7 Things You Must Never Do With a Narcissist

Break the Trauma Bond in 5 Steps:

Master Coparenting with A Narcissist:

chapters
00:00 introduction

00:48 1. Never get involved with a Narcissist financially

02:36 2. Do not believe anything they say

04:31 Course announcement

05:01 3.Do not ever think of going therapy with them

06:26 4. Do not believe their hopeless hope

08:11 5. Do not believe all the nasty names they call you

09:54 6. Do not give them access to your personal life

11:12 Trauma bond course Announcement

11:41 7. Do not fall victim to sunk cost fallacy

[cindys.]

"A narcissist's accusations are their confessions." Perfect!

[nessauk]

They will look a gift horse in the mouth.They will take kindness as weakness.When you show them generosity they will want more whilst shamelessly never returning the favour.

[theyellowshoe]

This video is why I treat my narcissistic husband as an annoying roommate. A roommate doesn't need to know my business!

[a.williams]

"Think the worst and you'll be certain" is the motto that always works with a narcissist.

[eleonorabartoli]

"Never go on vacation with them" instantly came to my mind when I saw the title. They are heavily traumatic times instead.

[helpinyerdasellavon]

Always expect the worst from a narcissist. Never believe a word they say but pay attention to what they do. They hate being exposed because it reveals how horrible they really are and don't want people to know. Keep away from them. This video is spot on, Danish! 🎯

[franmcdonald]

1. Financially, partnership.
My boss, the narc, is a financial advisor (aka crook)!
2. Believe opposite of what they say . (LIARS)
3. DO NOT go to therapy with them. It won't change them
4. Do not believe their hopeless hope of change.
5. Do not believe the nasty names they call you.
6. Do not give them access to your personal life. (My boss,
Narc, wanted me available evenings and weekends! I said no. He fired me!)
7. Sunk cost.
( It has only been 5 days since I was fired and already my health is improved. I am happier and more at peace.I am sleeping better! worth it . I will find another job.)

[a.williams]

This is spot on and so helpful. Narcissists are so obsessed with money that they can't wait to get their hands on other people's by all means, they are not to be trusted at all, they are liars, traitors and thieves. Never show any weakness to them and avoid any exposure revealing information about yourself because they are hungry for anything to use it against you. Keep strong and safe. Thank you, Danish 🙏🏻💜

[victoriahall]

Loaned small amount to narc, he made one payment and threw a tantrum screaming yelling he didn't want to pay me back....Keep shinning the Light Bright Danish😊👍👍👍👍❤❤❤❤❤....this was a 52yr old man....

[annjohnson]

My narcissistic husband just spent almost all my inheritance on a new pickup truck and fishing boat for himself. Joint bank accounts are not a good idea with a narcissist!!!

[qvnwdqf]

Everything you said is spot on. Narcisists are driven by evil forces and they bring drama, trauma, chaos and destruction everywhere they go and in everything they do. We must have nothing to do with evil. Thank you Danish 😊 God bless you ❤

[jeanlewis]

Spot on!My Narc adoptive brother took my entire parent’s Estate.I lost everything including my School Reports!

[judithwilliams]

Never stay with one. You will have a horrible life.

[therealaayan]

A narcissist thinks:
Their money is their money,
My money is their money,
My family's money is their money, and
The entire world's money is their money.

[hettykoster]

My narcissist ex and I had 5 years of relationship therapy, which didn't help at all . He said : “ I thought the therapy was only just for you “ 😢
It was a torture chamber indeed ….
Don’t ever go in there !!

[franken-pattern]

I did "sunk cost" for a little while, but I finally chalked up the loss and moved on. Was it easy? Fk no. Am I glad that I moved on? Only every waking moment of my life! 🎉 Thank you for another great episode, Danish 🎉

[life-rethought]

I married one unknowingly. I lasted 10 months and ran.

before I ran I started smelling a rat. and quickly began closing any financial openings. and planned my escape.
he drug the divorce on for a year. did everything possible to not leave my home. he left the evening before I brought in law enforcement.

[JennyThePooh]

I wish I had known this a long time ago. This is Probably the best information I could have ever known. If I could turn back time, I would do it all differently. If I'd have known it would end up like this, I would have run and never looked back. It wasn't worth everything I deal with now. Thank you for this information. This is life changing info right here!!

[bakaratn]

#7 was insidious for me in the marriage (17yrs). "Never give up, never surrender" is for movies and will NOT work with a narcspouse. Because of this whole "i must not be trying hard enough" mentality, i know i never would have left. It took outside factors (eg, the cops & state) to make the defining break, lest a breaking of bones and /or windows occurred. *You. Can't. Fix. It.* Whatever is in them was broken long ago, and they've plastered it all over into obscurity... which happens to be THE SAME PLACE they want to bury You.

[krystalhenryruss]

A certain family member let the narcissist be on the title to his house. The day they were supposed to move in together she threw a fit over something stupid and tried to file a false police report, he said maybe it’s not a good idea for her to move in, and she threatened that she would make him have to sell the house. Definitely don’t do anything financially with a narcissist or let them know where your finances are. Tell them nothing!