Why 90% of Men Are INVISIBLE To Women on Dating Apps

Most men are invisible to women on dating apps, and in this video I explain why, and what to do about it...

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[PepeToTheMooon]

Dating apps are fun if you want a night with a 5 who thinks she’s a 10. That’s about it.

[briandam]

90% of men are invisible to women.

An absolute blessing in disguise.

[a.f.s.]

This info is true brothers. I am 53, single, never married, no kids, , , , and most importantly jacked. Not huge, 5’10” 195, but excellent capped delts, defined arms, with a tiny waist. I can literally assemble a new lineup of chicks every month, and I’m talking women from 30-60! The reality for me is at my age theres not much competition. Most of the “chads” from my youth are now out of shape, out of the game, or simply beat up looking. It gets easier as you age if you stay on your game.💪

[panjacek]

It's all relative. If everyone becomes a chad then chads will become invisible and a handful of giga chads will only get noticed.

[gracerules]

Yeah I'm invisible and at peace with that. I have lost weight but looking better is insufficient by itself. It's just a good starting point.

[Cee_Eff]

I'm very fit, but not 6'. Middle aged and greying. I have my hobby's interests and friends. Belong to a men's group and have been improving rapidly. Made a hobby out of improv and acting classes and several other things Rich talked about...I'm still invisible and ignored.
The very few that see me are all ran through and know nothing about being a GF despite having a revolving door of guys. Rejected them all despite having no options.

[DavidW-uxgc]

I recently broke up with my oneitis. I feel free now.

[psp]

They have too many options I watched a friend make a profile immediately had 50 likes when she finished it

[Already.Forgotten]

Men feeling invisible on dating apps, as they constantly swipe for validation and told to get fit, improve, look better because that’s what grabs attention. But does it really matter? Whether you are a beta or alpha, the end result is the same. You might catch her attention today, maybe even tomorrow. But in the grand scheme, it’s just another fleeting interaction in a world where none of it has any real consequence.

[West]

It's definitely tough out there. I got the attention of a woman 5 years younger, thin, blue eyes, pretty, decent curves. Probably an 8.5 overall. But was a single mother with tons of baggage. Dropped her down to a 5.5. Found out she has a cheating past, dropped to a 1.

[Larry-qzes]

Don't chase women, instead, chase...
1. Goals you have set for yourself
2. Hobbies
3. Exercising
4. Opportunities that will bring you success in business and financial
5. Traveling.

[hollowtomato]

Its madness out there these days.

Back in 2016 I was a cashier while in university and that was the golden age to be on Tinder. I had hundreds of matches and could go on dates with different women many times a week. There was none of the laundry list demand nonsense that we see today, or it was super rare.

Nowdays its hard enough for guys to get a job because of the economy, let alone a date with a quality woman. Its amazing to see western societies falling in real time and women's demands for a partner skyrocketing at the same time.

[MikeG]

I don't think women care at all how well a man fights

if they witnessed a 5'6 guy beat up a 6'2 guy, they would still feel safer with the 6'2 guy

[bigredghost]

You can lose a lot of money chasing women but you’ll never lose a lot of women chasing money

[Cee_Eff]

I discussed this episode with a few collogues who are experiencing the same things. We noticed that many women "self rejected" by rejecting us before we rejected them. We think it was their way of "being strong" and exercising their "delusions of power" in front of their friends, before reality hit in and we rejected them.

[chance]

I sat down one night, spent 2 hours going through profiles commenting on the background where they were picking out something about them to comment on and got undesirable results. Jenna, just copied and pasted a general message, changed their name and still got undersirable results. I gave up focus on golf working out. I got a dog and to be honest I'm quite happy with that.

[DavidW-ngzv]

Dating coaches often recommend that men wear bras over their shirts in pictures on dating apps to "stand out from the crowd."

Guys, trust me, it's not true. It's a scam.

[Hiflyg]

Gotta admit, this is a topic I've been wanting to hear about. Why are decent looking men who are head and shoulders above the average women finding it hard to connect on dating apps. We know women judge men alot harshly compared to how men see these same women in return. I personally blame social media and camera filters for giving women insanely delusional expectations about the man they want to end up with.

[andrewmarshall]

Listened to the Unplugged Alpha a while back and really enjoyed it. I'm at a point in life where I'm enjoying being single and am off of most social media and am off of all of the dating apps. I'm focusing on my faith, my kids, my pets, my longevity, and my hobbies. If a woman comes along, that's fine, but I am haven't made that a priority in a while. I don't know if I will again, but it won't be in the online world more than likely. Great video and great advice Rich.