Using Ring Theory Paradigm When Dealing With a Terminal Illness | Daniel Miller M.D.

An exploration into the benefits and limitations of Ring Theory.

Key points:
👉 In Ring Theory, the ill partner becomes the priority, and the other partner cannot reveal their angst and grief to them.

👉 Ring Theory may benefit the person earlier in the illness, but other approaches should be considered for the longer term.

👉 The most important tool in a relationship is a couple's ability to communicate. No single paradigm can take its place.

Daniel Miller, M.D., has been caring for people with advanced illnesses for many years. He has worked in the medical field for many years, including as a primary care physician, urgent care doctor, hospital doctor, and as a hospice and palliative care doc. He hosts community groups that meet both in-person and online; topics include living with advanced illness and philosophical/theological issues such as faith at the end of life or the difference between the sacred and the profane.

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The ring theory is very beautiful 🙏🏼I have been diagnosed with motor neurone disease and my then husband became a stranger. He did not want to know. When I was put into palliative care I decided to divorce him. I also fought with my medical team, to not have me in palliative care. As it felt to me as if I was put in the bin. I now live happily with my two young daughters. Despite the diagnosis. I would have loved the rings of support around me. But I think the strength I have gathered during my mnd journey will keep me stronger for longer. Thankyou for this insightful video🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟