You're Reading Too Much Into It (From A Psychotherapist)

It's common to read too much into things after a breakup!

Craig talks about how we often scrutinize every detail of a break up and why we do it.

[android]

"You said 'I can't be friends anymore...it would kill me!' ... THAT is an attachment trauma."

The attachment material you teach is so helpful, Craig. Thanks.

[glenndiddy]

My mans came on so strong even I felt like rejecting him.

[flatwankel]

3 days into NC lmao! That guy was hilarious

[HugDealer]

WOW. Especially now that dating sites allow wide range of choices, one needs to accept that when someone is single they may be meeting with many people. Does not make them a player! A relationship is not a relationship until both parties agree on that and that they will be exclusive (normally). I had guys I had simply met once (some even zero times.. just talked over phone) blowing up when I dropped them after starting a new relationship and it is pathetic. No other way to call it, I understand the disappointment but every adult needs to be realistic!

[QueenToKingOfSpades]

I really don’t samme know when she’s on messenger. I don’t care what she’s doing because that’s her business. She is probably not looking at me, so why should I look for her? The problem is that it does put me in a bit of an anxious state by default, but if I deactivate the show active status thing, it permanently fixes her face as my top recommendation, so my only choice is to block her, but I don’t wanna do that. Guess it just gets better with time.

[victoriamartinez]

Lol I know this is serious for that guy but you are just cracking me up I haven't laughed in a couple of days I really enjoy your videos you really ought to have a sitcom

[williamklimek]

Craig, I have watched many videos at this point, and I am painfully conscious that I talk too much, though I often do not verbalize it. You help people with your insights and understanding, it is evident you truly intend to help them and I am also sure many benefit accordingly. My status is in development, a story in the making. Thank you for all the confirmation of right thinking and encouragement you give, God bless you.

[Coleslaw]

For the first month and a half of NC, i would check my ex's Facebook/Messenger to see when and if she was active. After convincing myself that there was nothing to gain, i stopped doing that. I'm still in NC, 2 1/2 months now. Even tho i still wonder and think about her, ik checking won't bring her back. Don't let it mess with your mind people.

[NickElliottOutdoors]

I think he was telling her to have a beautiful life... Not saying that they could have a beautiful life together

[hotstrawberry]

What I see going on here is, a couple of things. First, the timing of her relationship status post is odd. Seems that during the catch up convo she would have mentioned dating someone if this was just two friends at a platonic get together. Maybe she picked up on his vibe of wanting more and wanted to deter him. Second, a lot of men seem to think that the only thing required is for them to be interested and after that the woman is obligated to return the feeling, or at least entertain them with dating or whatever else. He sounds like that kind of guy. Like he just can't believe she doesn't want him back because he wants her, and that's all he needs to do.

[Dad_Brad]

I’ve gone to counseling weekly for years, and it seems like 1 hour goes by pretty fast, especially when dealing with traumatic life difficulties. Would a 1 hour coaching really be enough to cover the whole story of my breakup and then get feedback from you? My story is just crazy long and complicated. Thanks coach.

[sabordelicia]

I learn everyday with you.Love when you said : You guys keep me too busy! Your are allover Europe, Brazil ...

[mikeambrosio]

coach! that was by far the most entertaining and insightful video yet! great work! I feel sorry for that dude! but sadly many men act this way!

[ginag]

You were hysterical on this one! 😂. I had a good laugh.

[emiliohernandez]

lmao the part where you said SHE CANT BE GOING OUT WITH THAT GUY, SHE'S ONLINE, can you read peoples mind? that's so me lol

[kirkv]

So true about the Facebook logging on and off. I wish you could do more videos about Facebook postings. My girlfriend read too much into my post and I think she always feels it's directed towards her. My girlfriend posted that she's a free spirit on Facebook. I'm not sure what that means and how that falls into a relationship.

[kellb]

Honestly what a great video. Really made me laugh. Was so interesting to see this guys attachment style play out from his behaviour & the email he sent you in.

This whole video was so funny yet so insightful. 😂☺️

[majadera]

coach how to diffirentiate overthinking with gut feeling?

[buek]

"It was the exact moment that I realized'" feel the drama

[LiLgPnoy]

This dude is for sure an anxious attachment.