Ben Affleck Had 'Not Going Anywhere' Engraved on J Lo's Engagement Ring | TMZ Live

Ben Affleck’s exit is official, despite past promises he’d stick around -- not only in his wedding vows ... but also on the epic engagement ring he gifted Jennifer Lopez.

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[binge]

The greatest love story ever told -vs- The greatest discard ever told. Most epic couple of the year!!!!

[roselipestana]

That was not love. That was short lived passion. Period. End of story.

[paulinathesalsadancer]

The thing is, she should have kept these things personal and private. She has made things worse by telling the whole world all this stuff that Ben would have preferred to keep between them. Now it’s just making her look bad. If people laugh or raise their eyebrows is because we know what what engraved in the ring… as well as so much stuff we don’t really need to know….. but she felt the world NEEDED to know

[Mylife-gzg]

It’s a reverse discard. He didn’t go anywhere but he forced her to get out of it.

[edup-]

Tmz reporter is SO RIGHT when he said: "There are no guarantees in life...even if u engrave it on a ring" LESSON !!!!

[MissteryDiva]

Ben engraved "Not going anywhere" in the rings meaning the marriage is not going anywhere except divorce

[RozyRoPink]

He meant…. He’s not going anywhere with her

[NompiloKhumalo-jmsm]

That itself was one of many red flags in their reunion

[kareenbucknor]

It’s sad … some things should’ve been left in private … 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[pmd]

She needs to never talk again about any of her relationships. And never marry another guy again.

[peekaboots]

Sad. If only she would have kept their love private.

[anamoscoso]

It is very sad! Ben walked out on his marriage and walked on JLo’s kids, he disrespected his marriage commitment.
I feel so sorry for Max and Emme, they did not deserve this.

[taitepassingan]

At first I was thinking JLO is the problem but after hearing how he pursued her and then enscibes that on her ring? Ben is brutal. Why would he do all that already knowing who she is before he proposed? How can appear to be so invested and then suddenly not. It just shows it wasnt true... of course its humiliating becuase she was actually duped! Crazy 😮 she very well might be a difficult person but the both of them seem to be awful people

[nawal]

Never go back to an ex who screwed u over the 1st time and left u for someone else anyways.

[nataliewilkinson]

Ben is wrong. He knew her lifestyle when he married her. He messed her around. I cant believe he did this to her again, and so quickly.

[lam]

Ben is also a narcissist and love bombed her because that’s what they do! She never should have taken him back, addicts enjoy highs… he has never remained sober for long. All those rehab visits were after JLO .. while he was with Jen Garner. He needs to learn to be alone & sober. JLO please stay single and enjoy your kids, family and being a mom. Your kids don’t need another step father or New siblings.

[laurae]

I think everyone was hoping it would work out. He’s a private guy and she puts it all out there. She needs to be by herself for a while.

[IsaiahWayne]

Batman is more loyal to Gotham than he is to any woman.

[Prodrig]

This is a very tough lesson to be learned. People might say there is something they want, but what they mean is they are interested but not committed. I think what hurts the person that believes the message is that some where deep inside they allowed themselves to be deceived. She is a good business woman and if she had weighed his words like a business deal, she would have none his words carry no weight. She allowed herself to be vulnerable with an unstable man. He might have wasted her time but she’ll be alright. Good rinse!

[gwenbarton]

The one thing I must say is that I appreciate how Jenn Garner came to his aid when he needed it the most with his substance use (drinking). That’s not an easy task to see someone you love go through that but to stand in their truth and help them, that’s a true woman who deserves an honor worth recognizing. Kudos to her. As for the other women, I will keep those comments to myself and just say that I hope he truly finds love !!!! Team Ben !!!!