Jordan) "YES." XDXDXDXDXD

[uniquelysydney]

He had some good advice in this one. :)

[AndrewAkers]

I like the not-so-subtle ad placement for the Vespers...