Debra Fileta: Addressing the Root Cause of Your Anger | FULL EPISODE | Better Together on TBN

This week on Better Together, professional licensed counselor and author Debra Fileta addresses anger, and what the Bible says about it. Join the conversation as Sheila Walsh, Faith Eury Cho, Irene Rollins and Alexandra Hoover join Debra Fileta to address the root cause of anger and discuss the biblical perspective to navigate through it.

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00:00 How Not to Give the Devil Territory in Our Anger
06:35 "Anger is the Secondary Emotion"
10:45 What Anger Really Feels Like
15:43 How Walking in Spiritual Authority Changes Your Anger
19:11 What Anger Manifests Itself As
24:44 Live From Love in Christ to Love Others
32:02 Be Lead by the Holy Spirit With Anger
34:20 Honoring Your Emotions
38:16 Anger and Motherhood

[jewelzinbox]

People can debate if God is real or not but they can't take away your experiences with Him. There is no doubt in my mind that God is real and He sees me. This morning, I stayed home from my life group because of anger. I cannot fake what I'm feeling so I didn't want to bring that this morning to the group. Especially because what I'm going through has been talked about with these women several times before. I felt ashamed that I was once again dealing with my anger. I know that's good and bad to stay away from the community but today it was good because just as I asked the LORD about how to deal with my anger, this popped up. It had been posted 12 minutes before I asked Him for help. I cried from the depths of my soul and it was the cry I needed. This episode is full of Godly wisdom and wonderful action steps to take to unravel the roots of anger. I thank God for speaking but also for these precious women of God who were brave enough to share parts of their lives with us.

[roslyngraham]

This is just what I need bc last night God showed me my anger and jealousy issues. Thank you sisters for your transparency and honesty and rawness

[OhItsSiennaFaith]

Thank you for addressing this topic today. I need to heal from unspoken boundaries and the grieve from feeling I won’t be provided for when I say no. Please help us Jesus to be empowered over a slave mentality so we can function from rest on a permanent basis

[alaneofmyown]

Depending on who the anger is toward, it can be a challenge to control. I feel that the anger definitely seems more powerful when it is with a person I care about or have close relations to. I seem to be able to pause when the anger or frustration is with someone outside of my personal life. Probably because the people closest to my life know how to press my buttons, why they would want to do that is mind boggling. However, it is up to me to control how I react. I need to learn what triggers me when constantly encountering those certain people.

[roslyngraham]

I don’t know how to deal with conflict and have the hard conversations. I don’t explode. I just let things go. I do go to God & cry out to & I really try to pray through it but there are still unresolved issues. Thank you again so very much. It’s like I smothered some things but not dealt with them. Help me Jesus

[NakaggwaGorretPatience-dcpt]

🙌 Thank you Lord, please help get rid of anger issues and fill me with your peace and love, Amen 🙌🙏

[viktoriastelmakh-tomv]

This is such a powerful message! I actually got delivered while watching this program, I felt like something left me and tears went down my cheeks. I feel joy and peace in my chest area. I know now that the anger inside of me was from the hurt in my past. Thank you Lord for making me free 🔥❤️

[patjohnson]

Thank You Holy Spirit for this powerful truth.

[jpope]

Thank you ladies for being vulnerable for the purpose of the betterment of others. You aren’t alone. We have these experiences too ❤

[laurennicholsofficial]

Great pearls. Anger leading to sin takes too much energy. Surrendering my emotions to God and navigating my anger has been helpful. Thank you ladies!

[sharwis]

I didn't come by this episode accidentally. Thank God for His Holy Spirit. He has enabled me to understand the reasons for anger. A loving, not a condemning, Father, but one who wants me healed and free, forever! Praise God.

[LS-crek]

I am experiencing this also with my son. It was to the point in one season when i pick my son up from school and right as im putting the key in the door my son say. Mom has was your day good or bad. When he got a older like a year or 2 later he now say stop yelling at me. So now since im aware of his feelings even in my pain and from how i was yelled at as a kid. I dont want to be like that with my kid. So im grateful my child was able to express this too me. Thank you everyone this is really a sensitive conversation

[breaunger]

As a single mother an adult orphan in my 30s, I glean so much from BETTER TOGETHER. ❤ It's become the very thing that has strengthen me from hopelessness and now it's shared with my kids father, my little sister, my younger cousin. I lost myself and I found their the pain this holy comfort and peace as I journey their the unknown. My hope is coming back. My life is looking more Christ like. My grief has been unpacked and is still being unpacked as I'm watching major transformation. I can't thank you enough for this ministry. I pray you are all so very blessed. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for being my Godly council when I didn't know where to turn.

[vroruth]

Ladies, thank you so much for this amazing episode! I have had an anger issue for as long as I can remember. I never understood why God would not take it away, no matter how much I prayed and rebuked it. I learned so much, and now I know I can begin my journey to learning how to control my anger. God bless you all!

[nicolamair]

I lost it yesterday at famiy and loosing it at work. Then the next day this came up. God is definitely trying to tell me something

[rosewright-scott]

Yes there’s a big difference between responding & reacting!!

[magicmya]

Thank you ❤ this conversation is a wonderful blessing

[BrennonOne]

AMAZING discussion. Had me looking in the mirror the entire time. Never heard anger discussed so intently. Thank y'all for this.

[joanneregan]

Thank you sistas.. I have unresolved anger..I am aware of it and of course it's stems from childhood.. I was not allowed feelings so I was always crying from anger.... enormous responsibility as a child..again thank you ladies God is using these sessions with you 5 specifically.. I am so grateful he is going to help heal me. 🙏🙌

[godisgreat]

Wow, God is good I was praying about this topic and I saw the notification right after ❤🎉