THE WAITING GAMES OF THE NARCISSIST

[sjwilloughby-greene]

Thank you. I am in no contact with everyone from my past, and honestly I work and come home. I have no friends outside of my job, and I don't date. I am rebuilding my life from the ground up. It's coming along nicely. ✌️💛👍

[theguynextdoor]

My Narcissist ex would always say: tomorrow we will finalise the papers. She then disappeared for weeks, and said: Tomorrow we will finalise... in the end I delivered papers directly to the court without telling her to get a divorce without her consent. This is Europe, not US. They are just professional emotional vampires.

[macseagle]

The number one rule of dealing with a narc is 100% NO CONTACT.
It can be tough as times but there's no other way to play.
The more time passes the better you'll feel. Stay strong my fellow empaths.

[marybarton]

Been there, done that ALL the above...and the tx-ing...sucks. I gave them the benefit of the doubt and made excuses for them, but in my gut I knew...and after getting the knowledge, I stopped allowing these narcs to do this to me and blocked them right away...now, I just don't accept friend requests anymore. I don't have time or energy to waste on them 💯%.
Great video, Andrew.

[suzismith]

Its always, everything on their terms. Nothing ever is given without strings attached. We are the puppet, to do what they want on their schedule, and we are expected to know the agenda. The real agenda is leave, save what is left of your own true self and make life your way. Xx

[gratefultobehere]

What I ESPECIALLY can no longer tolerate is the double standard (from all narcissists) who keep people waiting for their grand entrance, but rip others apart for having authentic situations that arise for their own belated arrival (and take personal accountability and apologize).
Another great video Andrew 💯💪
And the education keeps spreading ❤️🙏

[wendelsbruckenheimer]

So true. Now that I think about it, I was always first one to the restaurant. And I wasn’t even early, I was just on time.

[DonaHelms]

Oh I remember the waiting game all to well, to much time waisted on that. And if I find anything in my house of his, it goes right into the trash. It's part of the past, period.
Thank ya Andrew for the video tonight, it's very true.
God bless ya and the tribe here on the channel. 😁👃✝️

[cynthialeahy]

Dang this is the worst. Started my sixth year of his divorce of me. Hidden assets, financial destruction... no honoring the court orders... 33 years invested - just gotta press forward. Do not give up, do not give in - especially during their waiting games; patience. Thank you Andrew. JTree here 🙏

[roslyncerro]

Like I have said before, hope is not a strategy. And, create your own closure. You have given them too much time already. Granted, it can be lonely at the top. Lonely beats abuse . Freedom rocks, and better late than never ❣️

[elizabethflorez]

Yes, you are darned if you do & darned if you don’t

[suzanneatwood]

Oh my goodness, so glad to have found you.
I have spent most of my adult life, wondering why my siblings don’t like me… why they think poorly of me..etc etc… I would ruminate and assume others think the same, so I was always with low self worth. Finally seeing the light, at age 63 hope it’s not too late and I can actually learn to love myself. Thank you Andrew for what you do!

[luizsalles]

Yes Andrew, you are always right. Thanks for that. They love waiting game, silence game and many other games, but if you find another person that fills this void they come running to give you attention.

[carolynholcomb]

Always late. To important to be on time. Grand entrance.

[katietomas]

I am listening and can't believe with who I spend year and half, everything what you said Andrew Is exactly what happened to me literally everything, I am just sad I didn't know anything about narcissist individuals, so sick, so, so evil. Thanks Andrew ⚘️

[matthewdietzen]

Being made to wait, then being gaslit about it was the biggest source of stress.

[kathk]

New year ! New chapter! Life is too precious to play games with the MOST meaningful and important relationship in your life. The second you sense any disrespect or anything ...time to go bye bye. HAPPY NEW Years to everyone here!!

[SusanW-lcrp]

another piece of the puzzle is in place WOW. Honestly I'm a hot mess right now but also happy and never looking back!!

[debrastadnyk]

Today is my down day. Today I'm ruminating in my mind & I feel is due to negative energy around me...narsistic energy. It's real & it motivates you to find closure.
Thank you Andrew💗Namaste💗thank you for the information & the education. Time for a salt bath & pamper myself today.💗

[annewilliams]

I had a “narcissist friend “ years ago who held up my birthday party for 2 hours due to her drama at home. Every 30 minutes promising she’d be there “in a minute “. You could just see the joy in her face as she showed up to my party to take center stage to tell all the people there all her marital drama. Such a pretend victim.