I regret divorcing my ex husband??

[lifeonthetablewithnoxolom]

My kids told me I should have left a long time ago instead of exposing them to a home of toxicity

[KaraboApril]

Staying for the sake of children will never be a good idea, because you will be raising broken children as you will be hurting as well stay if you are treated well, go if you are disrespected

[BlessingAdachukwu]

Am a better mum because I divorced. I was in pains and transfering anger to my child. Am sane and happier and am raising a happy child not a bitter child

[LebohangMmihi]

Divorce is never a good thing, but dying with a bitter heart for someone else's happiness is worse. 😮

[tamaramkula]

This is a difficult one. Some situations are unbearable. You can't stay with someone who emotionally unavailable. That's the worst torture.

[Alegria-Alegria]

There are adults still dealing with trauma wounds caused by their parents toxic marriages, instead of ' staying for the sake of the children' it's better for mothers to 'leave for the sake of their children'.

[zestlife]

It depends on the circumstances. Safety is paramount because it can mean the difference between life and death.

[Claire-ihj]

Amazing video A month ago, my relationship of five years came to an end. The choice to break up with the person I love is something that really gets to me. Even though it's all for nothing, l've done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my existence without him. I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I still can't help but miss him and think about him often. I don't know why l am saying this here.

[Mrlaverse]

I would advise anyone who is in a toxic relationship to go through divorce. But not because of silly things like feelings.

[jaligawesa]

Toxicity destroys children’s personality and mental health as well… better to divorce than living in a TOXIC MARRIAGE!

[tracysimms]

Agreed but that is why discernment and being equally yoked is very important. I was married for almost 10 years and I wish I had the dicernment that I have now.

[kingkony]

That is the most truthful thing. Divorce destroys people. People act happy but damn you feel the loss

[yolisamrso]

Its her story and conviction... why should she change her story to suit you. Why are you guys so triggered by her honesty....its seems like many are offended by her own truth. Divorce is not always good.

[craigrulz]

It is so painful to grow up witnessing parental differences and fights as a child, the memories haunt you forever, as an adult at 40 i overeact to man that bash their women in the same manner i struggled to stop my own father bashing my mother...IT IS SO UNHEALTHY IN EVERYWAY, i struggle now to bring up my family in a manner opposite my parent's behaviour back then...to everybody who went through this trauma may you find strength to forgive forget heal and be an ambassador of change...it cuts too deep

[rosebellewaihenya]

Divorce is like leaving Egypt, you keep looking back. My mum didn’t divorce and we grew up in a very violent and toxic environment, we all now are divorced from men who were more violent than my dad.
Staying for the kids only teaches them to accept the unacceptable.
Her advice is wrong

[khabomajola]

It's a personal choice to stay or to leave. Some stay for the kids, and some leave for the kids, so it's truly a personal choice.

[TaadiM-zu]

Toxic relationships can cause depression. .. which is equivalent to insanity.

[tkasiam]

I don't regret leaving my ex, I come first before anyone.

[bongythwala]

I think she was the one causing problems in her Marriage, I will never regret Divorcing someone who's Abusing me Social, Physical, Verbal, Emotional, because staying with those thing, it like am killing my self, my kids will be Orphan soon.

[shandapuhhuh]

I come from a married parents home and it's nothing to glorify. Aim to raise healthy (emotionally and physically) children rather than worrying about statistics and how you appear to others.