How To Say Sorry For Hurting Someone You Love

The least we want to do to someone we love is to hurt them. What do we do when we hurt someone we love? How do we say we're sorry? Here are 5 tips for you:

1. Be sincere
2. Be specific
3. Focus on the person who is hurt
4. Stay in front of your but
5. Offer to share what you have learned

Watch and Enjoy!
Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[DeVanteWilliams]

I Really Want This Person To Forgive Me I Cry Everyday... 😭😭😭

[EpistemicLocus]

1. Sincere
2. Specific
3. Focus on the person
4. No but! (with one "t")
5. *If its appropriate* share the thing we learned from that mistake.

[shaynahenkelman]

I messed up really horribly.... I'm SO thankful I have a husband that is too stubborn to give up on me! I hope I can use the tools I learned here to express myself better

[estellebiyiha]

Saying sorry if you hurt someone its important as important as receiving those apologies if you the one who have been repeatedly hurt. 😊

[georgeannepanos]

Why is it that some feel that apologizing is a sign of weakness? Am I wrong for thinking that a person that can do just that, earns respect.

[xdivrdown]

this guy is just over here casually saving my friendship

[marcychristoff]

I was a bonehead today with my husband and said very hurtful things. I apologized but I think a follow-up is needed and I will use your tips. Thank you. 👏

[burv]

This is very unpopular, but you saved me 😅

[markrichardosn]

You just don’t know how this video positively saved my relationship. Thank you sir for providing with those great expensive sessions for free

[deva]

You made me realise that “BUT” was an issue thank you 😊

[gauravkumai]

This guy is a legend....he is still replying in the comment section to people on such an old sir🙏💯

[jed]

I didn’t know how to express my apology to my gf. We’re in a LDR and you saved us. Thank you!!!

[riadenssonkamz]

This was somewhat helpful....but I screwed up big time with this person....saying they were never there for me. Now they even told me they wont, because I was ungrateful...I know exactly what I did wrong, and will never get a second chance... I'd like to get one good apology in before I give up on it.

[akshatawagh]

I have hurt my boyfriend by saying again and again that he has lost interest in me and he is so angry he needs to be at peace..I feel so sad and want to be forgiven

[natefmx]

I hurt a girl who is very special to me i never realized my faults I am selfish, manipulative, I don't always think of her feelings first and I am also kind hearted, loving, giving. I am not sure if she will forgive me but after doing some soul searching all I want is for her to be happy weather or not that's with me she is an amazing person and she deserves to be happy.

[DreamWolf]

Wow. I have trouble processing information and I actually understood this. This is such an amazing lesson. Thank you

[shemiahlee]

Yea I definitely messed up in my apology... I am sincerely sorry and have been crying all day and night because I hurt this person. I messed up bad and I wish I had done things better including my apology 🤦🏾‍♀️

[weldinggirl]

Me: Stop reading the comments and focus on the video....

[jdkdksldjdiskslsksl]

I apologied, went sincere and specific, cried even though people were seeing me, fell on the floor with my knees, looked down and told her I loved her. She answered : "Sorry I just can't..." It's been 41 days and I'm lost

[Nana-lfhr]

I accidentally asked my friend out loud and annoyed why she was taking so long to read something and she didn’t respond. I later asked her again and she told me I she had dyslexia. Everyone in the room looked at me angry. I felt so bad. I later apologized over text and she told me it was fine and we started talking about other things. I still think she’s sad and that everyone in my class hates me now