we all have that one friend...

silly little vid from instagram

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[fefe]

I genuinely hate friends that make you feel like you’re just there if their partner isn’t

[selene]

Right !! To be honest i feel like im wasting so much energy and losing my self value when im with these type of friends because every single interaction with them is always about them and their man and never about our friendship. Makes me feel unimportant and used.

[uber]

Doesn't matter what you're happy about. Its only their shit that matters.

[-Couch_Potato-]

Yup, had one friend like that. I don't exist when she has a man and as soon as there any issues - I become the jacket to cry on. She was single when I got into my relationship with my husband. I did everything so things would stay the same between us and she didn't feel left out. Didn't get the same treatment when she got in the next relationship. Basically ghosted me. We still go to the same uni so sometimes we did small talk.
Once it slipped out of her that she's getting married. As soon as she said that I saw the look of regret on her face - she didn't plan on telling me nor inviting me to the wedding.
That time it finally clicked - I wasn't really a friend, I was a pair of free ears to pour her troubles in when she needed it. Welp, I decided to just stop caring about a person that doesn't care about me. Her wedding got canceled (they broke up over the idea of how the wedding was supposed to be). Of course, she came to me to cry, but I refused to listen to it. Hoo boy she was furious. Told me what an awful friend I am and that I'm going to regret it when my husband (back then boyfriend) dumps me. Then she proceeded to send photos of her in her bikini to my husband and be like "whoops wrong dialogue haha sorry".
Sure, girl, sure 😂

[KuticorBuilds]

The way u had to get the chicken before leaving LOL 😂

[pattystar]

I cut off a friend like this. I understand being heartbroken is tough. But, having the same issue over and over again and toxic for my being.

[Livingrentfreeinyomind]

They forget you exist when they have a man and things are good, but they can’t stop talking about him when things are bad. And when they’re single, it’s all about how men are trash. When really they can’t wait to throw you under the bus when a guy comes along. It really hurts. Hurts to think I considered her a friend.

[avalovesskz]

YES!!
i literally cant stress it enoughh.

[gabkaib]

HELP THE COMING BACK FOR THE FOOD IS SO REAL 😭😭✋️

[roseheathens]

I literally couldn’t stand her. Like I would spend all day trying to cheer her up, only for her to abandon me in the middle of dinner so she could go ‘’meet up with him”

[SwedePotato]

Oh my GOD. Im 37 and I still have friends like this that I've had to pretty much cut out. It gets worse after their first divorce, they never get better. Because they rushed into a first marriage and then fall in "love" with the next man who gives them attention. I've been married to my husband for almost 10 years and they seem to really... Almost hold that against me? Idk. But they'll always push to get me to go out with them and wingman at the bar for them. Like nah I'm gonna stay home with hubs, that sounds like the worst time ever. Avoid people like this at all costs.

[nootnoot]

See I don’t mind if any of my girlies talk about boy problems when we meet, but if it’s abt the same dude with the same set of problems every single time within the span of months or worse, YEARS then it should’ve been a clear indicator that you need a new man. Or a new friend, since what i said clearly didn’t get through

[anonelle]

I’ve been this friend, glad my friends stuck around while I worked thru my issues, I realize now how trying it must’ve been for them

[nadinebreaty]

Not the coming back to have the food😭😭

[lauren-kitsuneroach]

THIS IS SO REAL… like girl it’s been two minutes

[Gremlinnn]

That friend who’s so obsessed in their relationship that in consumes them to the point they’re literally ignoring you for their partner even when their partner isn’t even there. Like their entire life stops the moment they get into a relationship and you feel like nothing but a filler.
Edit: if you make plans to hang out with your friend… do that. Whether he is texting back or not, shouldn’t matter. Because you shouldn’t be texting him while you’re supposed to be hanging out with your friend. He can wait an hour for your 9th “wrud” text of the day.

[ballerinaonamusicbox]

or when they’re like “i miss my man😞” then go find him tf? what do you want me to do

[byronn.]

Energy vampires. They sucks the energy right out of the room

[binnieache]

like i care for you but it’s exhausting when all you want to do is talk about your relationship

[deenabanana]

This. I had a friend that would ghost out on me when she’s happy with her life (but gave lame excuses of how she was busy) but would reenter my life whenever things were not going well. Last time she did, she pretended to miss me but i found out later that she had a falling-out with her friends, and that it happened merely a week before she started talking to me again. And as usual, most of our conversations centred around her problems in life. Once i noticed the pattern, I left her for good.