The Woman Who Thinks She Is PERFECT

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[ChevySamk]

another episode of alex getting lost in a forest and his survival instincts telling him to make a youtube video

[TotalImmortl]

My teacher once told me, "A perfect person always compares themselves with what they were yesterday, so that they can make their future better. A perfect person knows their faults and actively works in fixing them."

By this definition, we can get a watered down version of the statement: "A perfect person knows their imperfections and works in fixing them."

[kostasvag]

She was looking for the perfect man, at the end of the day she found him...but he was looking also for the perfect woman...

[rajakghosh]

Any woman who says "I'm the table" usually do not have a man sitting at the table.

[GeneralProfessor]

“The shadow is a living part of the personality and therefore wants to live with it in some form. It cannot be argued out of existence or rationalized into harmlessness.”

- Carl Jung

[MrDeykar]

I think even if perfection would exist, it would be extremely unattractive. Because it wouldnt feel like youre dating a real person, but more like a fantasy. I would feel uncomfortable, because you cant possibly match and return what the other person has to offer.

[heybinay]

It is a great sign of narcissism if you hear someone presenting themselves as perfect or Godlike. If you are experiencing this alongside gaslighting and constant pleasing that person, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship with him or her.

I suggest Dr. Ramani and Dr. Vaknin's videos as a start.

[benzinamoktar]

It is shameful for me to say but as a man I actually had the character of the woman you're describing so I am fully aware of its dangers

[ooloongjohnson]

I have to say some of your videos hit hard and really punch into my cognitive dissonance real hard. Sometimes I just stop the video halfway because I actually can't take it, because I know it's all too true and real. But having unrealistic expectations is something that creates toxic relationships and makes me chase after non-existant unicorns only to be "betrayed" by others, when in reality I'm the one betraying myself, and wasting my time along the line too.

So thanks for all your content. Thanks to you, I'll likely find a way to finally form healthy relationships.

[spider]

You're describing a narcissist. I can confirm, they are not fun to be in a relationship with.

[enlightenedempath]

This advice, as always, is truly helpful. I remember my covert narcissist ex... she was so damn delusional that she thought she was absolutely perfect, and of course she never apologized for having rage burst episodes, in fact, I still believe that once these abusive tantrums ended, they were completely erased from her brain, so she could live with no guilt/shame. Guys be very careful of people living a in a fantasy world.

[firemanredsusman]

Young man, young man, young man. Don't rush things and never settle for a woman who isn't kind and humble.

[notanotherspiritualguru]

Ooof lol
Yes to all of this! I see this in the spiritual communities I'm a part of all the time... Lol it's sad. It's called "shadow integration" not "shadow denial" lmao... So many women in that community think they've "finished" their shadow work, and are now pure angels of light and love lol

[oscaraurelio]

The synonym of "I am perfect" when you get to know someone a bit deeper, male or female, is "I will not change".
For me, there are only two kinds of people who will never ever change: the fools and the deads. All other people are expected to not perceive themselves as perfect, hence to evolve, hopefully for better.

[riaasingh]

Lots of respect for Alex after watching fresh and fit podcast. Alex is much more educating, well researched and respectful person! He doesn’t just bash women but explains psychology and biology behind his claims. He needs to be famous not those douchebags wearing ceo chains and becoming famous by inviting thots to their streams. Lol! Alex please start doing live and find an editor, the world needs your content!

[neorev]

A narcissist cannot face their flaws so they find their flaws in you and will punish you for having those flaws.

[ProfWho-uthe]

Fair enough, but I never met a woman that fits your description. Most women see all kind of flaws in themselves although they are totally fine human beings.

[chook]

People with imperfections are perfect to me. It's what makes people interesting, how everyone thinks and acts differently.

[diegotavel]

EVERY vvoman in the World thinks that she is a special, rare and unique UNICORN

[ivansalamon]

I haven't encountered this to be honest, at least not in this way. I did encounter it in the opposite way that I think tries to achieve the same ends. I had encountered a woman HIDING behind her distorted or even fake self-awareness of being imperfect. "Oh its my BDP, I needed to "feel", "I'm not a good girlfriend to you", "I told you I'm not perfect, this is who I am"... I don't know, its a thin line between self awareness and using one's flaws solely and I mean SOLELY as a way to dodge accountability. They'll proudly acknowledge and incorporate them not to have to work on them. Its bizzare to me that anyone but a narcissist would exclaim they are perfect, but sure, there are subtle, nuanced ways of doing so.